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Many people enjoy the appeal of stretched ear lobes; however, the process of stretching, also called ear gauging, can cause pain. While there is no foolproof method to prevent pain and discomfort when stretching your ears, there are certain steps you can take to minimize pain and potential complications during the process.
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Tug gently on your ears. Before you make any decisions regarding the method you'll use to stretch your ears, consider how much you want to stretch them. If you're only moving up a size, the most pain-free option would be gently pulling your ears until they stretched out enough to accommodate new earrings. If you're looking to stretch your ears considerably, however, explore other options. [1] X Research source -
Consider tapers. Tapering is the most common method to stretch out your ears. If done correctly, this method is relatively painless.- Tapers are sets of rods that gradually increase in diameter. To stretch your ears, you would get a set of tapers, push the taper all the way through the hole, and replace it with a gauge the same size as the end of the taper. By the time you complete the set, your ears should be stretched as large as you want. [2] X Research source
- Never wear tapers as jewelry. This will make your ears heal unevenly because of uneven weight distribution.
- Some people use spiral gauges as tapers, they can be work for long periods of time and allow for longer stretching periods [3] X Research source
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Try taping for gradual adjustments. If you want to stretch your ears slowly, consider taping. This allows you to gradually stretch your ears, which can reduce pain, but in smaller increments than you would use with tapers. -
Avoid silicone and double flared jewelry. You should not wear silicone plugs until your ears are fully stretched and healed. If used when stretching, silicone can tear the lining of the ears and potentially cause infection. Double flared jewelry as flares are sometimes large enough to cause pain and possible permanent damage to your ear. [6] X Research source
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Don't stretch too fast. Moving too fast through the stretching process is one of the biggest causes of pain. Regardless of your chosen method, wait until your ears have healed before stretching them further. Stretching too quickly can have serious consequences, such as a “blowout”, in which the inside of a stretched hole is forced out the back of the piercing as a result of too much pressure. This can result in permanent disfigurement and damage of the ear lobe.- Another complication from advancing size too quickly or enlarging ear lobe beyond the remaining blood supply rim is that the skin edges will separate or tear. Surgery would be required to correct this.
- Advancing size too quickly increases risk of infections.
- How long you should wait between tapers or sizes varies. People heal at different rates, for one, and it also depends on how much you're stretching; however, it's recommended to give your ears at least a month to get used to one size before moving up.
- Only increase size in 1-millimeter increments (for example, from 1 mm to 2 mm).
- Never skip a size when stretching. If you don't feel a lot of pain, you may feel overeager and want to skip up to a higher size to speed up the process; however, this increases the chance of causing permanent damage to your ears. Even if you feel confident, skipping sizes is a bad idea.
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Stop if you feel pain. Pain when sizing up is a sign something is wrong. If you have intense pain, resistance, or bleeding when inserting a new taper or adding another layer of tape, you should stop. Your ear is not fully healed and sizing up now could cause damage. Stay at your current size and wait a week before attempting to size up. -
Stretch your ears at different speeds, if necessary. While it may look and feel awkward, your ears may heal at different rates. If one ear is taking slightly longer, there's no medical reason why you can't stretch your ears at different rates. In fact, if one ear is more tender than the other it's better to slow down for the sake of avoiding damage.
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Massage with oil regularly. Once your ears are stretched to your desired diameter, some tingling and soreness is common. You can help lessen pain by massaging your ears regularly. Wait a few days after the initial stretching before massaging to avoid infection. Use a small amount of your chosen massage oil, which you can buy online or at a local beauty shop, and gently rub into your ears. Do this on a regular basis, a few times a day, until discomfort passes. This helps increase blood flow which can promote healing. -
Use saline solution. Saline solution, which can be purchased at most drug stores, can also help soothe ears after stretching. Use such foams or sprays sparingly, and only once or twice daily. If you notice any side effects, like increased soreness, cease use.- You can make your own saline solution by combining 1/8 teaspoon of salt to a cup of warm water.
