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Are you fantasizing about a night of passion in a hotel with your man? Before you can hit the sheets, you’ve got to set the mood. We’ll have you cuddling in the candlelight on rose petals and satin sheets in no time. With our help, you can impress your man with the perfect décor to inspire romance and make him totally focused on you.

Things You Should Know

  • Choose a hotel room that has a view and romantic amenities such as a bathtub, hot tub, or fancy room service.
  • Decorate the room with rose petals , candles , and love notes.
  • Replace the hotel bedding with a satin sheet set and comforter cover .
  • Lay out a tray of your man's favorite desserts and a bottle of wine or champagne to share.
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Pick a hotel room with a view and amenities.

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  1. There’s nothing more romantic than overlooking the ocean, landscape, or the city’s best sights. You could also look for amenities that will make your romantic evening even more enjoyable, such as:
    • A nice bathtub
    • A hot tub
    • Room service
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Decorate with rose petals.

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  1. Nothing says romance like rose petals . You could start by sprinkling them on the bed in the shape of a heart. Then, sprinkle a few on the floor leading from the hotel room door to the bed. If you like, go ahead and sprinkle them along the flat surfaces. Your guy will know right away what you have in mind for tonight.
    • Save some rose petals for a couple’s bath. Sprinkle a few along the side of the tub and into the water.
3

Arrange candles around the room.

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  1. Place candles on the hotel room nightstand, entertainment center, and bathroom counter. If there’s a bathtub, you could even place a few candles along the side of the tub. [1]
    • Tealight candles are small and unscented, so they’re perfect for creating some ambiance.
    • Scented candles will fill the room with a nice smell. Keep in mind that you can only burn one or two at the same time without the smell becoming overwhelming.
    • Flameless candles are a great alternative if your hotel doesn’t allow you to burn candles.
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Use scent to arouse him.

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  1. Burn a scented candle or spritz a fragrance spray . Pick a scent you know your guy likes. If you’re using a spray, simply spritz it onto the sheets and into the air. You could also spray the lampshades on the bedside lamps because the heat from the bulb will diffuse the scent throughout the room.
    • Don’t spray fragrance on a hot light bulb because it could cause the bulb to explode, since the liquid is cold.
    • What scents appeal to men? According to experts, lavender and pumpkin pie scents turn men on, especially if you combine them. [2]
5

Play romantic music.

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  1. Listening to music makes people feel great; a good song can actually boost your mood. [3] You want your guy and yourself to be in the mood for love, so build a playlist that will ignite his passion. Here are some hot and romantic songs you might like:
    • "Lover" by Taylor Swift
    • "Love on the Brain" by Rihanna
    • "All of Me" by John Legend
    • ”Please Me” by Cardi B feat. Bruno Mars
    • “Starry Eyes” by The Weeknd
    • "No One" by Alicia Keys
    • "Love Me Like You Do" by Ellie Goulding
    • ”Sexual Healing” by Marvin Gaye
    • ”Slow Hands” by Niall Horan
    • ”Need You Tonight” by INXS
    • ”Let’s Get It On” by Marvin Gaye
    • ”Perfect” by Ed Sheeran
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Put out some flowers.

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  1. Looking at flowers actually brings people pleasure. They’re naturally stimulating, so they’re perfect for a night of passion. [4] Roses are a classic option, but you could also get your boyfriend’s favorite flowers. Get creative with how you arrange the flowers in your hotel room.
    • Put a bouquet of flowers on the table or nightstand.
    • Lay individual flowers on the pillows or across the bed.
    • Arrange the flowers on the bed in the shape of a heart or your initials.
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Leave sweet notes from him to find.

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  1. Tape heart-shaped notes to the walls of the hotel room, the mirror, or the nightstand. You could even leave a love letter on the bed or beside a bouquet of flowers. Tell him how much you love him, or hint at what you plan to do during your night of passion.
    • “I can’t wait to give you my special massage.”
    • “You’re the only guy who gets me hot.”
    • “I love you more every day I know you.”
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Slip into lingerie or a slinky robe.

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  1. After all, guys tend to be aroused by visual stimulation. [5] Pick lingerie or a robe that makes you feel most confident, then wow him when he walks into your hotel room.
    • Red really turns men on. Your guy may not realize it, but the color red is proven to stoke his passion. [6]
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Display some wine, champagne, or sparkling grape juice.

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  1. Chill a bottle of wine , champagne , or sparkling grape juice in ice and pair it with a set of nice glasses . The hotel might even loan you the bucket and supply you with ice.
    • Not sure what kind of wine to pick? Red wine gives you a sense of pleasure and can be arousing, so it’s perfect for a night of romance. [7]
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Put out a tray of decadent desserts.

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  1. Your guy will feel your passion when you spoil him with tasty treats. [8] Go with a classic like chocolate covered strawberries or strawberries and whipped cream. Alternatively, pick up a couple of your man’s favorite desserts and display them on a nice plate or silver tray.
    • Maybe some of the whipped cream or icing just happens to fall onto your bodies as you enjoy your hot night together.
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Place a bottle of massage oil beside the bed.

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  1. Your guy will see the massage oil and know exactly what you have in mind. Chances are, he’ll be even more excited about feeling your touch on his skin than he’ll be about the other decorations you pick out. When he arrives, give him a massage that will leave him thinking about it long afterward.
    • If you’re using a fragrance spray or a scented candle, you might go with an unscented massage oil so there aren’t too many smells in the air.
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Run a bubble bath for two.

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  1. A hot bubble bath will get his heart racing with anticipation. He won’t be able to stop thinking about you sinking into those bubbles. Create an inviting atmosphere with lightly scented bubbles, soft candlelight, and a sprinkling of rose petals. [9]
    • While in the bath, massage each other's feet or soap each other up.
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Switch out the hotel bedding for something satin.

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  1. Satin sheets are sure to put you both in the mood. The silky feel of satin really stimulates your sense of touch. [10] Go with red sheets to evoke passion, or pick his favorite color to show him you really know him.
    • Fold up the hotel sheets and place them out of sight in the chest of drawers or closet. This way, they don't distract from your decorations!
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Make kissing towel origami swans.

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  1. You’re going to need two bath towels to make the swans , which you can grab from the bathroom. When you place them on the bed, press the beaks together so that it looks like they’re kissing. [11]
    • Sprinkle rose petals around the swans to make them even more romantic.

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