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Your son’s wedding is quickly approaching and all the details are taken care of—except the speech you plan to give at the rehearsal dinner or reception. We're here to help! Writing and giving a mother of the groom speech will be a piece of cake with our guide. You only need a few stories, anecdotes, and sweet words to melt everyone’s hearts. We’ll explain what to include and avoid, provide tons of examples, and even show you how to format your speech from beginning to end.
Things You Should Know
- Start your speech with a quick introduction, stating who you are and your relationship to the couple.
- Add personality and warmth to your speech by including heartwarming or funny stories about your son.
- Finish your speech with a touching message for the happy couple, expressing how bright and joyful you wish their future together to be.
Steps
Section 1 of 4:
How to Write a Mother of the Groom Speech
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Start by introducing yourself. Although most of the wedding guests will probably know who you are, it’s still important to give a brief introduction to ease into your speech. [1] X Research source This can be a quick “hello” followed by your name and relationship to the groom.
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Thank all the guests for coming. Easing your way into the speech is an excellent way to make everyone feel like they’re a part of the family. Express gratitude for everyone who came to support your son and his partner on this special day.Advertisement
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Talk about your son’s attributes or share memorable stories. Make your speech extra special by sharing quick stories or memories about your son or praising his attributes. This is a great way to keep the speech personal, tug on everyone’s heartstrings, and make people laugh. [2] X Research source
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Show your love for the couple. While your speech should focus on your relationship with your son, it should also support the new couple. Share how happy you are for your son and his partner to start their new life together. [3] X Research source
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End the speech with well wishes. Tie everything together with a quick toast or endearing expression that wishes the couple a happy and fulfilling future together. [4] X Research source
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Tips
- Typically, the mother of the groom speech is given at the rehearsal dinner or during the reception after the wedding ceremony.Thanks
- Do breathing exercises to help calm your nerves before you give your speech. Try inhaling for 4 counts and exhaling for another 4.Thanks
- Write your speech down if you feel like you’ll forget it. There’s no shame in glancing at it every so often!Thanks
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References
- ↑ https://www.allspeechesgreatandsmall.com/mother-of-the-groom-speech
- ↑ https://melbourneentertainmentco.com.au/mother-of-the-groom-speech-tips-ideas/
- ↑ https://nathancassar.com.au/write-wedding-speech-in-5-steps/
- ↑ https://theeverygirl.com/wedding-speech-tips/
- ↑ https://professional.dce.harvard.edu/blog/10-tips-for-improving-your-public-speaking-skills/
- ↑ https://www.nytimes.com/2021/06/15/style/how-to-write-a-wedding-speech.html
- ↑ https://www.nytimes.com/2021/06/15/style/how-to-write-a-wedding-speech.html
- ↑ https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a27153047/how-to-write-a-wedding-speech/
- ↑ https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a27153047/how-to-write-a-wedding-speech/
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