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  • Question
    What is the minimum age requirement to be a drag queen?
    Community Answer
    There is no minimum age, but if you want to work at clubs, it depends on local laws.
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    Can a nonbinary/trans male do drag?
    Community Answer
    Yes. Anybody who wants to can do it.
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    Is there any point of being a drag queen?
    Community Answer
    Self-expression, getting to perform live and being yourself. Drag is what you make it, and that should reflect your inner desires.
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    I am a woman. Can I still be a drag queen?
    Community Answer
    Yes. They are called bio queens (for biological woman) or faux queens.
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    I'm non-binary, born in a female body. Can I be a drag queen?
    Community Answer
    Yes. Anyone can be a drag queen, regardless of sex or gender identity.
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    Do I get judged harshly as a drag queen?
    Community Answer
    This depends on the area. In Southern states, quite possibly. In Los Angeles, almost definitely not.
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    Does a drag queen have to tuck?
    Community Answer
    No, though it is usually popular as a drag queen, you are allowed to do whatever you want. That's the whole point of drag.
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    Is it possible to become a drag king?
    Community Answer
    Yes it is even if you're a man, just create an exaggerated, overly masculine character.
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    How do I get girl's clothes at age 13?
    Community Answer
    If you have a little bit of your own money, check thrift stores. You could also ask female friends or sisters if they have anything they don't wear anymore.
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    When I try to tuck and tape my balls, they keep wanting to fall down. What am I doing wrong?
    Community Answer
    Use stronger medicinal tape.
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    Can I be a drag queen if I'm a straight male?
    Community Answer
    Yes, of course you can! Many members of the drag queen community are straight males.
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    Is it possible to have more than one persona?
    Community Answer
    While it is slightly uncommon, it is not unheard of for queens to have more than one persona. However, it's much more common for these personas to spawn from jokes/gags. However, drag is an art form, and you should do whatever you want when performing!
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    Is Miss Fortune a good name for a drag queen?
    Community Answer
    As a drag queen, you should pick a name that fits your personality and gives an idea of who you are as a performer. If you're looking to do drag professionally, it's important to have an easily searchable/ recognizable name.
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    Do I need surgery to be a drag queen?
    Community Answer
    No. Drag queens are just men who dress up as women; there are are no permanent alterations involved.
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    I am a 16-year-old gay male and have an interest in being a drag queen, but I am not very gifted. Could I still be a drag queen?
    Tom De Backer
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    I love parkour, though I am not the most talented at it. It means the movements don't come naturally to me, which in turn meant I've had to study and train them carefully, specifically, to be able to move the way I want to. I would give you the same advice: If you want to be a drag queen, or anything you'll ever want in life, you can either apply your natural talents or work a bit harder to get there. So yes, you can be a drag queen. Study videos, moves, clothes, attitudes, practice in front of a mirror.
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    Can I be a Christian drag queen? I’m not gay, trans, or wanting to change my gender at all. I love Jesus, but I just like to be a little different.
    Tom De Backer
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    You can be anyone and anything you like, though it's not entirely your choice. There'll always be a a core inside that is what it is: your nature. Everyone is different, so you already are different. Dress any way you like, express yourself in any way you like. The key is to find out what your nature is.
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    Why does Andrew say women cant be drag queens? That's what a bio queen is, a woman doing drag.
    Community Answer
    Because drag, when respectively written is Dr.a.g. -- "Dressed as Girl" - which comes from Shakespearean stage notes before women were allowed to participate in acting and men went on stage "Dr.a.g." When a woman dresses up and performs as a flamboyant character, that's called "Camp." Women, therefore, cannot be Drag Queens.
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    Can a woman be a drag queen and still dress extravagantly?
    Andrew Serrano
    Top Answerer
    No. The point of a drag queen (also called a female illusionist) is that she's a gentleman dressed in women's clothing with over-the-top styling, hair and makeup.
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    Can drag queens ever get personal makeup artists?
    Rio Fuentes-Bell
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    Some queens do, however the more professional girls like to do their own makeup, even if they don't necessarily have the skills. It is always good to practice makeup, even if you think you will use a makeup artist to do your looks for gigs.
