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You may have seen “NTY” on social media or over text, but what exactly does it mean? This popular acronym often stands for “no thank you” and it’s a casual way of telling someone you’re not interested in their offer. In this article, we’ll teach you everything you need to know about “NTY,” including its meaning, uses, responses, and origin.
“NTY” Meaning
“NTY” is short for “no thank you.” People use it to politely decline an offer they’re not interested in. In texting and on social media, it can be written in both lowercase (“nty”) or uppercase (“NTY”).
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What does “NTY” mean?
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“NTY” means “no thank you” over text, social media, and online chats. It’s a polite way of refusing an offer you’re not interested in. If someone is trying to sell you something or won’t stop messaging you, use “NTY” to quickly shut them down and end the conversation. Since it’s an informal acronym, it’s best for casual conversations outside of the workplace. [1] X Research source
- The acronym can be written in all lowercase (“nty”) or uppercase (“NTY”), but some people may think it’s a typo for “nyt” (as in “good night”) or “NYT” (as in the “New York Times”).
- Depending on the context of the conversation, “NTY” can come off as genuine or dismissive. Ending it with a period (“NTY.”) is usually considered passive aggressive, while adding a smiley emoji at the end is more warm and friendly.
When & How to Use “NTY”
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1Text “NTY” to tell someone you’re not interested in their offer. If someone keeps pestering you or you’re just too busy to hang out with them, use “NTY” to politely decline their proposal. [2] X Research source It’s another way of saying “thanks, but no thanks,” making it the perfect response for friends, family members, or casual acquaintances.
- Them:
“Want to go to the movies?”
You: “NTY, I have to finish my project 🥲” - Them:
“Do you want to go to dinner on Friday?”
You: “NTY. I’m trying to eat at home more.”
- Them:
“Want to go to the movies?”
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2Send “NTY” to stop someone from spamming your messages. Is someone blowing up your DMs? Reply with “NTY” to reject their advances and hint that they’re annoying you. It’s an easy way to cut the conversation, especially if you follow up with a period or snappy message.
- “NTY. I’m not interested.”
- “NTY. Please take me off your mailing list.”
- “NTY. I’d appreciate it if you would stop messaging me.”
How to Respond to “NTY”
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1Reply with “okay” or “thanks for letting me know.” If someone declines your offer or invitation, send them a short reply to confirm you heard them. This usually ends the conversation until they introduce a new topic or ask you a question.
- Them:
“NTY, I’m full.”
You: “No worries, thanks for letting me know!” - Them:
“NTY! I’m a little busy today…”
You: “Aw, okay! Let me know when you’re free!!”
- Them:
“NTY, I’m full.”
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2Respond to “NTY” with an emoji or Tapback. If you’re not super close to the other person or you don’t know what to say, respond with a friendly emoji or Tapback to affirm their message. It’s another way of saying “gotcha,” making it the perfect way to end a conversation on a positive note.
- Them:
“NTY!”
You: “👍👍👍” - Them:
“NTY, I’m good.”
You: “👌”
- Them:
“NTY!”
Origin of “NTY”
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Acronyms like “NTY” became popular in the late 1990s and early 2000s. While the exact origin of “NTY” is unknown, people began using text abbreviations when mobile phones became more widespread. These short abbreviations allowed people to communicate more quickly and efficiently, especially if their device had a limited character count. [3] X Research source
Alternative Meaning of “NTY”
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Negotiating to yes Sometimes, the acronym “NTY” may stand for “negotiating to yes,” which describes when someone is trying to get approval of something after they’re initially rejected. This meaning is not common in texting or on social media, so ask the other person for clarification if you come across it in a professional setting. [4] X Research source
Other Popular Slang Words
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1TBNT This short acronym stands for “thanks, but no thanks.” [5] X Research source It’s a casual way to decline someone’s offer or invitation, so feel free to use it in place of “NTY.”
- Them:
“Do you want to go to the mall this weekend?”
You: “TBNT!” - Them:
“Want to join our camping trip?”
You: “TBNT, hope you guys have fun!”
- Them:
“Do you want to go to the mall this weekend?”
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2TY This popular acronym means “thank you,” and it’s one of the quickest ways to thank someone over text or social media. If someone does something kind for you, shoot them a simple “TY” to express your appreciation . [6] X Research source
- Them:
“I left a bagel on the counter for you.”
You: “TY!” - Them:
“I’m dropping off your clothes right now!”
You: “TY ❤️”
- Them:
“I left a bagel on the counter for you.”
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3TTYL Commonly used in texting, “TTYL” is short for “talk to you later.” [7] X Research source Send it to a friend, family member, or romantic partner to politely end the chat and hint that you have something you need to do.
- “I have to get back to work, TTYL!”
- “About to walk into my interview…TTYL!”
- “Ah, I forgot I had to pick up my mom from work. TTYL!”