100+ Romantic Love Letters to Make Her Cry, Swoon, & Laugh

If you want to make your girl feel really special, then writing her a deep and romantic love letter is a surefire way to do just that! But how can you make sure that your love letter makes her feel just as warm and fuzzy as she makes you feel every day? Well, we spoke with relationship coach Julia McCurley and dating coach Crista Beck for their best tips on writing a romantic love letter, which we’ve compiled alongside sample messages for a funny , emotional , of unique letter .

Sample Love Letter for a Girlfriend

Dear [her name]
Every moment with you is a gift. I love your kindness, your generosity, and your effervescent smile that brightens every day of my life. You’re my best friend and the love of my life. I cherish everything about you.
Forever yours,
[your name]

Section 1 of 12:

Romantic Love Letters for Her

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Baby,
If you wanted the moon, I’d find a way to lasso it down to Earth and place it in your hands. If you wanted the stars, I’d pluck the brightest ones out of the sky and fix them in your hair. There’s nothing I wouldn’t do to make you happy. You’re the center of my universe.
XOXO,
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My dear,
From the moment I met you, I knew I had found someone special. You have brought such joy and love into my life that I cannot imagine living without you. Your presence fills me with warmth and delights every single day that passes; your beauty never ceases to astound me.
Forever yours,
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My love,
The way you can always see the best in me—even on my darkest days—lets me know just how much you care for me. Your outlook on life, your sweet spirit, and your kind heart are just a few of the things I admire about you. I’m so glad we found each other and that I can call you mine.
Forever and always,
_____
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Dear ____,
They say when you find the love of your life, you’ll just know. I never thought that was true until I met you. I’ve loved you since we first said hello, and I’ll continue to love you for as long as you let me. There’s nothing more special to me in the world than you.
Love,
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My angel,
Your smile makes me feel like the happiest person alive, and being around you makes everything better. Your laughter brings sunshine into my life on rainy days, so I promise to do my best to keep you contented and content.
Your darling,
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My love,
Time stands still when we’re together. It’s like nobody else exists but us two. I love spending every waking day with you, and I’m so glad that we always have each other to help us get through tough times.
Hugs and kisses,
_____
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Babe,
I don’t know what I did to deserve an angel like you, but I’m grateful for it every day. You’re my one and only, my now and forever, and my happily ever after.
Lots of love,
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My dearest girl,
I’m so blessed to have you by my side. You’re everything I’ve ever dreamed of and more. I’ll work the rest of my life to make you as happy as you’ve made me.
Your soulmate,
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My beloved,
Your laugh makes me smile from ear to ear, and your touch makes my heart skip a beat. Falling in love with you has been my greatest joy and I can’t wait to see what the future holds.
Love,
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Love,
I still remember the first time we met like it was yesterday. In that moment, I knew we were going to spend forever together. I can’t wait to keep making memories with you.
Your soulmate,
_____

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Unique Love Letters for Her

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To my princess,
How lucky am I that out of all of the fish in the sea, you caught me. Our love is bigger, deeper, and grander than the ocean—and it’s still growing more each day.
Love,
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My love,
I’ve never met anyone who just sparkles the way that you do. You must have glitter running through your veins because you simply light up my life whenever you’re around. Thank you for letting me love you.
Forever yours,
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My dear heart,
Your beauty is like a ray of sunshine that can bring brightness anywhere. Your beautiful smile never fails to make my heart melt. My dear, thank you for being a fantastic person inside and out. You are the best person in my life.
All my love,
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Honey bear,
There’s no denying it, we belong together. You’re the Yin to my Yang, and everyone who meets us knows it. I only wish that we’d met sooner, but I still cherish every moment I get to spend with my perfect other half.
Love you loads,
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Hi, my darling,
The sound of your voice is music to my ears, and I never want that song to stop playing. You’re the perfect girl for me, and I can’t wait to build the soundtrack of our life together.
Love you more,
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Hun, I may not know what the future holds, but I know one thing for sure: we’ll always be together. You’re my today, my tomorrow, and my forever.
All my love,
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Mi hermosa,
I’m utterly and completely smitten with you. If we were in a room full of art, I’d only stare at you. You’re a masterpiece in my eyes, and the only muse I’ll ever need to achieve all of our dreams.
Love you more,
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Dear ____,
You’re Barbie and I’m just Ken, but you still always make me feel like I’m Kenough (and I hope I make you feel the same way). We’re the perfect set, meant to go together. I love you, baby.
Hugs and kisses,
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To my sweetheart,
I’ve always felt like my life wasn’t complete until I met you. You’re the missing piece to my puzzle, and I’m so grateful to have finally found you—we just click! And I’ll never let you go.
XOXO,
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My angel,
You’re the Taylor to my Travis, and I feel so high school every time I see you. You leave me enchanted each day, and I’m so grateful for our never-ending love story .
Yours for (evermore) ,

