I'm considering confessing to my Capricorn crush...
So, I've had this massive crush on a Cap for several months, and I want to confess. But there are a few problems: 1. Our religions are HUGE dealbreakers for each other. He's a Christian, and I'm Wiccan. 2. I'm an Aries. 3. His sister told me not to 😅. And 4. I've never confessed before!
I'm not sure if I should even do it at all. But my birthday party is coming up and that might be an okay time if we can get alone. I really, really like this guy; I'd even change religions for him if I had to. I don't know how to do this or if it's the right think - please help!
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I'm not sure if I should even do it at all. But my birthday party is coming up and that might be an okay time if we can get alone. I really, really like this guy; I'd even change religions for him if I had to. I don't know how to do this or if it's the right think - please help!
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People with opposite traits and signs can absolutely be attracted to each other and make a relationship work, though it might take some effort. In terms of astrology, Capricorn and Aries are moderately compatible. On the positive side, both signs tend to be driven and determined, so you can bond over your ambitious goals and need to succeed. Capricorn and Aries also tend to be pretty honest, direct signs, so trust shouldn't be an issue.
On the flip side, Aries and Capricorn can have pretty opposite energies personality-wise. Fire sign Aries is known for being bold, impulsive, and even a little bit reckless. Earth sign Capricorn, on the other hand, is known for being stable, responsible, and conservative. As a result, Aries’ impulsivity may make Capricorn nervous, and Capricorn’s risk aversion may frustrate Aries. To make things work, prioritize communicating effectively and learn to meet each other in the middle.
That said, it's best to find someone who you can be yourself with and who doesn't want you to change. Think carefully before deciding to change your religion or compromise on your core values. You might also want to speak more to his sister and figure out why she doesn't think you should confess your feelings or go after her brother.
If you do decide to pursue him, be direct! Let him know you like him despite your differences and ask if he's interested in going on a date or pursuing a relationship with you. It can be scary, but it's also worthwhile to take the risk and see if you two could have a successful relationship. Good luck!
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On the flip side, Aries and Capricorn can have pretty opposite energies personality-wise. Fire sign Aries is known for being bold, impulsive, and even a little bit reckless. Earth sign Capricorn, on the other hand, is known for being stable, responsible, and conservative. As a result, Aries’ impulsivity may make Capricorn nervous, and Capricorn’s risk aversion may frustrate Aries. To make things work, prioritize communicating effectively and learn to meet each other in the middle.
That said, it's best to find someone who you can be yourself with and who doesn't want you to change. Think carefully before deciding to change your religion or compromise on your core values. You might also want to speak more to his sister and figure out why she doesn't think you should confess your feelings or go after her brother.
If you do decide to pursue him, be direct! Let him know you like him despite your differences and ask if he's interested in going on a date or pursuing a relationship with you. It can be scary, but it's also worthwhile to take the risk and see if you two could have a successful relationship. Good luck!
A Capricorn’s communication style is very direct. You need to cut to the chase with a Capricorn and ask for what you need or want very clearly. Luckily, as an Aries, you're probably a super direct communicator. Aries have a natural courageousness to tell people how they feel, and they can't hold things back or keep things secret very long.
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