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You may have heard of sigma males, but did you know there are sigma females, too? These unique women don’t fit neatly into the “alpha” or “beta” archetypes—instead, they’re in a league of their own. In this article, we’ll tell you everything you need to know about sigma females and their personality traits.

Things You Should Know

  • A sigma female is loyal, assertive, and independent. She doesn’t follow trends or care what other people think about her.
  • Sigma females are charismatic, but can also be introverted and keep to themselves. They have very high standards for friendships and relationships.
  • Alpha females are outspoken and social, while sigma females are introverted and keep to themselves.
Section 2 of 7:

Sigma Female Personality Traits

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  1. Sigma women are careful about who they let into their life. Therefore, when they find a close friend or partner, they’re never going to betray their trust. Sigma women tend to have a handful of close friends rather than a dozen acquaintances, because they value loyalty and closeness so much. [2]
  2. You’ll never catch a sigma woman relying on someone else to meet her needs. Sigma women value their independence, and they love the fact that no one else holds power over them. This can be intimidating to friends and romantic partners, but a sigma woman wouldn’t have it any other way. [3]
  3. A sigma woman will always tell it to you like it is, even if it’s a little harsh. She’s the kind of friend you’d go to for real advice, not someone who will placate or coddle you. Since she’s so honest with the people in her life, she expects her friends to be honest with her, too—lying to a sigma woman is not a good idea, and she may cut you off for good. [4]
  4. While sigma women do tend to be quiet, they can also be very charming when they want to be. People often describe a sigma woman as magnetic—there’s just something about her vibe that makes you want to be around her. [5]
  5. You’ll never catch a sigma woman spilling her secrets to a stranger. Instead, she keeps her emotions close to her chest, and she can be perceived as a little closed-off. However, she can open up to the right people once she trusts them. [6]
  6. Because of her quiet nature and her natural distrust of others, many people say that sigma women are a little intimidating at first. It can be tough to approach her and get a conversation started; but once you do, you’re bound to have a great time. [7]
  7. More often than not, sigma women prefer spending time alone than spending time with other people. This doesn’t mean that she doesn’t have friends, it just means that she values time on her own to rest and recharge. Her introversion can make her seem a bit standoffish at times, but it’s just how she relaxes. [8]
  8. Sigma women play by their own rules, and they don’t care what anyone else thinks of them. You’ll often find her doing whatever she wants, even if society says she shouldn’t. She doesn’t care about trends or the latest craze—instead, she cares more about herself and her own feelings. [9]
  9. A sigma woman tends to shy away from drama, because she finds it exhausting. Similarly, you’ll never catch a sigma female passing judgment upon you, especially if she doesn’t know you well. She doesn’t care about drama or being judgmental simply because she doesn’t care that much about what other people are doing. [10]
  10. When it comes to finding a romantic partner, sigma woman can be very picky. However, this just shows that she knows what she wants and how she wants it. It's rare find a sigma woman crying over someone breaking her heart—instead, you’ll probably hear about her dumping someone because they couldn’t live up to her standards. [11]
  11. Always up for adventure, a sigma woman doesn’t shy away from new situations. She wants to explore the world and learn more about herself, even if it means doing it on her own. [12]
  12. Sigma women often want to better themselves so they can reach their goals. They know that getting what they want takes time, and they aren’t afraid to dedicate months (or even years) to doing so. [13]
  13. Many sigma women don’t use social media, and if they do, they use it sparingly. It’s because they don’t care about other people’s opinions—since social media focuses on getting validation from others, they don’t see the need to use it often. [14]
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Sigma Females in Relationships

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  1. This is because they prefer people who are assertive, independent, and driven. Alphas and sigmas can make great partners with the alpha taking the spotlight and the sigma assisting, [15] but this can also be a volatile relationship since both like to be in control. [16] Two sigma partners can understand each other well, as long as both are committed enough to avoid drifting apart.
    • Sigma women tend to be less compatible with beta partners, because they tend to dislike passivity in a partner. [17]
  2. Once they find someone they care about, they are dedicated to being a good partner. [18] A sigma woman is likely to show up and do the work on both good and bad days.
  3. A sigma woman may hesitate to get close to people, both because of her high standards and her desire to avoid losing control. She also may be too blunt if she hasn't learned to temper her honesty with consideration of others' feelings. This means she can push people away if she isn't mindful of her behavior.
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What are the 6 female personality archetypes?

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  1. An alpha woman commands a room. Often the leader of their pack, they aren’t afraid to take charge and tell others what to do. If you know an alpha female, you aren’t likely to overlook her: she makes her presence known no matter what. [21]
  2. A sigma woman is strong like an alpha, but she’s a little more of a lone wolf. She has close friends, but she often prefers to spend time on her own. She’s loyal and values honesty, and she isn’t afraid to tell it like it is. [22]
  3. Beta women are sensitive and in tune with their own emotions (and the emotions of others). They are often the caretakers and the peacekeepers, preferring to fade into the background than stand out in the spotlight. Their hard work keeps teams cohesive and strong. They may have trouble setting boundaries and can sometimes be taken advantage of by their friends. [23]
  4. Gamma women enjoy balanced and well-planned lives. They are funny and fun-loving, but also incredibly organized and on top of things. They work hard to keep their lives in order. [24] They are usually the planners of the group, and they’re a great shoulder to lean on no matter what. [25]
  5. A delta woman is relaxed, cautious, and introverted. She seldom leaves her comfort zone, preferring to consistently spend her time on her skills and interests. She likes her peace and quiet, and is less social than the other personality archetypes in the group. [26] She's practical and patient with strong communication skills, though she may also struggle with shyness and self consciousness. [27] [28] A delta woman is deeply loving towards her chosen friends.
  6. Omega women are generally shy, introverted, intellectual, and sensitive. Their intellectual curiosity means they tend to be bookish with lots of hobbies. Their sensitive and sweet attitude can be endearing, but also may lead to struggles with bottled-up emotions. Once they get close to people, they show their deeply loyal and passionate side. [29] [30]
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Keeping Perspective

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  1. Much like horoscopes or MBTI, they're an idea people came up with to create broad categories of people. [31] They don't have a scientific basis. [32]
    • Don't use these personalities to limit who you date, befriend, or are polite to. You could end up missing out on someone wonderful.
    • These ideas became popular in far-right online spaces that hold negative ideas towards women. [33] Be careful about your sources.

    Did You Know? The idea of "alpha," "beta," and other wolves came from observing stressed wolves in captivity. In their natural habitat, the monogamous parents lead the pack and fights for dominance are rare to nonexistent. [34] [35]

  2. No kind is "better" or "worse" than another. For example, a world without beta women would have much more stress and friction, and a world without omega women would lose out on many of its experts and specialists. Each personality brings something unique and important to the world.
  3. Women are nuanced with many layers. A sigma woman might not match every stereotype and she may surprise you. Don't let one category limit how you see her—one of the biggest things you shouldn't do to a sigma woman is tell her who she can be.
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      While the idea of a "sigma male" may be more commonly recognized, the "sigma female" is also an accepted personality archetype. The term "sigma female" describes a woman who is self-reliant, charismatic and open-minded, but also tends to be slightly guarded. Sigma females are known for their magnetism and adventurousness—they are free-thinkers who do what they want without worrying too much about external validation. Perhaps because of this sometimes intimidating air of mystery and adventure, sigma females tend to be lone wolves, although they're extremely loyal to the few people they do let into their lives. In romantic relationships, sigma females prefer assertive partners who are equally independent. Sigma females have many traits in common with alpha females, but, unlike her alpha counterparts who command the spotlight, a sigma female prefers to fly confidently under the radar.

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