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    Where do I buy makeup and wigs online? Is there any safe website where I can buy these items?
    SkiddoTheKiddo
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    You can buy them on Amazon or eBay (some look really good, check under the term "daily wigs"). Always check the reviews. I'd say it's better to find reviews that have pictures so you can see the fit, the sit, and the shine. As long as you clean your wigs with shampoo and conditioner, they should look good, feel good, and be clean. I've bought 2 of my wigs online, and people think they're real! If you happen to get one that's still shiny, I've heard soaking it in fabric softener for 5 days, then washing it works. As long as you know what you're looking for and how to take care of them, you should be fine.
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    I'm 11 and want to start drag without my parents knowing. How do I tuck?
    Tom De Backer
    Top Answerer
    Consult Tuck and Tape . Like it or not, at 11 you're still very young. Your personality is simply still fluid, still forming, and you will be going back and forth through different phases for several more years. However, don't let that stop you. If you feel this, then it may well be who you are. Just stay open and honest with yourself. If in a year you feel you're actually transgender, a step beyond drag, then that is who you are. And finally, just because you choose something now doesn't mean you have to stick with it for life.
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    What should I do if the shopkeeper at the clothes or wig store asks why I need them?
    Tom De Backer
    Top Answerer
    "We're having a dress-up party; we all drew cards, and this is mine." Or "My friend is in the hospital and asked me to get pick these up as a favor." Or "Well, I'm actually a drag queen and am loving this dress." I understand it seems like a daunting prospect, but really the odds are low that a shopkeeper will ask why. Most people make assumptions as to why you need these items, so leave them with that. But if it comes up, be prepared: either lie, deflect the question, or just tell the truth (if you're ready for that).
  • Question
    My girlfriend wants to try having sex with me dressed as a woman. I'm willing, but can I do a 'simple' drag just as a tryout?
    Tom De Backer
    Top Answerer
    Imagine arriving at a holiday destination and the 'pool' that was promised turns out to be a 2-by-2 bricked water holder not even knee-deep. If this is just a one-time thing, why not give your girlfriend the entire fantasy she's thinking of? Shave your legs (in fact, shave everything), let her do your makeup, wear stockings and high heels, a cute sexy dress, get some boobs - as natural as you can fake them, and when it happens, go all out. Behave feminine, be seductive, take control. It's only in the privacy of your own bedroom. Above all, you should only do what you're comfortable with, but if you're willing to experiment, you might as well go all out.
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    Do I always have to do drag for money?
    Community Answer
    No. You can do drag every day. You can go to events like Pride and drag there. Try to find drag shows in your area.
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    I'm 13, my parents won't take me to the thrift store, and my friends have no extra clothes, what now?
    Community Answer
    Save up your money for clothes and ask an older friend, relative, or a friend's parent to drive you to a store, or take public transportation if you're allowed to. Otherwise, you'll just have to wait until someone can drive you or you can drive yourself.
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    Can I be a bio queen or faux queen at the age of 14?
    Aquapixiemermaid
    Community Answer
    Ask your parents or legal guardians first. Don't be upset if they say no, you can do this when your older.
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    I feel a little nervous of tucking; it creeps me out. Is there another method?
    Community Answer
    Dresses might work.
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    What if I’m really tall? Are there dresses that will fit me?
    Belle K.
    Top Answerer
    Yes, dresses come in all sizes: tall, small, short, and everything in between. Just Google "dresses for tall women"; you are sure to find several outlets.
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    How do you do drag make-up with little makeup? I have 2 eyeshadow palettes and 1 eyeliner. That's all.
    Burnt_ramen
    Community Answer
    Every queen has their own style so it's all on personal preference. If, you're going for the dramatic look, then use the boldest color on the palette, along with the second and third with a little bit of a mild color. Then, use a lot of eyeliner with a dramatic wing.
  • Question
    I'm a cis woman. Can I be a drag queen?
    Ashlie Hathaway
    Community Answer
    Yes, anyone can be a drag queen, no matter their gender identity. It's a form of expression.
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