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Funny Love Letters for Her

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Baby,
I love you a little s’more every day. You’re pure sweetness, and I’m addicted to everything about you.
Love,
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Sweetie pie,
I love you a whole latte . I may even love you more than my morning coffee…but please don’t ask me to prove it!
XOXO,
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Babe,
Orange you glad we met all those years ago? You’re my zest friend, and I love you so much.
Love,
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My dearest,
They say that all you need is love. But maybe having tacos together every now and then wouldn’t hurt as well…
Love you more,
_____
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Honey,
Sometimes I look at you and I think, “Wow, you’re such a lucky woman!” I hope you feel that way, too.
Hugs and kisses,
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To my best girl:
Are you a magician? I’ve always wanted to ask you this, because whenever I look at you, everything else around us disappears. Everything about you is so magical.
Love always,
_____
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My princess,
You’re the peanut butter to my jelly. You’re the avocado to my toast. You’re the cheese to my macaroni. Basically, we’re meant to go together.
With all my heart,
_____
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My cutie,
Forget the butterflies! When I’m with you, my stomach is full of birds, zebras, and elephants. I just love you that much.
Yours forever and ever,
_____
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Angel girl,
I love you with all of my belly, which means I love you a lot. I would’ve said my heart, but my belly is way bigger!
Love you most,
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Sweetheart,
I know you think I’m really cheesy. I can’t help it—I just think you’re so grate .
I love, love, love you.
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Cute Love Letters for Her

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My sugar pie,
I love you more than all the stars in the sky. Your beauty, grace, kindness, and adorable quirks make me fall more for you each and every day. I’m so lucky that you’re mine.
All my love,
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My darling girl,
Sometimes I feel like I’m living in a dream. I never thought that someone like you would fall for someone like me. I feel like the luckiest person alive to be able to call you mine. You’re my dream come true.
I love you.
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Sweetie,
I didn’t know what love was until you walked into my life, and now I don’t want you to ever leave. I love you more than you’ll ever know, and I can’t wait to spend forever with you.
XOXO,
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My love,
Whenever I see you, my heart dances with joy. I’m so glad we found each other and there’s no one else I’d rather share my life with. You make me happier than you could ever know.
Hugs and kisses,
_____
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Mi amor,
Our love story is one for the books. There’s nobody I would rather be on this journey with than you. I’m so thankful for all of the moments we’ve shared with each other so far, and I can’t wait to share more incredible memories with you in the upcoming years.
Yours,
_____
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Honey bunny,
Every time you make my morning coffee or buy my favorite doughnut, I know what you’re really saying is, “I love you.” And I love you, too.
A thousand kisses,
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My princess,
Our love story is my favorite fairytale, with you as the beautiful queen and me as your grateful king. Thank you for being my happily ever after. I’m so glad every day that we found each other.
Forever and always,
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Sweetie,
I never believed in a love like ours until I met you. Every day with you feels like we’re living in our very own romantic comedy (just like your favorite, When Harry Met Sally ). I hope it just keeps getting better and better—actually, I’m certain it will.
Love you most,
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To my muffin:
There’s no denying it, you’re the best thing that’s ever been mine. You fill my life with sunshine and my heart with joy. There’s no one else on Earth that I love as much as I love you.
XOXO,
_____
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My dearest,
I just wanted to let you know that I’m all yours. We’ve been together for too long now for you to return me. Hope you’re okay with that!
Love you more,
_____

