Q&A for How to Attract a Christian Girl

Become better friends! She won't forget your feelings for her, and she will like it that you care for her enough not to press her. Remember, it wasn't a "no," just a "not yet."

Admitting an interest to a person is always awkward and embarrassing, and you have to take the risk of being accepted or turned down. You should just hang out some more to know her better. Ask her what she likes to do on weekends, or what activities she enjoys, or if she has a hobby. After knowing her better, then maybe you can ask her what kind of man she likes.

It would be a nice idea to ask her parents first. Some parents would actually want to meet the person their child is dating and get to know them. For your second question, just be yourself when you talk to her. Do what comes naturally. It never hurts to pray to God for guidance!

If she laughs, then that means she notices you. Just be patient and you will be able to tell if she likes you.

Ask her. Then listen to her answer and respect it.

You should get to know her first and find out if you like each other. If so, you can ask her out.

Christian girls should always keep themselves pure until marriage. While not all Christian girls follow this rule, there are many that take it very seriously. Keep looking, they're out there.

Get to know her as a friend first. Hang out and have conversations with her. Be polite and respectful. Her feelings will probably become clear to you after you've spent some time together.

It's not at all right to propose to her now. You don't even know her, and from the sounds of it, you're not even officially dating. There's no need to rush things. Take your time, get to know her, and then tell her how you really feel.

You should definitely not try to do that. Respect her, that is probably really important to her, and now you just sound sleazy.

Many couples are polar opposites, so that's not a problem. You draw from each other's strengths and help remedy each other's weaknesses. Being on her parents' bad side is a problem, though. If you did something rude, awkward or embarrassing in front of the parents, you can apologize. Treat them and their daughter with respect, and they may change their opinion of you.

One fight does not ruin all chances. If God wants you two together, He will definitely make it possible. If you're not supposed to date this girl, then God will show you that there's someone else for you. However, you could apologize wholeheartedly and say that you'll try not to fight again. Be humble.

Just introduce yourself casually when she's not around her friends. Start by introducing yourself, saying you might want to hang out some time with her, like at your house or hers. Befriend her first. Be a good friend. Show her you care about her life and her feelings. Be loyal. After you think she knows you are a good friend, then you can get up the courage to tell her about your feelings.

I'm pretty sure she likes you, since she likes to be with you and sit next to you. If she's cuddled with you, that is a sign of affection. Instead of directly telling her you have a crush on her, you can say, "Hey, I really enjoy spending time with you." Be casual but be genuine. See how she reacts and figure it out from there.

You can try asking her when she's available, but if you've asked her repeatedly and she always says this, she's probably just trying to tell you she's not interested without hurting your feelings. You should just accept this and move on.

Be courageous and do it. If she doesn't feel the same way she will at least know that you are courageous.

Praying while you sin does not cancel out the sin. That's pretty silly. If you consider sex before marriage to be a sin, praying would not change that.

It might make things a bit awkward. It would be strange for your brother to see his ex-girlfriend with his brother. It could be uncomfortable for the girl, as well. You might try talking to him about it before you take any steps.

Possibly, but God has His own plan for the two of you. You might find someone else and she might do the same, or you two could end up getting married in the future. Who knows? For now, it would be best to respect the fact that she needs to focus on her studies. You can still be friends in the meantime.

Maybe. You should confide in a trusted religious leader for guidance on how to proceed. You would never want a relationship to be forced, so respect her wishes and seek guidance as to how to proceed in a way that will please God.

Then you can try to be friends. Find out what her interests are, learn to talk about those things, and engage her in conversation.

First of all, don't tell her you think she's "too religious." Just approach her like you would any other person. Be nice and respectful and try to be her friend first. As you're getting to know her, try to find out if she's allowed to date. If she is, and she seems to like you back, ask her out.

Since you and your sibling are the only people she knows, she will most likely stick around you. Just be a good friend. Show her you're there to help her out. You can stick together. Talk to one another like normal.

No, it most likely means that she is not ready for a relationship. If she was not into you she probably would have told you, but you can ask her just to make sure if you want.

You can just hang out with her in a big group of people. However, not all religious people are against dating, so you should probably talk to the girl first about what she'd like to do with you before assuming she wouldn't be open to dating.

You two can hang out, but have a friend with you as a "chaperone" to keep things appropriate. If you two go to Sunday School together, you can sit together while still having a crowd around you. You can also go on dates alone as long as you make sure not to engage in any inappropriate physical activity with him.

If she is devoted to the Lord, she might choose to stay strong in her faith and look for other Christian men, so prepare yourself for that possibility. When you want to tell her how you feel, simply say it. If you're interested in converting, you might want to mention that in the event that she brings up her Christianity in her answer. However, differing religious beliefs can be very difficult to overcome in relationships if one of you isn't willing to compromise.

Just talk normally like you would to anyone else. What someone's religion is generally shouldn't affect how you talk to them. If you need more help, see How to Talk to a Girl .

It is ok if the girl is older than the guy in a relationship. Age differences shouldn't matter.

Befriend her. Being willing to "just be friends" is important, because it shows that you value her enough that you want to be in her life in whatever way that you can be, even if it's not in a romantic context. She may never reciprocate your romantic feelings, but you will have gained a friend.