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    How do you pull a girl in a nightclub?
    Hebert Aguilar
    Professional Dancer & Choreographer
    Herbert Aguilar is a Professional Dancer, Choreographer, and the Director of Timba Heat Dance Company. With more than a decade of experience, he specializes in performing and teaching dance styles such as Cuban Salsa, Hip-Hop, and Acrobatics. Hebert has performed at a variety of venues and locations including San Francisco, Washington, Hawaii, and Miami.
    Professional Dancer & Choreographer
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    I always tell my students: “Approach with confidence, even if you don't know much!” The worst thing that they can say is no. And, if that happens, that's their loss!
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    Should I ask a girl to dance?
    Hebert Aguilar
    Professional Dancer & Choreographer
    Herbert Aguilar is a Professional Dancer, Choreographer, and the Director of Timba Heat Dance Company. With more than a decade of experience, he specializes in performing and teaching dance styles such as Cuban Salsa, Hip-Hop, and Acrobatics. Hebert has performed at a variety of venues and locations including San Francisco, Washington, Hawaii, and Miami.
    Professional Dancer & Choreographer
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    That really depends on the person. Remember that, in the dance world, you have people of all ages, ethnicities, experiences, and cultural aspects. Some people prefer to get asked for a dance, while others go up to the person for a dance without hesitation.
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    How do I calm my nerves before dancing?
    Hebert Aguilar
    Professional Dancer & Choreographer
    Herbert Aguilar is a Professional Dancer, Choreographer, and the Director of Timba Heat Dance Company. With more than a decade of experience, he specializes in performing and teaching dance styles such as Cuban Salsa, Hip-Hop, and Acrobatics. Hebert has performed at a variety of venues and locations including San Francisco, Washington, Hawaii, and Miami.
    Professional Dancer & Choreographer
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    Remember that it's all about having a good time. Also, don’t be shy to say on your first couple of dances something like, “I'm a beginner” or “Have patience with me, I'm still learning”. This is the best way to not feel any pressure and most likely the other person will understand and encourage you.
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    As someone who is not great looking, how do I approach a woman in a small crowd or alone without coming off as creepy? Handsome guys seem to be able to do it effortlessly.
    Anna Sekeres
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    Just walk by a few times, and if you catch her eye, smile and give a little wave. if she waves back, go over and say hi, if she doesn't, try again with someone else.
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    What if a girl says she will teach you?
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    Just let her lead and tell you how to do it.
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    How do I get a girl to give me a lap dance?
    Community Answer
    You can ask her for one.
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    What should I do to convince a girl to grind on me?
    Community Answer
    Don't try to "convince" anyone of something like this. Ask her if she wants to grind, and if she says no, respect her decision and walk away.
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    How to understand if a girl likes you at a club and what's the right time to make a move?
    Cnemesi
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    If she likes you and she sees you, she might keep looking at you or glaring at you while she dances. The way she dances might actually change slightly (being maybe a bit more provocative), so pay attention. There's no right time to make a move - just go there and talk to her, or start dancing together. If she's with friends and you're too shy to approach her, you might try to talk to her when she buys drinks or goes to the bathroom. Don't follow her too much, or you might seem creepy. The best way is to just go there and start dancing with her, and then star talking. But if she rejects you, don't insist!
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    A girl knows I like her before she hugged me and touched me. Now she asks questions like how much do you like me and how long ago I liked her. Does this mean she likes me?
    Cnemesi
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    The signs she's giving are suggesting so! Try to be honest, and be yourself! Don't change your attitude now that she might like you, being yourself is what made her like you in the first place.
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