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If you’re used to eating with cutlery, eating Indian food with your hands can be an intimidating concept. Fortunately, eating with your hands doesn't have to be a messy, uncomfortable experience. By following a few simple etiquette rules and learning how to eat different foods with your hands, you can sit down and confidently enjoy a traditional Indian meal.

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Following the Proper Etiquette

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  1. You want to ensure your hands are completely clean before you sit down for your meal. [1]
  2. In Indian culture, the left hand is commonly viewed as dirty and unsanitary, and therefore rude to eat with. Avoid serving, eating, or touching any of the food with your left hand. [2]
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  3. Avoid letting the food touch your palms. Hold the food near the tips of your fingers when you're bringing it to your mouth. [3]
  4. It's custom to sample each dish individually. This goes for any main dishes and side dishes but does not include the bread, rice, or daal. [4]
    • For example, you wouldn't mix a vegetable dish with a meat dish in the same bite, or eat one of the side dishes with one of the main dishes in the same bite.
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Eating with the Bread

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  1. Traditionally you will be offered vegetables and meat as the main dishes, along with side dishes like pickles and papad. [5]
  2. Try to get a piece that's about 1 x 1.5 inches (2.5 x 3.8 cm). Place the bread over one of the main dishes on your plate. [6]
    • You can use the bread as a tool to break apart pieces of food on your plate that are too large to eat. Just place the bread over a piece of food and press down to break it into smaller pieces. [7]
  3. With the piece of bread resting over the vegetable or meat dish on your plate, fold the bread in half using your fingers, letting some of the food underneath get pinched in between the two halves of the bread. Bring your hand to your mouth and eat the bread. [8]
  4. Pick up a piece of food from a side dish and bring it to your mouth. Don't put your fingers in your mouth when you're eating it or lick them after you take a bite. [9]
  5. Continue using the bread to pick up food from the main dishes. Eat a side dish in between each bite of a main dish. [10]
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Eating the Rice

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  1. If you finished the main dishes on your plate, serve yourself some more to have with the rice. [11]
  2. Daal is a lentil-based stew traditionally served with rice. [12] Don’t go overboard with the daal at first; too much daal will make the rice mushy and hard to clump together. If your rice is bland or sticky, carefully add more daal until you like the taste and texture. [13]
  3. You can make the rice ball with just the rice and daal mixture, or you can pack in some of the main dishes too. [14]
  4. Position the rice ball near the tips of your four fingers, and hold it in place using your thumb. [15]
  5. The palm of your hand should be face up, with the rice ball directly in front of your mouth. [16]
  6. Make sure you get all of the rice off your fingertips using your thumb. [17]
  7. Serve yourself more of the main dishes, side dishes, or rice if you run out at any point during the meal. [18]
  8. Wash your hands in the sink if you’re at home or dining at someone else’s home. If you’re at a restaurant, wash your hands in one of the water bowls provided by your server. [19]
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    How do I eat noodles?
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    With a fork or chopsticks. Noodles are not traditional Indian fare.
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    Is rice a type of potato?
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    No. Rice is a type of grain, potatoes are vegetables. They are both carbohydrates, though.
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    Should I eat rice with a spoon since my hands get messy with my hands?
    Shreeya Srivastava
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    The main point of eating Indian food is eating with your hands, as it shows connection with the food and it is respectful. But if you prefer eating with a spoon, then that is okay too.
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