Laura Bilotta

Dating Coach & Matchmaker

Laura Bilotta is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Founder of Single in the City, her dating and relationship coaching service based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. With over 21 years of experience, she focuses on helping singles date more intentionally, encouraging them to let go of negative patterns so that they can attract the love that they deserve. Her experience, skills, and insights have led to over 65,000 successfully united singles through events and one-on-one matchmaking coaching sessions.

Education

  • Humber College, BA, Radio and Television

Professional Achievements

  • Host of The Dating and Relationship Show on Global News Radio 640 Toronto (AM640) for 6 years
  • Single in the City, her popular singles club, has over 95.5K members who regularly join in weekly dating and relationship-focused rooms
  • Featured in Elle Magazine, NOW Magazine, and Toronto Life

Philosophy

Laura believes that there is someone out there for everyone, but to meet someone new, you have to get more social and try something different. Laura encourages people to date intentionally—letting go of negative patterns—so they can attract the love they deserve.

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Forum Comments (3)

I want to make him miss me. What are your tips?
If you really want someone to miss you, the key thing is to not send text after text, or phone call after phone call. Avoid too much contact. You have to let them miss you, and in order for them to miss you, you have to keep a bit of space. Distance makes the heart grow fonder, so keep them a little time on their own, and let them wonder what you are up to.

When you do reach out, don’t act desperate! Keep your texts or phone calls brief and to the point. It’s important to carry on maintaining your own life. While you’re with them, don’t give them too much information about yourself. You want to keep them guessing and leave a little mystery.
Why do humans kiss?
The main way to tell if a guy wants to kiss you is by checking out his body language. Most guys won't ask you if they can kiss you; instead, you can pick up signs based on what he is doing with his body. Maybe he’s leaning in closer to you while you are talking, or his body has gotten closer to yours while you've been interacting. Check out his eyes: is he gently staring at you? Is he gazing in your eyes and then lookimg away and then quickly coming back to this gentle stare? Is he giving you flirty eyes, are they open a little wider than normal, almost giving you an enthusiastic expression? Oftentimes, guys will grin at you or give a cheeky smile if they want to kiss you.

Another great sign that he wants to kiss you is he'll give you subtle touches. If he gently touches your hands or back or any part of your body, this is a good indication that he may want to kiss you. Some guys like to tease girls too! So, if he seems to be innocently teasing you or playing with you then it could be because he actually wants to kiss you.
Help, I have a crush on my best friend!
If you talk to your friend and she doesn't feel the same as you, a little bit of distance can work wonders to help you heal. Keep in contact with your friend, but have less contact than before.

Don't make a big deal of it. You don't want to go around telling everyone or feel angry about the rejection. It is important to remember how the friendship was before you developed this crush.

If you have to, stop looking at their social media accounts for the time being. Talk it out with them so no one is left feeling awkward, and then commit to letting it go. Allow yourself to grieve and get over it. That could happen by creating a bit of space.

It could mean taking a few weeks or a month off of seeing them, but this could be best for both of you in the long run. Focus on other activities and on yourself, get back to doing things you love, and learn how to just be a friend again to this person.

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