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My boyfriend seems too shy and, but he's sweet. I'd like him to try to do something to me like kissing but he won't show it since he's shy. It's difficult to understand his feeling.

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You will probably need to ask your boyfriend about his feelings in order to understand. Shy people don't necessarily volunteer intimate information. Make sure you let him know how you feel about him first so he feels more comfortable opening up to you about his feelings.

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What if your boyfriend is too shy do anything for you but loves you

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It's possible that he just needs to feel more comfortable around you. Make sure you let him know how you feel about him and do things to ease his nerves, like complimenting him on his looks and personality.

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Okay so my boy is shy when were in front of each other but when were texting he's not how do I get him both ways

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He probably is more comfortable communicating through text than face-to-face. Keep talking to him through text and allow him to continue sharing with you this way, but let him know you enjoy talking to him in person as well. Eventually, as he becomes more comfortable with you, he will become less shy in person too.

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My boyfriend is super shy but he still tries to talk to me and hug me ( little hugs cuz he is shy) and i don't know what to do, I mean i talk to him but he gets shy about things.

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Shy people have a hard time opening up about things, especially when the topic makes them uncomfortable. The best way to encourage him to open up is to be accepting of the thoughts and feelings he's expressing to you. Let him know that you understand his feelings and are glad he's sharing them with you. Making him feel supported will help him feel more comfortable and, hopefully, allow him to continue opening up.

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He wont talk to me and I love him.he was the one to ask me out and then we made out, but we hardly talk and I know we both really like each other. I'm worried.can you please help me?

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You may need to take initiative to start a lot of the conversations between you if he's not able to. Try asking him open-ended questions that can't be answered with just "yes" or "no." Also, stick to topics that interest him because these will be easier for him to talk about. Make an effort to keep the conversation going even if it's difficult.

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