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How can I talk to a girl I like to ask her on a first date?

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A big problem is when people go on dates and people start asking boring questions like, "Oh, hey, so what do you do?" and then they respond with something like, "Yeah, that's cool." It's not interesting and you're not building any suspense or tension. You're not giving her a hint that you're actually interested. If she flirts with you, flirt back. If she isn't flirting with you, start it off by making some jokes or saying something kind of playful. If they ask you a question, ask them another question back. This will help build tension and grow the conversation.

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I'mm tall and my girl is short and sometimes she gets tired of stretching. What should we do?

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Try kissing while your seated rather than standing. If you're both sitting on the couch, it may be more comfortable to kiss each other if there is a large height difference.

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How do you touch a girl's butt without her noticing?

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You shouldn't touch a girl's butt without her permission. Don't attempt to touch girls without them noticing, as they will almost certainly notice and get upset. Be sure that anyone you touch agrees to the touching.

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How old do you have to be to kiss?

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There is no age limit that determines when you should kiss someone. Think about if you feel comfortable with them and with the idea of kissing them. Don't allow someone else to push you to do something you're not ready to do.

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When I kiss a girl should I put my hands on her waist or butt?

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It depends on how comfortable the two of you are together. If your romantic relationship is new, stick to keeping your hands on her waist. If you are intimate, then you could touch her butt.

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What does the girl do when the guy puts his hand on your face while your kissing him?

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You could put your hands on his face, run your fingers through his hair, or place one hand on his shoulder. You could also wrap your arms around him or put your hands on his waist.

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What if the girl is taller?

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No matter, kiss her as usual. Put your hands on her waist or back, or play with her hair.

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How do I kiss my shorter boyfriend without making him stretch up?

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You can bend down, or stand on stairs so that you are a bit below him. You can kiss while sitting, rather than standing as well.

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This girl wants to make out with me and said she's going to put her hands on my bum. Where should I put mine?

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You could put your hands on her waist or shoulders. You could also run your fingers through her hair or touch her face or neck.

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