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How do you get a girl to be your girlfriend?

Eddy Baller
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Eddy Baller is a men’s dating coach and founder of Conquer and Win, a Vancouver-based service that helps men break free from loneliness and meet the women they truly want. Since 2011, he has coached men to overcome approach anxiety, spark real attraction, and build meaningful relationships—without relying on dating apps, gimmicks, or luck. Through both online sessions and in-person coaching, Eddy gives live feedback as clients meet women in everyday places, making confidence feel natural and conversations effortless. His mission is simple: to help men get into meaningful, long-term relationships.

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You could always try giving her a compliment! This is an easy way to start a flirty conversation with her. Tell her she looks nice and see how she responds. Try to keep the conversation going so you can ask her to be your girlfriend.

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What should I do if she keeps on saying I'll tell you tomorrow?

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Try being clear and direct and tell her that you need an answer. But at the same time, don't be pushy or aggressive. Make sure she knows it's okay if she says no.

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What if we can’t see each other, because we live pretty far away from each other (about 35km)?

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Distance can be tough on a relationship, but if you really like each other, you can make it work! Have an honest discussion with her about how you feel and if she thinks you can make the distance work.

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If she is my friend's sister, then how should I propose to her?

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If you two are really meant for each other, your friend may understand. Talk with your friend and tell them how you feel before you try to ask their sister to be your girlfriend.

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If she says she is not interested, what should I do?

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You can keep being friends with her if she doesn't want to be your girlfriend. If you're having a hard time moving on, it's okay to take some time for yourself, too. Unfortunately, you can't change anyone's mind.

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