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Emotional Love Letters That Will Make Her Cry

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Lovebug,
I didn’t think soulmates were real. Then our paths crossed, and I met you. You’ve filled my world with color when it used to be black and white. I love you so much and am so grateful that you’re in my life.
Love,
_____
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My love,
I wrote to let you know what you truly mean to me. Your love is like a rock in my life because it is secure and stable. Being loved by you makes me forever grateful. It is hard to find the right words to tell you how thankful I am to you.
Hugs and kisses,
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Baby girl,
If I could spend eternity with you, it would never be enough. You’re the most incredible girl I’ve ever met, and I cherish you beyond words. I’m so blessed to have your love and to love you in return.
Forever and always,
_____
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My darling,
I don’t know what I did to deserve a woman like you. I’m in awe of you. You make me feel like the luckiest man in the world. You’re the reason I wake up and the reason that I always have a smile on my face.
XOXO,
_____
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Sweetheart,
Your beauty is undeniable and lights up every room that you walk into. Thank you for lighting up my darkest days and always being by my side. I love you more than life itself.
All my love,
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Honey,
I hope everyone has the chance to experience a love like ours. It’s somehow both real and magical, and it’s the most special thing that I’ve ever experienced. I love you with every piece of my heart.
Yours,
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Babe,
There may be ups and downs, but we can get through anything as long as we’re together. You’re my perfect match, and I’m so glad I always have you to count on. I guess what I’m trying to say is that I really, really, really love you.
Love you most,
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Dear ____,
They say that nobody’s perfect…but you’re beyond perfect to me. Don’t ever change anything about yourself, because I love every single little piece of you.
Your hubby,
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My sunshine girl,
When you’re in my arms, there’s nowhere else I’d rather be in the world. I just want to hold you forever and ever. I love you more than I can even put into words.
Love,
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My dearest,
You have the most beautiful soul, and my heart melts whenever I’m around you. You make me the best version of myself, and I’m so thankful to love and be loved by you.
Yours forever,

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Short Love Letters for Her

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My darling,
Every time you smile, I smile back. Every time you laugh, I do, too. Every day that we spend together is a day I find myself falling more and more in love with you. You’re my everything, and I’m so grateful that you’re mine.
All my heart,
_____
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Hun,
Thank you so much for being here for me, for making me feel exceptional, and for putting a smile on my face every single day. You’re one of the sweetest and most amazing people in this world and I feel honored to be your partner.
Love,
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My dear heart,
You stole my heart the day we first met, but I’ll let you keep it. I know it’s safe as long as it’s with you.
All my love,
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Sweetie,
Growing up, I always wondered what it’d feel like to be fully and truly in love. Thanks to you, I can now say that it’s the best feeling in the whole world.
Yours forever,
_____
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Honey bunny,
When I look at you, I see home. You’re my ultimate happy place, your simple presence makes life better, and I’m so thankful you’re by my side to walk through life with.
A thousand kisses,
_____
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Baby,
I see all the little things you do and I appreciate them more than you know.
I love you.
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My angel,
From the moment my eyes landed on your face, I’ve felt pulled to you. It’s like an invisible string has been tying our lives together for a long time before we realized it, and I’m so grateful that we found our way to each other. I don’t know what I’d do without you.
I love you.
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Mi preciosa,
It’s not the things you say, but the things you do that mean the most to me. Thank you for being so absolutely wonderful!
Forever yours,
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Dear ____,
I’m so happy being with you. In fact, there’s nowhere else I’d rather be.
I’ll always love you forever.
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My princess,
I swear you have superpowers. If not, it’s just how naturally amazing you are. I’m so lucky you’re my best friend…and the greatest love of my life.
Your baby,
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Long Love Letters for Her

