How to Look Older (for Pre Teens)

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Being a preteen is awesome! If you want to look a bit older, though, we totally get that. We have some great tips to share with you, starting with easy ways to update your clothes, hair, and makeup. Then, we'll touch on a few ways to carry yourself more like a teen or young adult.

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Wear classic clothing styles that fit you well.

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    Black jeans, collared shirts, button-downs, pea coats, and leggings are just a few examples of classic pieces that always look good. To look older, choose items that fit you well. [1] Try to avoid clothes that are super baggy or too tight. [2]
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Wear an all-black outfit.

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    Wearing monochrome outfits make a stylish statement and shows everyone that you put thought and effort into your look. Black always looks stylish and grownup, but you can try other neutral colors, too. [6]
    • Neutral colors: black, grey, tan, cream, white, navy, and brown.
    • See what shoe colors you have first since they need to match, too. You probably have mostly black, white, and/or brown, so build your outfit from there.
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Avoid clothes with bold graphics and prints.

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    Stick with simple clothes, especially shirts, without graphics. Avoid anything with huge logos or cartoon characters on them. Wild prints can also make you look younger.
    • Avoid sports team T-shirts and jerseys when you're trying to look older. [7]
    • Striped tops are great, just choose subdued, neutral colors. For example, try a white and navy striped T-shirt. [8]
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Iron the wrinkles out of your clothes.

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    See if your parents have a clothing iron or steamer around the house and ask them to show you how to use it. Hang up your clothes when you're done ironing. That way, they'll stay wrinkle-free until you put them on! [9]
    • It's easy to burn yourself, so be sure to ask your parents for help.
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Swap your sneakers for flats or boots.

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    For example, sneakers can be cool if you rock a pair of Converse, Jordans, or Vans. Otherwise, stick with a cute pair of flats, loafers, or boots. Shoes with low heels are also good since they make you look taller. [10]
    • Skip tall heels—they’re too hard to walk in and can look costume-y.
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Trade in your backpack for a nicer bag.

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    Stick with simple designs in classic colors like black, cream, or brown. Leather (and faux leather) handbags are always a good choice. [11]
    • Leather messenger bags are also great—college kids use those a lot.
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Wear simple jewelry.

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    Big pieces of jewelry and bright-colored watchbands can look childish, so stick with gold or silver. Leather watchbands are nice, too! Avoid piling on the accessories and go with one simple piece that you really like. [12]
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Update your look with a new hairstyle.

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    Some styles, like blunt bangs and ponytails, can make you look younger. To look older, opt for a side-swept fringe or use a curling iron to create loose, carefree waves instead of putting your hair up, if your hair is too short add different clips or DIY it. [13] You can also try looks like:
    • Flat ironing your hair for a smooth, polished look.
    • Wispy, 70s-inspired bangs instead of short, blunt bangs. [14]
    • Edgy, spiky styles or deep side parts for short hair. [15]
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Experiment with makeup looks.

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    For example, darker lashes that contrast a bit with your hair color can make you look slightly older, so try applying a thin coat of brown or black mascara to your your top lashes only. [16] You can also:
    • Curl your lashes if you’re not ready to wear mascara yet (or if your parents won’t allow it). Your lashes will look way longer, which emphasizes your eyes.
    • Skip heavy foundation and use a tinted moisturizer instead. Just spread it all over your face with your fingers like regular lotion!
    • Swipe on a little clear or tinted lip gloss. A pretty rose tint can enhance your features.
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Stand tall and sit up straight.

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    Lift your chin a bit, roll your shoulder back slightly, and keep your back straight so you look confident and strong. When you’re standing and sitting, try to remind yourself not to slump or hunch your shoulders. [17]

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    If you would like to create wrinkles, I recommend using liquid latex. This will help you create a different skin texture that you can then apply foundation over. It's a great way to age your face.
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    How can I look my age (14) without being told by people younger than me that I look eight years old?
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    Dress according to your age and be confident in who you are. Your personality also can be a big factor as to how people perceive you. If you act young, people will think you are young. If you act mature, people will think you're older.
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    I'm nearly 14, but people often think I'm 11 or 12 because I'm small and have a baby face. Does anyone know what I can do about this?
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    You could try to emphasize your eyebrows, as this is usually what many people take into account when they look at your face, whether they realize it or not. Try getting them tweezed or threaded into a shape that you like, and practice filling them in. However, make sure that the color of the eyebrow product you're using matches your hair color. Filling in eyebrows can be difficult at times, but the end result is well worth it! Make sure not to overdo it with the makeup. Often, people want to look older because they feel they look too young, but end up wearing loads and loads of makeup in an attempt to make up for that.
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