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Long distance relationships (LDR) present unique challenges—that’s no secret. But what exactly are you getting yourself into? What should you expect before you commit? And how do you overcome those challenges? We’re here with 3 harsh truths about what it’s like to be in an LDR and the hurdles you’ll face when you commit to one. But we won’t leave you hanging—we’ll also offer some practical strategies and invaluable advice for how to clear those hurdles and make your long-distance love work.
This article is based off an interview with our professional dating coach, John Keegan, founder of The Awakened Lifestyle. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- LDRs make physical and emotional intimacy a challenge. Overcome this by sending each other gifts and spending plenty of time talking on video calls.
- Entering an LDR may negatively impact your mental health. Talk to a therapist about your well-being and join an LDR support group to meet like-minded people.
- Not much is certain in an LDR, and that can take a mental toll. Schedule plenty of in-person visits so you have something concrete to look forward to.
Steps
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Tips
- If you feel overwhelmed by any negative aspects of an LDR—the distance, emotional limitations, or personal doubts—talk to your partner or a close friend about them. If it’s too much, consider ending the relationship .Thanks
References
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