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To my love,
I just wanted to write you a letter about this moment we’re sharing right now in our lives. Everything moves quickly, and time never stands still. I know how fleeting every second is. The thing is, there’s no one I’d rather be with as the world keeps turning on its axis.
It’s you I think of when I wake up in the morning. As I go through my day, it’s you I want to tell about all the best and worst moments. At night, as I drift off to sleep, it’s your love that keeps me warm.
With every day that passes, I love you more. Every moment I get to share with you is one I’ll treasure for all my days.
My endless adoration,
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My dearest,
I know I tell you all the time how much I love you, but I’m not sure you understand how grateful I am for your love. Thank you for all the practical things you do (like cooking dinner when I'm tired or rubbing my shoulders after a long day). Thank you for the way you are with people, for being patient and showing such kindness and humor.
But thank you most of all for loving me. No one has ever really seen me the way you do, and I feel so accepted and cherished. I appreciate the million little ways you make my life so much better than it was before we met.
XOXO,
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Dear ____,
I used to laugh at all the rom-coms where two people perfectly fit together and fall madly in love in an instant….but now I’m not so much of a skeptic. When we first met, I think my heart literally skipped a beat, and it’s never gotten quite back on track since. You’re the one who holds not just my hand, but also my heart.
If I had to sum up our relationship in one word, I don't think I could do it. It's the fairy tale, the magic, and the romance all wrapped into a very real package with the person who isn't afraid to see me at my worst. You're smart, sweet, and everything I could want in a boyfriend—plus you're pretty cute too.
Forever yours,
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Cutie pie,
You always ask me why I love you, so I decided to write it all down so you can keep it and read it whenever you feel the need.
I love your optimistic nature. You always try to see the good in every person and situation, even when I can't see it myself. When I look at the world through your eyes, it's a better place.
I love the way you kiss me. Your lips perfectly fit with mine. I love those quick kisses you shower me with throughout the day, and I love your deep, lingering kisses even more. They make my toes curl, and I shiver with delight.
Most importantly, I love the way you complete me. You are the soulmate I thought I'd never find. You cheer me up when I'm down and help me find balance when my world is out of control. You make me want to do the same for you.
All my love,
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Honey,
I can remember the day we met like it was yesterday. We were at that party. I was having a drink and talking with a few friends when I randomly looked around the room. My eyes stopped on you, and my heart felt a rush. You happened to look over at the same moment and smiled at me. The minute I saw your smile, I knew I had to get to know you.
You walked into the kitchen later to add some ice to your glass, and I stood there wishing I had something witty to say. Thankfully, you broke the ice by saying hi and flashing another one of those charming smiles. I managed to say hi back to you, and that was the beginning of a lovely conversation that has been going on for a little over a year now. To think that it all started with your smile.
Love,
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My dearest love,
Waking up next to you feels like the start of a beautiful dream that I never want to wake up from. Simply being by your side fills me with a warmth and joy that I never knew existed before I knew you. You’re the calm in my storm, the sunshine on my cloudiest days, and the smile that melts my coldest winters. I cherish every moment that we share together, and I can’t wait to experience all the incredible memories we’ll make throughout the rest of our perfect love story.
With all my love,
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My sweetheart,
I wanted to write you a letter to remind you of just how special you are to me. You have this incredible ability to always see the best in me, even when I can’t see it in myself. Your kindness is a gentle but powerful force that makes the whole world feel better, brighter, and more hopeful. I feel so safe with you and like I can be the truest version of myself—you embrace my quirks and imperfections, and I likewise adore all of yours. Thank you, my love, for simply being you, and for the extraordinary love that you gift me with each day.
Thinking of you always,
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“I am reduced to a thing that wants only you…I composed a beautiful letter to you in the sleepless nightmare hours of the night, and it has all gone: I just miss you, in a quite simple desperate human way. You, with all your undumb letters, would never write so elementary a phrase as that; perhaps you wouldn’t even feel it. And yet I believe you’ll be sensible of a little gap. But you’d clothe it in so exquisite a phrase that it should lose a little of its reality…I suppose you are accustomed to people saying these things. Damn you, spoilt creature; I shan’t make you love me any more by giving myself away like this — But oh my dear, I can’t be clever and stand-offish with you: I love you too much for that. Too truly. You have no idea how stand-offish I can be with people I don’t love. I have brought it to a fine art. But you have broken down my defenses. And I don’t really resent it.” ^{[16]
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- This letter is adapted from one written by Vita Sackville-West to Virginia Woolf—a perfect reference for a literature-loving girlfriend!
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"Since I left you, I have been constantly depressed. My happiness is to be near you. Incessantly I live over in my memory your caresses, your tears, your affectionate solicitude. The charms of your incomparable self kindle continually a burning and a glowing flame in my heart. When, free from all solicitude, all harassing care, shall I be able to pass all my time with you, having only to love you, and to think only of the happiness of so saying, and of proving it to you?" ^{[17]
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- Got a girl who’s a major history buff? This adapted letter from Napoleon Bonaparte to his wife Joséphine may go a long way in impressing her!
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“Nothing compares to your hands, nothing like the green-gold of your eyes. My body is filled with you for days and days. You are the mirror of the night. The violent flash of lightning. The dampness of the earth. The hollow of your armpits is my shelter. My fingers touch your blood. All my joy is to feel life spring from your flower-fountain that mine keeps to fill all the paths of my nerves which are yours.” ^{[18]
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- If your girlfriend or wife is a lover of art, she’s sure to appreciate your version of this passionate letter from Frida Kahlo to Diego Rivera.

