What are the best questions to ask your crush?

02/06/25 4:13pm

I have been talking more and more to my crush but I need more to talk about to keep the conversation going, he's shy and I'm also kind of shy until I know someone better so please share any good conversation topics or questions to ask them? Interesting get to know you questions that aren't just boring basic icebreakers you know

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wikiHow Editorial Team

02/07/25 12:02pm

If you're just getting to know your crush, here are some good questions:

"What do you like to do for fun?"
"What did you do today?"
"What music do you listen to?"
"Have you watched or read anything really good lately?"
"Do you have any siblings?"
"Do you have any pets?"
"What do you like to eat and/or cook?"

Ask follow-up questions once she responds to make the conversation flow naturally.

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Maria Avgitidis
Matchmaker & Dating Expert

02/09/25 7:57am

If you're at a social event or at school or in a work environment, just talking to them, asking them what their plans are for the weekend, breaking the ice by commenting on why you are currently at the same social event, can help people open up to speaking with you.

Social commentary of the environment that you're in can be a really easy way to break the ice when you're talking to someone you don't know well. If you catch them being very short with their responses, it might mean that they're not interested. Just be a great listener, ask good questions, and make that person feel good when they're around you.

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WikiStoatSeeker711

02/10/25 9:45am

Some interesting questions:
- "What's the best meal you've ever had? What do you want to try?"
- "What's your favorite place you've traveled? What's your best memory from there?"
- "What does a perfect day look like to you?"
- "What's a fun fact you wish you could share more?"
- "What's your favorite thing to talk about?"
- "If you had to spend $100 million, what would you do?"
- "If you could go back in time and change one thing in your life, what would you change?"

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