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  • Question
    When will I feel better after losing my friend?
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    It takes time for that feeling of despair to pass. Every day, the pain will lessen and not be so blunt. Remember the good times, and do something in your friend's memory. You could make a photo collage, plant a tree or set off lanterns - anything that will help you feel more connected to them.
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    If I find someone dead, should I try and perform CPR?
    Tom De Backer
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    It all depends on the situation. If you have a friend over who is using the pool and a minute later you find the friend submerged and unresponsive, then yes, if you know how. Check your own safety first (carbon monoxide poisoning), yell for help, start CPR, contact the emergency services. But if you're visiting a new house you might buy and you and the realtor find a dead body there, for example, you could perhaps check for a pulse, but it's likely CPR will no longer help.
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    I keep having strange dreams about seeing a deceased person. What does this mean?
    Cazz
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    Some people look deeply into dreams, when a dream can merely be your mind processing events in your life. For example, you might be graduating school, moving house, changing friends or some other thing in your life is metaphorically "dying," and not necessarily a loved one. The dream may simply be you processing change from one season to the next.
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    What if there is more than one body?
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    Call the police immediately and check the pulses, they could still be alive. Try not to freak out or start hyperventilating, or you might pass out. Stay alert.
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    How do I get my brother help after he found a dead body?
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    If you're an adult, try to find a therapist for your brother that he can afford or that accepts his insurance. Then, if he's unable, set up the appointment for him on his behalf. If you're younger and unable to do these things for your brother, you can talk to your parents about what you think he needs. In the meantime, just be a source of support for him if he needs someone to talk to.
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    What do I do if it's someone I know?
    Community Answer
    It doesn't matter; call the police.
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    Why am I supposed to call the funeral home? Isn't that the family's job?
    Community Answer
    If you are unrelated to the dead person you found, you have no responsibility in the matter. Once you call the police and give them a statement, your involvement is finished, subject to police approval.
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    What if I am the murderer?
    Community Answer
    Assuming you want to stay out of prison, you'd better not tell anyone.
  • Question
    Why are you not supposed to move a dead body?
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    Police will want to examine the body and its surroundings before it is moved to determine if the death is suspicious in any way.
  • Question
    How do you kill someone?
    Community Answer
    You don’t. That's murder, a crime that will land you in prison or a mental hospital for the rest of your life. In some places you could be given the death penalty. Seek counseling if you seriously feel like killing someone.
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    What if someone asks me to kill them and make it look like an accident?
    Community Answer
    Call the police, a suicide hotline or some trusted adult.
  • Question
    I found a murder. What should I do?
    Community Answer
    Call the police.
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    What if I find a dead body that was set on fire?
    Community Answer
    Get some water and put the fire out. Then call the police and tell them what you just saw.
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    What if you see a person about to jump off a high bridge?
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    You could try running close to them and yelling "STOP!! DON'T DO IT!! DON'T JUMP!!! YOUR LIFE IS VALUABLE" but they may jump anyway, since they've made a concrete decision to end their life. Call 911 or any other emergency services as soon they're about to jump. In lucky cases, the person survives.
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    If I murder someone and destroy the evidence, will police find out?
    Community Answer
    It's best to assume they will.
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    What if the body was burnt?
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    Depending on how severe the burning is, the skin could have anything from either slight burn marks or be burned completely to the point of being unrecognized. In the most extreme cases, a very burnt body could hide any valuable information like fingerprints on it. A burning body in a public location could have smoke rise that can be seen from far away.
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    But how do I hide the dead body?
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    Note that it is illegal to tamper with a dead body of a person or transport it, if you do not have the authority or the right paperwork. These answers are for information only. Hide it where it is suitable and before someone catches you. Look for the nearest hiding spot where a person would fit, like you're playing hide-and-seek. If you can drive, you can hide the body in the trunk and drive to a location where nobody else is, so you can dispose of the body without getting caught. You can use blankets or towels to cover up the body too.
