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If I am genderfluid, do I have to pick a new name that is gender neutral?

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Only if you want to! Many genderfluid people decide to go by a new name and some continue to use the name they were given at birth. If you want to choose a new name, it doesn't have to be gender neutral; it can be whatever you want.

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Do genderfluid people have to be masculine one day and feminine the next day, and so on?

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No. A genderfluid person does not have to alternate between being feminine and masculine each day. Each genderfluid person represents and expresses their gender differently. They might dress femininely more and androgynously less often, or they might dress masculine most of the time but have a feminine personality.

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Can I be genderfluid but really feminine and a little masculine, or am I just a girl?

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If you feel that you're genderfluid in your heart or you know you're genderfluid, then the way you dress shouldn't really matter. Every genderfluid person is different: some are androgynous, some are very masculine, some are more feminine, and some are a mix. So yes, you can absolutely be more feminine than masculine and still be genderfluid.

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Is it OK to wear makeup if you're genderfluid or I'm just confused and female?

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You can always wear makeup if you'd like to! It's up to you if you'd like to and if you're genderfluid, you decide what gender you feel like one morning and if you feel like a female, put some makeup on if you'd like!

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Do I need to change the body that I came in to be genderfluid? Because I love the body I came in.

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No, your body doesn't affect your gender. You can certainly stay with your body.

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Can you be genderfluid but only go between she/her, she/they and they/them and never he/him?

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Yes! There's no one way to be genderfluid. You could also look into the labels genderfae or genderfaer.

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