Expert Q&A for How to Not Be Boring in a Long Distance Relationship

Try video chatting! Video chatting lets you communicate with body language and facial expressions as well as just your words and your tone of voice. Make the most of the opportunity to use subtle forms of non-verbal intimacy, like lingering eye contact and loving smiles.

The lack of physical touch and closeness plays a big part. In an LDR, you can't do anything physically with your partner, whether it's having sex or just meeting up for coffee.

Jealousy can really play a big part. In an LDR, it's hard to know what your partner is up to, which leads to questions like "What did my partner do last night?" or "Who were they with?"

Focus on striking a balance between quality time and independence. While it's great to stay in close contact with your boyfriend, you also don't want to smother him in the process.

Carve out specific time to spend together, like a date night. Dedicate that time to having fun and hanging out, whether you're watching Netflix, making dinner, or reading poetry.

Look for ways to get him involved in your daily life, even if he isn't close by. You might ask for his input on a work project, or request feedback on a school paper.

Sexting can help! Feel free to tap into your imagination and role-playing fantasies so you can satisfy both your and your partner's needs.