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    If the dead person was gang-affiliated, does it automatically mean they were murdered?
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    Not necessarily, but that is the most common reason for a gang-affiliated person to die. There are some gangsters who commit suicide when they're in big trouble or about to get murdered.
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    What if the body is found on school property?
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    Tell the authorities at school, such as a principal or teacher, and they will call the police and have them come to the school and examine the body. When the police arrive, they will interrogate anyone at the scene, including the students, especially if the dead person is known to people at the school.
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    What does it mean if the dead body was found in the river with cement blocks sunken into the feet?
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    It likely means they were killed by the Mafia or another gang for doing something really bad to them. Contrary to popular belief, the cement blocks are actually only added to the body when the person is actually dead, since it takes time for the cement to dry. The actual cause of death for this person may be a gunshot or strangulation. If they killed themselves, then they stayed at the river for some days for the cement to harden up then they jumped into the water, drowning themselves.
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    I heard a scream and a gunshot nearby then found the body. No other people. Was it a murder or a suicide?
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    It's hard to tell unless you were right there when they were killed. When someone commits suicide by gunshot, they usually scream due the physical pain of the bullet and because they were suffering from extreme emotions causing them to take their own life. If it turns out to be murder, then the murderer quickly left the scene as soon as possible. It is likely to be a murder if the firearm is not near them, but you should just call the police and have them examine it.
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    What does it mean if the dead body was found in the river/lake?
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    The person was either murdered or committed suicide, or accidentally drowned in a lake. The presence of water in the lungs would mean they drowned.
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    Why would I find a dead body in a place where there are no people?
    Community Answer
    A quiet, empty place is the perfect location for someone to hide a murdered body, or to commit suicide without traumatizing anyone while they do it.
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    What do I do if I find dead animals? Should I still call the police or someone else?
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    That depends on what the animal is and where you are exactly. If it was something like a beached whale or someone's pet (a domesticated animal such as a cat or a dog), or the animal is on human property (e.g., a playground), then you should call the animal control or whatever else is needed right away. But if it's some dead squirrel you found in the woods, you don't need to do anything.
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    What should I do if there’s an unidentified body in my home?
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    Call the police and say there's a dead person in your house and you don't know them. It's unusual on its own that a dead person would make their way into a stranger's backyard, but inside the stranger's house? You need to get some security systems for your house too.
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    What should I do if the body is burned/burning?
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    If the body is already on fire, call the police right away and stay away from the body as far as possible. If there are no open electricity sources nearby, get some water and pour the fire out. But if it is burnt and there is no longer a live fire, just call the police and have them examine it. It will be harder to determine if a burnt body is a murder or suicide since the fingerprints and DNA will be destroyed.
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    What do you do if you are with a kid, and they find a dead body (someone they don't know) at the park? What do you say to the kid?
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    If the kid is really little, tell them the person is just sleeping, and quickly escort them away from the body. If there is any blood, say they spilled tomato sauce or a cherry popsicle (depending on the color of the blood). A little kid isn't old enough to understand gory details yet. If the kid is older, just say the person is dead, and encourage them to ask questions about it. They may be traumatized or shocked, but assure the kid that they (the kid) are okay. You can leave the scene if the kid is disturbed.
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    I just saw a glimpse of a dead teen's body surrounded by police, and I can't get the image out of my head. How can I stop it from affecting me?
    Galasy4969
    Top Answerer
    Realize that there was nothing you could do. Seek therapy if trauma remains after a few weeks. There's little else you can do.
  • Question
    What does it mean if I keep dreaming of myself dying, getting buried alive, or a car crash?
    VICTOR JIMENEZ
    Community Answer
    Often a dream about actually being dead is a symbol for an overwhelming emotional problem.
  • Question
    How do you explain to a little kid about the dead body on the playground?
    Community Answer
    You explain that when someone dies it means their body stops working, and the dead person will be unable to think, see, hear, or feel anything. Explain that it can happen anywhere such as at the park. Don't tell them any gory details or anything else they won't understand.
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