You’ve probably heard the term “Karen” thrown around to describe someone chewing out a service worker, or just acting childish and selfish. It’s a term that usually refers to women, but what would you call a man who’s being a Karen? Pop culture hasn’t decided, but there are some options, and we’re here to lay them out, as well as explain what exactly a Karen is where the term comes from, how to handle them, and other words for a self-entitled person.
What to Call a Male Karen
There’s no consensus for what to call a male Karen, but some people call them Kevins, Gregs, or Terrys. Alternatively, you could just call them “Karen” or “Male Karen” without changing the gender and people will get what you mean.
Steps
Dealing with Male Karens
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1Stay calm, and try not to escalate. Karens and Male Karens love to escalate the situation. In some ways, they’re in it for the drama—they see themselves as the victims, and want “justice,” which means yelling and throwing a fit. Do your best to remain calm and exit the situation as quickly as possible, instead of starting a fight. [3] X Trustworthy Source HelpGuide Nonprofit organization dedicated to providing free, evidence-based mental health and wellness resources. Go to source
- If you’re an employee, consider calling your manager to have them come deal with it.
- If a Karen is approaching or following you, go somewhere public where other people can step in. Or, if you’re in your own home or on your property, stay inside, where they’ll be trespassing if they try to advance.
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2Stand up for the Karen’s victim. Usually, Karens and Male Karens are getting angry at or victimizing someone else, especially service workers or marginalized people. In these situations, you can sometimes make them stand down by showing solidarity with the victims. This shows the Karen that other people don’t agree with them, and that their behavior is unacceptable.
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3Record the interaction for proof or evidence. Karens play dirty. They do things like call the police, use intimidation, or even get violent. If you can, start recording the situation with your phone. This acts as a warning that their behavior could have bigger consequences. [4] X Research source It also protects you if they decide to get the police involved, since you have something to show the police to explain the situation.
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4Assess your own behavior if you’re called a Karen. While people sometimes misuse the word “Karen,” it’s usually meant to mean that someone’s being cruel or petty. If you’re called a Karen, respond to the accusation thoughtfully. Ask them what they mean, and ask yourself if maybe they’re right.
- If you think about it and decide they’re wrong, ignore them and exit the situation as soon as you can.
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- ↑ https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/karen-has-a-husband-and-his-name-is-greg
- ↑ https://www.bbc.com/news/world-53588201
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/conflict-resolution-skills
- ↑ https://www.bbc.com/news/world-53588201
- ↑ https://www.dictionary.com/e/karen-vs-becky-vs-stacy/