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“Missing You” Love Letters for Her

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My love,
I know you haven’t been gone that long, but I just wanted to let you know how much I miss you already. It’s so quiet here without you, even when my life is busy and noisy. I’ll be counting down the days until I next see you.
XOXO,
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My sweetness,
I miss being able to look into your eyes and touch your cheek. It’s a little thing, but that touch really is such a big deal to me. I love you so much, and I miss you every second.
Love,
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Honey,
I’m counting down the days until I can touch you and see you again. In the meantime, please know that I love you and am thinking of you constantly.
Forever and ever,
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Baby girl,
Just wanted to remind you how much I miss you. Counting down the minutes until I can see you again. You're always in my heart.
Loads of love,
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Sweetheart,
Even though we’re not physically together, not a day goes by that I can’t feel you by my side. Just the thought of you is enough to get me through the day. I want nothing more than to hold your hand and never let go, but I hope it’s enough for me to just say that I love and miss you more than anything in this world.
XOXO,
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Angel,
I hope you know that I would cross every single continent and every single ocean in order to be with you. I’d climb the highest mountain, swim across the deepest seas, and trek across the hottest deserts just to be by your side.
Missing you always,
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Hun,
Since I can’t tell you these words in person, I’ll pour all of my feelings into this paragraph. I’m crazy about you. You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m head over heels for you. When we finally get the chance to be together physically, I’ll tell you these things every single day. You should know just how lucky I feel for being able to call you mine.
Your forever love,
_____
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My love,
Your absence is a constant ache in my heart. I find myself replaying the memories we’ve created together and the moments that we’ve shared. I miss the way you make me laugh and the way that you love me. I can’t wait to have you back in my life.
Hugs and kisses,
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Dear ____,
I miss you more than words can say. Every day without you feels incomplete, and I’m counting down the days until we can be together again.
I love you.
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Hi, my love,
Every moment without you feels a little empty, but each one also reminds me of how much joy you bring into my life. Thinking of you brightens my day, and I can’t wait to be back in your arms. Sending you all my love and missing you dearly.
Je t’aime,

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Anniversary Love Letters for Her

