How Well Do I Know My Partner?

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Maybe you’ve been in a relationship for a few days, months, or years. No matter how long you’ve been together, you probably know a thing or two about them…or do you?

Take this quiz alone or with your partner to see just how well you know each other. Ready to see just how strong your bond truly is? Click start quiz now!

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Questions Overview

1. Okay, we’ll start with an easy one. Do you know your partner’s favorite color?
  1. I know their favorite color!
  2. I don’t know their favorite color…
2. What’s your partner’s favorite food?
  1. I know their favorite food!
  2. I don’t know their favorite food…
3. What’s your partner’s favorite season?
  1. I know their favorite season!
  2. I don’t know their favorite season…
4. What are your partner’s pet peeves?
  1. Ha! I can think of a pet peeve or two!
  2. I don’t know what their pet peeves are…
5. What is your partner’s favorite dessert?
  1. I know this one!
  2. I have no clue…
6. What’s your partner’s favorite book or movie?
  1. That’s an easy one!
  2. I have no idea…
7. Name one of your partner's go-to fast food orders:
  1. I got it!
  2. I can’t think of anything…
8. Okay, let’s get a little deeper now! Name one goal that your partner has for the future.
  1. I can think of a goal they have for the future.
  2. I can’t think of any goals they have...
9. What is your partner’s love language?
  1. That’s easy! I know my partner’s love language.
  2. I’m not sure…
10. What’s something that your partner is afraid of?
  1. I know this one!
  2. I guess I’m not sure…
11. Does your partner want a family in the future?
  1. Yep, we’ve talked about it!
  2. I don’t know…
12. Okay, here’s the last question, and it’s tough. If money weren’t an issue, what job would your partner want to do?
  1. I got it!
  2. How could I know that?

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What Should You Know About Your Partner?

Whether you’ve just started dating or are in a long-term relationship, it’s important to know a few things about your partner that are more than their favorite things and interests. You’ll likely learn these things the longer you’re with them; however, there’s no harm in asking them directly about it (especially if you’re curious and want a committed relationship). Here’s what you should know about your partner to grow a strong relationship and establish healthy boundaries:

  • What their hopes are for the relationship (marriage, friends with benefits, etc.)
  • What their love language is
  • What their daily routine looks like
  • What they look for in a partner
  • What their relationships with their friends and family are like
  • What are their personal and professional goals
  • What their political and spiritual beliefs are
  • What past relationships they’ve had
  • How they process emotional situations
  • How they feel about marriage
  • Where they are financially
  • If they have any medical needs
  • How they picture their future

Keep in mind that you don’t need to know all of these things right away. For instance, you might not want to bring up the topic of kids or marriage on the first date. Go at a gradual pace, and ask what feels right in the moment.

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