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What if I get an erection when my girlfriend and I do it?

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Getting an erection is completely natural and you shouldn't be ashamed. Your partner may be pressing her lower region towards yours to tease you or show you that she is having the same feelings as you. If she is uncomfortable with your erection, that's okay, too, and you should just move away.

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What if my partner is a not a spooner?

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Don't make them do it if they won't. They might not like it. Ask them about it. If they might not want to do it or they need personal space, make one on your own

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What should I do with my other arm?

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It's up to you. I usually put my other arm under my partner so I can hug with both arms.

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How do I tell my partner that I would like to spoon with them?

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Just come right out and ask the first time. For example: "I just saw this new cuddling technique, can we try it out?" Give it a try, you can even mess up over and over but that's the fun part because it can even get more intimate that way.

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Is it okay for two guys to spoon naked?

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It is perfectly okay for any two consenting adults to spoon, naked or clothed, regardless of gender or sexuality.

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