What do you like about being single?

WikiValleyJammer490
01/10/25 12:12pm
I'm in my #singleera lately and I think it's good for me to be alone and date around, as someone who historically jumps from relationship to relationship, but...it's hard lol. I miss being in a couple! I do know some people who love being single, though, and I'm wondering how they do it? Those of you who are happy and single, what tips and advice do you have? Why do you like it?
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Amy Chan
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01/10/25 6:14pm
Getting to reinvent yourself is one of the most exciting things about being single. After a breakup, you get an opportunity to start with a blank canvas—and you get to paint the type of life, love, and partnership that you want, now with new wisdom and lessons learned. There's a freedom of being single—of being able to do what you want, when you want, where you want, without having to worry about someone else, that is liberating and exciting. You can date different people, test out what you like and don't like, and get conscious of the type of partner that will be a good fit for you next time. The best thing about being single is that you have time, energy and headspace to focus on your relationship with yourself—to be the best version of yourself and exercise your muscles of being your own source of love, validation, and joy.
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WikiRiverHugger872
01/22/25 9:26pm
The peace and serenity of not having to consider anyone else’s feelings or request.
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WikiLorisWatcher831
01/14/25 1:26pm
When you become single after being in a long-term relationship (or after being in many shorter relationships), it's gonna feel a little weird. You're probably going to have a lot more time on your hands and not be sure what exactly to do with it. Try to put a plan in place to make the most of your time! Is there a hobby that you've always wanted to try? A friend that you wish you were closer with? A place that you've wanted to travel to? Now is a great time to do those things!
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WikiRiverSlinger714
01/13/25 10:48am
I definitely miss many things about being in a relationship, but there are also lots of things I love about being single! My ex and I used to live together, but now I have my own space. I can also plan out my day however I want it without having to consider another person. If I spontaneously decide that I want to do something, I can do it! If I don't feel like doing anything and need some recharging time, I can take it! I'm enjoying being single
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WikiToadWatcher346
01/12/25 11:02pm
What I appreciated about being single is that it taught me that being alone and being lonely are not the same thing. At first, I was so lonely when I was single. I missed my ex a lot. But then I put more effort into my friendships and into improving myself (went to the gym, picked up hobbies I've been wanting to try, started therapy) and that was really fulfilling and rewarding.
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