Ok this is going to be kinda long so I’m sorry to begin with. Anyways me and my daughters mother were dating and engaged for 11years. Our daughter is 6 yrs old now. I used to be the only one working so I believe it all started after I became disabled. 5 years ago I was in a bad car accident during work which left me disabled for rest of life. We had to move back with parents at that time and after a year she ended up cheating on me the first time because her mom told her she should be with someone not useless and worthless and that’ll take care of her and pay her bills. From what she told me why she did but she ended up telling me on Mother’s Day right after I got back into the car from seeing my mothers grave all while laughing and with our daughter in the back. I couldn’t even say or think what to say the whole 45 min drive home. But he “promised” to pay off her car and buy her house just to get with her even though she knew he was messing with 3 other girls because she worked with him… I ended up taking her back without even trying to make her work for me and show me she loved me but I ended up getting a hefty settlement from work which she kepted trying to get me to buy a house and get married even though she was always busy to spend time with me or she was sore from work… mind you she’s a cashier at a gas station and only works 25-30 hrs a week… Three months ago she cheated on me again but it was way worse because she ended up blocking me and refused to let me see my daughter and her parents tried saying I was threatening to kill both of them which was a lie because I took them to court and we are going through the process now of trying to agree on days and times… that’s not the issue the issue is the person she cheated on me broke up with her because they lived 8-10hrs away two states over and ever since then she has been constantly trying to get back with me and trying to tell me everything was a mistake and using our daughter saying she would be happier if we were a family again… I really do love her and idk why I’ve been even thinking about it but I’m the type that always fight for a family to be together… “dumb” I know but she thinks I should instantly trust her and believe her about being with her and she wants to marry me again and get a house together… her parents have told her they would disown her if she got with me because of all the lies she told them about me just so people fell sorry for her… she does have serious mental issues but I really have no clue how to handle this… I feel like I’m the guy that is just a place holder to give her attention till someone else starts… and she believes EVERYTHING anyone says to her…
I’m not sure how to give advice on the whole of this very sad situation…
Is there anything specific you want advice on?
I’ll do my best to be of use
