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Piercing professionals don’t typically offer piercings to minors unless they have a parent’s approval. This can be a frustrating roadblock, especially if your parents or guardians are on the more old-fashioned side. Don’t give up hope, though—there are plenty of ways to make a compelling case for a nose piercing. We’ve put together plenty of helpful talking points and tips to give you your best chance at success.

Things You Should Know

  • Research the nose piercing process thoroughly so you can address all of your parents’ potential concerns.
  • Save up your own money for the piercing and let your parents know that you don’t expect them to pay for it.
  • Pick out simple jewelry or retainers that are more suitable for professional environments.
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Research the nose piercing process.

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  1. Your parents may be wary about an unnecessary procedure that involves needles—so, why not lay out to them just how safe it is? Learn about the ins and outs of the process so you can properly relay them to your parents. Make it clear that you understand the risks involved and that you’re well-informed about what to expect.
    • “I would only go to a piercing studio that thoroughly sterilizes their equipment and jewelry with an autoclave.” [1]
    • “Nose piercings aren’t actually that scary! The piercer uses a hollow needle to create the hole for the piercing.”
    • “I know the piercing will hurt a little bit, but I can deal with the pain. [2] I’m prepared to take acetaminophen if need be.” [3]
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Pick out a safe, well-rated piercing parlor.

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  1. Your parents may have some pre-conceived, less-than-accurate ideas about how piercings work and where you go to get them done. Explain to your parents that you’ve researched a lot of piercing parlors in the area, and that you’ll only get your nose pierced by a reputable piercer who works in a clean, well-reviewed establishment. [4]
    • “There’s a piercer about 20 minutes from here—he has hundreds of fantastic Yelp reviews and he has over 10 years of piercing experience. He’s even a member of the Association of Professional Piercers.”
    • “I would never pierce my nose myself or get a piercing done by a friend (or anyone who wasn’t a professional). If I get this done, it’ll be done safely and hygienically.”
    • “If it would make you feel more comfortable, we can search for piercers on APP’s website . Their database only includes certified, trustworthy piercing professionals.”
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Research the aftercare process.

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  1. A potential infection might be a big concern for your parents, so assure them that you’ve done your research. Explain the different parts of the aftercare process, like washing your hands before cleaning the piercing with saline-soaked gauze, and washing your sheets and pillowcases frequently. [5]
    • “I plan on cleaning my piercing twice a day by washing my hands, soaking a cotton swab in saline, and dabbing around the nose piercing.”
    • “I won’t use any harmful products to clean my piercing like hydrogen peroxide, rubbing alcohol, or bacitracin.” [6]
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Save up for the piercing ahead of time.

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  1. A nose piercing (plus the jewelry) can easily cost more than $50, but it ultimately depends on the individual piercer or piercing business. Scope out the prices of piercers in your area and make sure you have enough saved up for the procedure ( including a tip , if possible). Let your parents know that you will pay for everything and that you don’t expect them to foot the bill.
    • “I’ve been putting some of my savings aside for the past few months, and I have more than enough to cover both the piercing and the tip. I wouldn’t expect you to pay for anything.”
    • “I’ve researched how much a piercing would cost and I’ve already budgeted the money for it.”
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wikiHow Quiz: What Piercing Should I Get?

Piercings are a great way to express yourself and enhance your style, but there are so many to choose from. How can you be sure you pick the perfect piercing for your personality and look? You’ve come to the right place. Answer these fun questions, and we’ll match you to the piercing of your dreams.
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Which words best describe you?

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Explain that piercings can be temporary.

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Explain why you want a nose piercing.

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  1. Dig deep and really think about why you want a nose piercing. Will it help you feel more confident? Do you really like the way they look? Understanding this reason can help you better connect with your parents as you make their case to them.
    • “Nose studs have been trendy for decades, and they’ll never go out of style. I’ve always loved the way they look, and would love to have one of my own.”
    • “I’ve always loved jewelry, and I think getting a nose piercing would be a great way to expand my horizons.”
    • Note: Keep in mind that some reasons might not resonate with your parents. For example, getting a nose piercing to “fit in” likely won’t be compelling—they’ll probably say that you don’t need a piercing to fit in, or that true friends will stay by you regardless of your piercing status. (Which is all true, by the way, but not helpful when it comes to convincing your parents.)
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Respect their answer but keep the convo open.

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  1. It’s completely valid to be frustrated if your parents don’t see things your way. However, getting upset with them won’t earn you any points in the long run. If your parents say “no,” treat it as a temporary answer to an ongoing conversation that’ll be picked up later on.
    • “While I’m a little disappointed, I respect your answer and appreciate you discussing this with me.”
    • “I respect your answer, but this is something I’m really serious about. I’d love to discuss this more in a few months if you’d be willing.”
    • “I’m disappointed, but I understand. Would you be willing to circle back to this conversation next year?”
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Wait until you’re older if they say no.

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  1. If you’re in your early teens, your parents just might not be comfortable with you having a piercing so young. If you’re truly committed to getting a nose piercing, wait a year or 2 before talking to your parents again—they might take you more seriously when they see how dedicated you are.
    • If you’re an older teen (like 16 or 17), it might be worth waiting until you’re 18 to get the piercing done. We know that it’s a tough wait—but imagine how rewarding it’ll be to get that piercing without needing your parents’ permission!
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  • Question
    How can I convince my mom to let me get a nose piercing?
    Roger Rodriguez
    Piercing Specialist
    Roger Rodriguez, also known as Roger Rabb!t, is the Owner of Ancient Adornments Body Piercing, a piercing studio based in the Los Angeles, California area. With over 25 years of piercing experience, Roger has become the co-owner of several piercing studios such as ENVY Body Piercing and Rebel Rebel Ear Piercing and teaches the craft of body piercing at Ancient Adornments. He is a member of the Association of Professional Piercers (APP).
    Piercing Specialist
    Expert Answer
    Look for ways to show your parents how responsible you are. It's not just about nagging your parents until they give in—you need to look for any way you can get extra points toward getting them to agree. For instance, work hard to keep your grades up so they'll be more likely to say yes.
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    Can you do it at home by yourself as a minor with the proper piercing supplies?
    wikiHow Staff Editor
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    This answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.
    wikiHow Staff Editor
    Staff Answer
    We do not recommend piercing your own nose, as tempting as it may be. Piercing is a profession that requires years of training and practice. Piercing yourself at home is very unsanitary, and it can leave you with permanent damage if you mess it up.
  • Question
    Can you go by yourself?
    Community Answer
    Most states in the US require a minor to be accompanied by their legal guardian. This means that you won't be able to go by yourself until you're eighteen.
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      Warnings

      • Never try to pierce your own nose, as tempting as it may be. Piercing is a profession that requires years of training and practice, as well as the proper tools. Piercing yourself at home is very unsanitary, and it can leave you with permanent damage from a botched at-home procedure. [10]
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      If you want to get your nose pierced, you can convince your parents by doing your research and carefully presenting your argument. When you ask your parents, they’ll likely have a lot of questions, such as what it will cost and how you’ll take care of it. Show your responsibility by researching these things online ahead of time. You’ll also want to assure them that piercings are safe procedures. You can even show them a video of the procedure online to show them what to expect. If your parents are worried about your job prospects, explain to them that the piercing is not permanent and can be taken out at any time. To learn what to do if your parents say no, read on.

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