How do I get out of the dreaded friend zone?

That’s a great question, and I get why it feels tricky. In my book, Dr. Chloe’s 10 Commandments of Dating, I talk about the importance of confidence and clear communication in relationships. Try subtly shifting the dynamic by complimenting her in a way that goes beyond friendship, suggesting a more date-like activity, or playfully mentioning the idea of you two as a couple to gauge her reaction. If she responds positively, build on it. If not, you’ll have your answer without risking much. When the time feels right, you can say, “I’ve always valued our friendship, but I’d be lying if I said I never wondered what it would be like to date you. Have you ever thought about that?” This keeps it honest while leaving space for her comfort.