- Rubbing alcohol and hydrogen peroxide should be avoided on a healing ear.
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Downsize immediately in the event of bleeding or significant pain. If you have pain or bleeding after sizing up, downsize immediately. Pain or bleeding in your ears is a sign something is wrong. It will not, like soreness or tingling, pass over on its own. You should move down a size in tapers or taping. If the soreness and bleeding persists, contact a doctor for evaluation. -
Resume wearing jewelry a few weeks after stretching. After you've stretched your ears to the desired diameter, wait a few weeks. If you do not have any trouble like soreness or bleeding, you can resume wearing jewelry. For the first few weeks, stick to jewelry made from silicone or organic materials. If you don't have any trouble with such materials, you can move on to double flared jewelry.
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QuestionI just started stretching and I'm currently at 8g. My ears didn't hurt when I stretched them and there is no pain. I stretched yesterday. Is it ok to skip a size?Jennifer Boidy is a Registered Nurse based in Baltimore, Maryland. In addition to her nursing career, she also works as a Healthcare Content Strategist & Writer, helping businesses and non-profits market their products and services to healthcare provider organizations, pharmaceutical companies, and other healthcare services vendors. Jennifer’s areas of expertise include pharmaceuticals & life sciences, health technology, medical devices & diagnostics, health insurance & managed care, and healthcare services & facilities. Her certification as a Registered Nurse was issued by the Maryland Board of Nursing. She graduated from the University of Maryland with a BS in Marketing and Finance. She received her Associate of Science in Nursing from Carroll Community College in 2012.You should avoid skipping a size. This is never a good idea, because it increases the chance of complications, such as infection and tearing which can cause permanent damage to your ears.
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QuestionCan you use Neosporin to help slide it through your previous hole? I'm going into a 10gJennifer Boidy is a Registered Nurse based in Baltimore, Maryland. In addition to her nursing career, she also works as a Healthcare Content Strategist & Writer, helping businesses and non-profits market their products and services to healthcare provider organizations, pharmaceutical companies, and other healthcare services vendors. Jennifer’s areas of expertise include pharmaceuticals & life sciences, health technology, medical devices & diagnostics, health insurance & managed care, and healthcare services & facilities. Her certification as a Registered Nurse was issued by the Maryland Board of Nursing. She graduated from the University of Maryland with a BS in Marketing and Finance. She received her Associate of Science in Nursing from Carroll Community College in 2012.You can use Neosporin, and also be sure the expander is clean and that you wash your hands before inserting. Always remember to only go up one size at a time.
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- After stretching leave the ear alone. Don't let yourself or your friends mess with it, and if have to touch it make sure your hands are clean. A fresh stretch is like a new cut; it's susceptible to infections.Thanks
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- Be very careful with the materials you are putting in your body - surgical steel is recommended for stretching. If you have questions or need help, ask any piercers or high quality alternative jewelry stores for advice.
- Be sure to take your time, and even if it's tempting, do not skip sizes! It causes a lot of pain and leaves your ears susceptible to tears and infection.
- Never use alcohol on your piercing! It will dry it out. Saline or an antibacterial spray are better choices to fight infection.
- Consider taking your kit to a piercer to have it professionally sanitized.
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Warnings
- At a certain point, ear stretching cannot be reversed. If you ever decided to no longer wear gauges, the hole will not close back up on its own and you will need surgery. [7] X Research sourceThanks
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The best way to stretch your ears without pain is to use a taper rod set, which comes with small cone-shaped rods you put in your pierced ears to gradually stretch them without tearing your skin. To use the tapers properly, wait at least a month before moving up to a new size, and only move up in 1-millimeter increments to avoid causing damage to your ears. If you do start to feel pain when sizing up, or if your ears starts to bleed, stop and wait a week before trying again. As you stretch, make sure to rinse your earlobes with a saline solution regularly to keep them clean and alleviate pain. To learn how to stretch your ears more gradually using the taping method, read on!
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