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  • Question
    What if I want to get back together with her and I know she likes me, but she's too nice to break up with the person she's already with?
    Danielle Husband
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    If she's in a new relationship, it's best to keep your distance until that relationship resolves itself. You'll have a better chance of making things work if she ends that relationship before the two of you start trying to patch things up. If it's meant to be, things will work out.
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    If your ex tells you to change and says they've moved on, what should you do?
    Danielle Husband
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    First, it's never okay for someone to demand that you change. When it comes to change, always listen to yourself and do what feels right to you. Second, if they've moved on, it's probably best that you try to move on, as well. At first, it might be hard to look past the feelings you had for this person, and they might feel so perfect for you that you get hung up on them. However, relationships end for a reason, and it's likely that there's someone better for you out there. Spend more time having fun with friends or family so you can start to move on.
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    How do I win my boyfriend back without looking really desperate?
    Danielle Husband
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    Show him that you're happy and living your best life. Hang out with friends and family, go do fun stuff, and work towards a goal you have (like trying out for a sports team, winning a tournament, or learning to paint). If there's a chance things will work out between you, he'll see how great you're doing and realize that he might have lost a good partner.
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    My ex asked my little sister about me and told her not to tell me that he is my lover. Is he telling the truth?
    Danielle Husband
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    It's tough to tell in this case. It's possible that he's still interested, but it's also possible that he's sending mixed signals. Look for other signs that he still likes you, such as showing up places he knows you'll be and liking all your social media posts.
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    My ex-boyfriend looks at me every time he sees me at school and the park. Does that mean he likes me?
    Danielle Husband
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    It might mean he likes you, but he may also just be noticing that you're there. Look at his other behaviors to see if he might like you.
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    What do I do if my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he didn't want to hurt me, but in the process of trying to move on, I gave him all the gifts he gave me back, and he got angry?
    Danielle Husband
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    It's possible that your ex still likes you but is going through something right now that makes him feel like he's not ready to be in a relationship. You might try talking to him so he knows you care about him but are giving him the space he needs. Say something like, "I didn't mean to upset you when I gave you back your things. I liked the gifts but thought you might want them back because you broke up with me."
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    My boyfriend asked for a breakup about a day ago and blocked me on every social site. Is it still possible that he loves me?
    Danielle Husband
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    There's no way to know for sure if he still likes you, but his behavior right now suggests that he needs space. That might hurt a lot, but this breakup might open the door for something better in the future. Right now, spend more time with your friends or family so you can feel better and have some fun.
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    My ex is hitting on my friend just to spite me. Why is he doing this?
    Danielle Husband
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    He might be feeling upset about the breakup, or he may think that flirting with her will impress his friends. His behavior is unfair to you, though. Try to ignore what he's doing and focus on your happiness.
  • Question
    How do you tell your ex you like him back after he told you that he still likes you?
    Danielle Husband
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    Try keeping it simple. Just say, "I still like you, too." If you're shy, try texting him or messaging him through social media.
  • Question
    What if your ex says he kind of stopped liking you, does that mean he still kind of likes you?
    Savannah Vold
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    It depends on the situation. Suppose he's been making minimal to no contact with you in that he doesn't talk about you to friends or interact with you in any way, then he's likely moved on. That said, if he makes an effort to reach out to you and often talks about your past relationship, he might still have feelings for you.
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    But what if he is very distant and I want to talk to him about our past but, every time I try he gets nervous and walks away?
    Savannah Vold
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    In this case, giving your ex some space is probably best. There might be an opportunity to speak with your ex about your past together once he's been able to process his emotions, but it sounds like he hasn't been able to do so yet, which may be making him nervous and uncomfortable in this situation.
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    My boyfriend broke up with me because of something I said to him out of annoyance. He said it is my nature and he isn't cool with it so he thinks we will be better off as friends but I really like him
    Savannah Vold
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    The best thing to do here might be to give your ex some space. After he's had time to cool down, you could text him explaining yourself and assure him that you won't be acting that way again, if that's true, and that you want to make it work. This will allow him to consider what you have to say without the pressure of responding in person.
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    My ex keeps staring at me and my gut and heart is telling me that he still loves me.
    Savannah Vold
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    If you feel that he still loves you and is showing positive body language, like prolonged eye contact, you could text him and let him know that you miss his friendship if you're looking to bring him back into your life. Starting up as friends keeps things neutral, then you can hang out in person and talk about the state of your relationship.
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