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    Where can I meet a new woman?
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
    John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
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    You can meet a new woman anywhere and everywhere. Be open to it every day of your life. There are a lot of attractive people around you. For example, you may find them at the supermarket, bookstore, or in a subway car.
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    How do you introduce yourself to a woman?
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
    John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
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    If you want to introduce yourself to someone, you should not enter their life abruptly. Give them enough space and distance. You can make eye contact with them and say hello in a soft tone. Let them feel safe and then open up. Offer a direct compliment or start a conversation with something in the situation. For example, if you are shopping for fruits and vegetables, you can say that you are moving to all-organic and ask them if they are doing the same.
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    How do I change a woman's mind about me if she spends time with me, but is also spending time with someone else?
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    Tell her how you feel. Let her know that you have serious feelings for her and you want to be in an exclusive relationship. If she needs time to think about it, give her that time. If she says she's not interested in a relationship with you, let her go and find somebody who is.
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    How do I make a woman smile when she's angry?
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    If the situation is not intense or she is not angry with you, you can crack some jokes about the situation or something else. If it is an intense situation or she is angry with you, apologize and give her a little space before trying to make her smile.
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    I love a girl who won't accept me because I'm divorced. What should I do?
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    Divorces happen for a variety of reasons. If it happened as a result of what your previous partner did, explain that to her. If it happened because of you being in the wrong, be open and honest about it and prove that whatever happened in the previous relationship won't happen if she were to be with you. Some women see divorces as a red flag because they think it'll be a repeat of whatever happened that went wrong last time. Just be a good person, and if you truly have changed your ways (if it was your fault the previous relationship ended badly), prove her wrong.
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    I love a girl, but when I told her, she said she is not ready to be in a relationship right now, what should I do to change her mind?
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    If you really love her, you can be patient. Tell her that you respect her decision and you'd like to just be friends for now. Then just be someone she can count on. When she is ready to be in a relationship, you'll be there.
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    How can I know if my girlfriend is just pretending to love me?
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    Tell her that you love her and then read her body language, paying attention particularly to her shoulders. If she seems happy, she probably loves you, but if she seems uncomfortable, confront her about it.
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    How can I find out if a girl loves me?
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    The best way to find out if a girl loves you is to ask her! Take a deep breath, be prepared for her to say "no" and hope for the best.
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    How do I become friends with someone again if they hate me?
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    Show them either you have changed or you are not as bad a person as they suspect you to be. Sometimes it might not work out. Sometimes you just have to move on.
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    How do I deal with a situation in which there is a lot of conflict and my girlfriend keeps telling me it's over?
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    When a woman says it's over and you know you are in the wrong, then leave to create space for understanding of a situation. Time can heal all wounds and both individuals can grow with time apart. If she doesn't come back, it means the situation was very serious if there were no attempts to make amends.
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    How do I change a woman's impression of me only using chat?
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    Act friendly and respectful, simple as that. Though don't overdo it, as she and everyone else will think you're a creep.
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    I really want to win the heart of the girl I love. I've liked her for over a year by now, but have made no progress with her because I'm terrible at having conversations with her and her friends. What should I do?
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    First, study how to better engage her conversationally. These articles should have some useful tips: how to start a conversation with a girl and how to start a conversation when you have nothing to talk about . It's super important that you figure out how to communicate with her so the two of you can get to know each other better.
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    How do I make a girl who was heartbroken by her ex love again?
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    Give her time to get over her heartbreak and move on. Breaking up is hard, and she may not be ready for dating for a while. Be respectful of her feelings, and try again when she’s ready to start dating again.
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    How can I change a girl's mind if she doesn't want to be my girlfriend because she already has a boyfriend?
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    If she already has a boyfriend, you should leave her alone. If you continue asking her out while she's already seeing someone, she'll get annoyed and want nothing to do with you. Just be her friend for now. She'll probably break up with the guy eventually.
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    What do I do if a woman says I'm too small to date her?
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    Forget about her. If she is going to say something like that to you then you really have no business wasting your time with someone as snobby and stuck up as that. You deserve more than whatever her expectations perceive you as.
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    How do I change a woman's mind about me if she thinks I'm something I'm not due to her friend's influence?
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    Show her how good of a guy you are. Ignore her friends and do little things that make her think otherwise. Remember it's the little, thoughtful things that people notice.
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