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Honey,
[Insert number] years have passed since we became one, but my love for you has never changed. You are still my one and only love, and you continue to bring me so much joy and happiness. You have been the perfect partner to me all the years we’ve been together, and words alone cannot say how much I appreciate you.
I love you.
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Happy anniversary, my love!
I’m overjoyed to celebrate another year of love, laughter, and adventure with you. I cherish every moment we’ve spent together, and I can’t wait for so many more to come.
Thinking of you always,
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Sweetie,
Through thick and thin, you’ve always been here for me, offering comforting words and reminding me of the beautiful love that we share. You’ve shown me what true partnership is, what it looks like to love unconditionally, and what it means to build a beautiful life together. Today, on our anniversary, I’m even more grateful than normal for all you’ve given me.
Thank you for everything, my love.
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Baby,
With so many months behind us, I’m more sure than ever of how dramatically my fortunes changed when you stepped into my life. I’m so excited to keep writing our love story together. Happy [insert number] anniversary, my love.
I love you.
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Pumpkin,
As I celebrate another year with you, my heart overflows with a love that only deepens with time. Every moment spent with you is a cherished memory that I will hold close to me forever. Thinking back on our first date, our first kiss, and all of our first moments together makes me feel like I can conquer the world. I love you so much.
Endlessly,
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Cupcake,
This year has been a journey of growth and of finding even greater strength in our bond. You’ve been my constant companion and my biggest cheerleader. Thank you for being the woman who inspires me to be my best self. I love you more than I can say.
Happy anniversary, baby.
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My love,
[Insert number] years into our incredible relationship, I have to tell you how much I cherish the quiet moments we share, the cozy nights snuggled together on the couch, and the fun parties we’ve thrown together. Your presence in my daily life is the greatest gift I could have ever asked for.
Happy anniversary, my dearest.
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Babe,
As we continue this journey together, I can’t wait to see what new adventures await us and what dreams we’ll chase together. I’m eternally grateful for your love, support, and unwavering belief in me. You’re the most incredible woman. Happy anniversary, my love. You’re my everything and my forever.
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Dearest heart,
To the most beautiful woman who has given me the most beautiful life, a very happy anniversary. Every love story is special, unique, and beautiful—but ours is (by far) my favorite.
Yours truly,
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Lovebug,
I didn’t think it was possible to love you any more than the first day I said it to you, but somehow my love for you only grows. I love you today, and always. Happy anniversary!

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Apology Love Letters for Her

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Dear _____,
Please forgive me for what I did. I would do anything to go back in time and change my actions. Please give me a chance to make it up to you. I know I’m not perfect, but I also know that I love you more than anything in the world.
Please forgive me.
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Honey,
The words ‘I am sorry’ are just not enough to convey all the feelings in my heart. I cannot figure out exactly how to say it, but trust me when I say I genuinely feel so terrible about hurting you.
I am so sorry, my love.
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My sweet ____,
I admit I was wrong in not listening to you. I’m sorry for failing you. Believe me that I’m trying so hard to be the best version of myself for you. Please accept my apology. And if I ever happen to hurt you again, tell me how you feel but please don’t walk away. I’ll do anything for you.
Your love,
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Pumpkin,
I am sorry for taking you for granted. It kills me that I have made you feel that way. I see what I did, and please know that I appreciate you far more than I have ever shown. I am going to start showing you how much I truly appreciate you so you never feel this way again.
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Sweet ___,
The thought of you hating me or not wanting to see me again pains my heart immensely. I can’t tell you how much i miss you. I know I’ve hurt you deeply, and your anger is justified. You’re the only woman in my life and there’s no way that anyone can ever take your place. I loved you the very first moment I saw you, and I’ll love you for as long as time exists. I’m so sorry for how I’ve hurt you.
Forever yours,
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Baby,
You mean the world to me, and I'm sorry for jeopardizing our relationship. I never wanted to be the cause of your tears, and I'll work hard to be the reason for your smiles. I'm sorry for the pain I've caused, and I'll do everything in my power to make it up to you. Our love is worth fighting for, and I'm willing to fight for us. Please forgive me, and let's rebuild our love on a foundation of trust and understanding.
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Dearest ___,
This is a letter of penitence. I want to tell you how extremely sorry I am for breaking my promises to you and letting you down yet again. I knew you were the one for me from the moment I set eyes on you, and I regret everything I’ve ever done that’s made you feel like I don’t love you or care for you the way you deserve. I’m so sorry.
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My darling girl,
I want to apologize for not being there when you needed me yesterday. I should’ve been more attentive, and I feel terrible for letting you down. Please forgive me, and I promise to be there for you from now on.
All my love,
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My sweet pea,
Now that I’ve had time to reflect on what happened yesterday, I realize the pain that I must have caused you. I know it won’t be easy for you to forgive me, but I’d be so happy if you were to give me another chance. Let’s sit down and talk about what happened and sort through it together. Please give me a chance to set things right, and I promise to never behave this way again.
I love you.
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Sweetheart,
I’m really sorry for the argument we had last night. I know I said some hurtful things, and I regret it deeply. You mean the world to me, and I never want to see you upset like that. Can we talk and make things right?

