Q&A for How to Determine Why Someone Is Treating You Poorly

If it is repetitive, examine if the relationship is worth it. If it has only occurred a few times, make a point to talk about it. Hear him out, but also state your piece.

If someone is kind to you, be kind to them. If someone shows very little interest in you, and you've tried to show interest in them, don't knock yourself out trying to befriend them.

Treat a man you love with kindness and thoughtfulness, but don't do so to the detriment of yourself. Also, continue to be good to yourself and keep up with your friends and family. Pay attention if he returns the kindness and thoughtfulness.

Treat anyone you love with kindness, fairness, and consideration. Be honest, communicate, and compliment them, but also be willing to confront issues and say the more difficult things.

Sometimes people are only shallow friends. If people only hang around you for who they think you might have, they are not really true friends. While it is nice to hope that we will always be accepted, in reality it is not always like that. If you know them really well and have some trust in them, you can tell them directly how you feel. Otherwise, try to branch out and meet other people.

You can begin by writing down what you have noticed. Then if you feel the person is worth the effort, you could try bringing it up with them when you are alone and away from the larger group.