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How can you tie someone up with a belt?

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A belt is not a great tool to tie someone up with unless you have a very specific fantasy about someone taking off their belt and using it as a restraint. They're really difficult to manipulate, and there's no way to really secure them—the easiest way to manage it is by putting the male end of the belt through the buckle and pulling it tightly. Just make sure that you can slip your finger in between the binding and the person's wrist so you know it's not too tight!

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How do you tie someone up safely?

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Make sure that you tie knots properly! Tie your knots in a bow rather than double- or triple-knotting them.

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My friend tied me up tightly around my breasts. Will my breasts be damaged?

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No, it's unlikely that you suffered any kind of damage. You may experience some bruising and soreness for a few days though.

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Where is a good spot to tickle someone when he's tied up?

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The neck, armpits, sides, and bottoms of the feet are typically good places to start.

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Could I blindfold the person being tied up?

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If the person is okay with it. You shouldn't do it without their permission.

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Why don't you post instructions for how to escape after being tied up by friends?

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Here you go .

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Can I tie up the good guys?

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You can tie up anyone you want as long as you get their consent first.

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Can I tie someone up in their boxers?

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As long as they consent to being tied up, sure.

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How can I persuade someone to tie/tape me up?

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Just ask them, calmly and respectfully. If they say no, accept it and ask someone else.

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What if they don't want me to tie them up?

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Then don't tie them up!

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How can I convince a girl to let me tie her up?

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You shouldn't need to convince someone. If they aren't wholeheartedly into it, then you don't have full consent.

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What do I do if I like tying people up and getting tied up?

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Just accept it, there are lots of people who like it too! There's nothing wrong with liking this, as long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else while you're doing it.

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What are some other ways to tie someone up?

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There are many ways you could tie someone up. One other way to tie someone up is to hogtie them.

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How long would it take to escape being tied to a chair?

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It depends how strong you are and how tightly you are tied up. If you are tied too tight, try to use something like a file to cut the rope.

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Can I just use tape to tie and gag someone?

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Sure, just make sure you choose the right kind of tape. Look for a non-aggressive stick, and a skin-friendly material. If you tape the mouth, the tape should come off without tearing the skin or pulling out hair.

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How do I tie someone up using pantyhose?

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The problem with stretchy material like pantyhose is that you can't control how tight it might get, which could pinch nerves or cut off circulation.

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How do I get out of being tied up when doing an escape contest?

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Explain to the person tying you up that you don't want to be tied up. They should understand and if they don't, shout loudly so others come and help stop this from happening.

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How do I tie someone up with duct tape?

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It's not a good idea to tie someone up with duct tape, which adheres strongly to the skin, and can harm the person when it's removed.

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What if I’m writing a scene but ropes aren’t strong enough to hold the captive would chains work or do you have a suggestion

Spencer James Edwards

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Chains will work as long as you don't make them too tight. If you make them too tight they will hurt your partner.

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If my friend ties me up and leaves me, and there's no one else there to help me, what do I do?

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Scream for someone to untie you. Once that's done, find a new friend.

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