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How to Write a Love Letter to Your Girlfriend

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Start with a personal salutation like “my darling” or “my love.” Open the letter with a simple greeting to your wife or girlfriend—and don’t be afraid to get mushy! Use a classic term of endearment like “To my love,” “Dear ____,” or “Baby.” You can also use a personal nickname that you have for your partner to make your letter cuter and more personal. Here are some other example openings for a love letter: ^{[25]
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- My love,
- Hi, babe
- Hi, baby
- My darling,
- My dearest,
- To my forever,
- Dear sunshine,
- My sweetheart,
- Hello, gorgeous,
- To my everything,
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Tell your girlfriend why you’re writing her a letter . After your salutation, let your girlfriend know why you decided to sit down and write her a letter. Maybe you’re writing a letter for a special occasion, like Valentine’s Day, a birthday, or an anniversary. Or, maybe you just feel so full of love and emotion that you need to put it down into words—that’s a very swoon worthy reason to write your girlfriend a romantic letter! Whatever your reason, jot down a sentence that describes your reasoning for writing your heartfelt letter. ^{[26]
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Write about special memories together or things you love about her. For the main content of your letter, Beck recommends “writing what you love about your partner, like all the reasons why you love them…You want to describe the qualities that make them special to you and the qualities that actually touch your heart about them. You can name quirky, cute things about them. There can be tender things about them,” and you could even title the letter as “ reasons why I love you .”
- Alternatively, continues Beck, “you can share one of your favorite memories with them. Or maybe a simple moment that really touched your heart but that you never told them about.”
- Ultimately, just be sure to “tell them what they mean to you,” advises Beck. “Write about how their love has changed your life for the better. That’s a great love letter, saying that their love has altered your existence, you can’t live without them, things you appreciate about them.”
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Be authentic and personalize your letter to your girlfriend. While it’s more than okay to get inspiration from example love letters you read online, be sure to customize at least a few parts of your letter to really fit your girlfriend and your relationship together. Write your genuine feelings in your natural voice (your gf will be able to tell the difference!), rather than trying to use fancy academic words or academic language that doesn’t come naturally to you. Then, be sure to add in at least a couple of private jokes, specific memories, and other inside bits of knowledge that will make your letter feel extra special and personal.
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Involve multiple senses for a more dynamic and engaging letter. You can easily heighten your girlfriend’s experience of reading your words by going beyond the pen and paper—that’s right, we’re talking a three- (or four!) dimensional love letter. Lightly apply her favorite scent in the form of a perfume or essential oil to the paper. Add a tactile element she can hold, like a pressed version of her favorite flower, a small memento of your relationship, or a printed photo of the two of you.
- While the letter is already visual, you can still elevate the visual presentation by using beautiful stationery , writing in a legible script, or adding stickers and other decorative elements to show the effort you’re putting into this romantic gesture.
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End with a romantic closing like “I love you” or “Yours always.” Finish with a closing that sums up the feelings expressed throughout your letter. You could go with a classic option like “Forever and always,” “Eternally yours,” “Yours always,” “With all my love,” or “Thinking of you always.” McCurley also recommends some specific love letter closings , including:
- You are always in my heart.
- I love you now and forever.
- I am yours forever.

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When to Write a Love Letter to Your Girlfriend

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Write a love letter for a special occasion, on a regular day, or during hard times. The most obvious time to write a love letter is on an important day, like an anniversary, a birthday, or Valentine’s Day. A love letter given on one of these special days can really demonstrate how much you love and care for your girlfriend. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t give a love letter on any given day! In fact, these unexpected gifts can be even more meaningful, as they signify how much you’re thinking of your sweetheart on every day of the year—truly solidifying your love for her. ^{[27]
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- Another appropriate time to write a love letter would be when the two of you are navigating a rough patch. Whether your girlfriend is having a rough time in her personal life or the two of you are working through an issue as a couple, a letter can reinforce your commitment to supporting her and your relationship through this difficult moment.

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