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How do you know that someone is attracted to you?

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If someone gives you too much attention when there are other people around, asks you many questions about your personal life, or compliments you a lot, it shows that they are attracted to you.

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How can I use my eyes in a flirtatious way?

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Nowadays, you have to cover your face with a mask, so eyes are a great way to communicate. You can intentionally lock your eyes with someone, hold it for some time, and then look back. It will send a message that you are interested in that person. You can also flirt using your eyebrows to make expressions and wink.

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How can I get a handsome face?

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It is important to take care of your skin, as a regular skin care routine will help you to have and keep a healthy glow. You might like to check out the wikiHow: How to Care for Your Face (Males) for help with good face care practices. You might also benefit from deciding whether or not a beard, mustache, sideburns, etc., might enhance your facial appearance, or whether you look better without facial hair. Tidying your eyebrows can be worth it too, unless you’re going for a rugged look. And some men also find that wearing concealer or makeup can be helpful for enhancing or concealing facial features. Try some or all of these suggestions to see what works best for you.

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How can I be a cute guy?

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Looking cute as a guy is a combination of presentation, clothing choices and behaving in a sweet, friendly and caring way. For some great tips on dressing and acting like a cute guy, check out the wikiHow: How to Be a Cute Guy .

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How can a guy look beautiful?

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For some help with looking beautiful as a guy, here are some wikiHows you might like to check out: How to Beautiful as a Gay Man ; How to Be the Guy Women Want ; How to Dress Well As a Guy ; and, of course, the steps above in this article. You’re sure to find some useful tips and advice in at least a few of these great articles!

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I am so short. How can I attract a girl?

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Some girls don't care about height. Also, if your under 18, there's a chance you'll grow taller. In the meantime, be confident, be nice to people, and work on having a good personality. A good sense of humor will help too!

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I'm tall and fat and have some pimples on my face. What should I do to become hot?

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Work out to improve your physical fitness and wash your skin each day to take care of the acne. Focus on dressing well and carrying yourself with confidence.

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What should I do if I think the girl I like is hotter than I am?

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Just work on yourself and stay positive.

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I've heard that girls love tall guys, is that true?

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Generally, yes, but most girls just like a guy to be taller than them. Some don't care at all, however.

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I'm tall and thin and brown-skinned. How can I become more handsome/hot?

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Skin tone and looks aren't that important for being hot. Being hot has to do with your character. Be kind to people, dress nice, be an alpha, and try to never blush in front of beautiful women. Have confidence and make a lot of eye contact.

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What type of haircut suits an oval shaped face?

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The typical soccer haircut is ideal. It is short on the sides, a little longer on the top, with the top to one side. Don't be too fixated on your hair, though. Girls don't care if it gets a little crazy sometimes.

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How do I know if a girl really likes my looks?

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If she comments on your shoes, jacket, shirt or notices your clothes instead in a conversation.

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Some girls say I'm hot or good looking, but I don't feel like it. How can I be more confident about this?

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Just like how smiling makes you feel positive, you can make yourself feel more confident. Try to stand tall and not slouch. If you find yourself feeling down, make a superman pose - this will help with your nerves and flood your body with feel-good hormones. Keep your chin up and smile!

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What can I do if I'm not confident because I have acne?

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Honestly, girls don't really notice that. We have our own acne to worry about! As long as you're happy and healthy, you don't need to worry about a thing.

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I have talked to many girls, but nobody is interested in me. What should I do?

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There are some things you can do to make yourself more attractive to the opposite sex. Start by getting in better shape -- eat a diet that's based on protein, good fats, lean meats, etc. Work out at least 3-4 times a week, improve your wardrobe, tackle basic hygiene, and get a good haircut. On top of that, it wouldn't be a bad idea to pick up some hobbies or interests that you can talk about to make yourself seem interesting to others. Learn how to carry yourself with confidence.

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Do I have to have a six pack to charm girls?

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No, not necessarily, although most girls like a guy who is relatively fit. I do about 50 sit-ups and 5 sets of planks for 3 minutes. Staying active will help keep your muscles toned and defined.

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How can I get into shape if I am a skinny guy?

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Exercise regularly and alternate between cardio and strength-training to build muscle and tone your body. Eat a well-balanced, healthy diet, get plenty of rest and make healthier choices part of your everyday life.

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What's a good height as a male?

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The average height for a male is around 1.80 m (5' 10"); if you're above this height, you can add "tall" to your list of positive attributes.

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What are the best haircuts for secondary school?

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There is the push-back or push-to-one-side, or maybe something like Zac Efron. You could also just try a clean classic with slightly shaved sides and swished-back hair on top.

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If I want to hook up with a girl, does having a good physique and being well-dressed help?

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Of course it helps! Looks aren't everything, but if you want that initial attraction, you should do your best to look nice.

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How do I become hotter if I'm short?

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Dress for your height, there's a lot of guides for this. Also, carry yourself like you're tall. You'll eventually hear people tell you that you "don't seem short" - that they don't see you as short because of the way you carry yourself.

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How can I get rid of my pimples and look better?

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This article should help: how to get rid of acne .

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What do I do if the boy is much older than me?

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If the boy is more than 3 or so years older than you, it's best not to pursue him. You could get taken advantage of, and he could expect more than you are ready to give.

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What if I always work out, but I still can't get muscular?

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You could try protein shakes or a different workout with heavier weights. Check out this article on How to Increase Muscle Growth .

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How can I impress a girl?

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Read How to Impress a Girl .

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I want my hair to stand up, but it goes flat and oily when I use wax or gel. What should I do?

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I believe the best option to try is a hair dryer, adding a bit of wax later on.

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Smart ladies don't seem to enjoy my company. How can I change this?

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Don't try too hard to seem intelligent, because it tends to have the opposite effect. Use proper grammar and have a wide vocabulary. Find out what she is interested in and my do a little research to educate yourself more on the subject. Be confident, but not cocky. Most importantly, be yourself - most smart ladies enjoy a guy who is okay with who he is and look at the bigger picture.

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Will I look good with fair skin? How can I develop a good voice fast?

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The majority of people don't mind skin color, but it may flatter your hair color or make your eye color pop. About your voice, if you're under the age of 18, your voice will gradually lower. A lower pitched voice can be slightly more attractive, because it's more masculine.

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A girl is ignoring me, how do I get her to respond?

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If she's ignoring you, it's best not to pester her. She may be upset with you, or she may just be too busy to talk to you right now. Give her some space and let her come to you when she's ready to talk.

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What if my crush says that I am like a younger brother to her?

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It means she likes you, but not romantically. There's not much you can do about this.

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