How to Talk in a Mature Manner

PDF download Download Article
PDF download Download Article

Here is how to talk in a very mature manner.

Steps

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/2\/21\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-1.jpg\/v4-460px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-1.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/2\/21\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-1.jpg\/aid1536976-v4-728px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-1.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":306,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":485,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Do not talk too loud because it will be taken that you have no proper upbringing. However, do not talk to lightly or it will be taken you are shy. Talk in a medium voice, so the person you are talking to can hear you, but not the person across the room. [1]
  2. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/f\/f5\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/f\/f5\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-2.jpg\/aid1536976-v4-728px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":306,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":485,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    It is rather hard to explain, but when you talk try not to talk through your nose. Try to talk from your stomach. If you are doing it right, you'll notice that your voice is deeper or more mature sounding. [2]
    Advertisement
  3. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/4\/41\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-3.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/4\/41\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-3.jpg\/aid1536976-v4-728px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":306,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":485,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Do not interrupt anyone unless it is an emergency. But do offer small talk when can be done. School is always good to talk about to adults. But not the school drama of who likes who. Talk about your "studies" and current events. [3]
  4. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/3\/32\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-4.jpg\/v4-460px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-4.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/3\/32\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-4.jpg\/aid1536976-v4-728px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-4.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":314,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":497,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    However do not use long words just to sound smart. Use words that are synonyms of other words. Such as instead of love say affection and small changes like that. [4]
  5. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/a\/a4\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-5.jpg\/v4-460px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-5.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/a\/a4\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-5.jpg\/aid1536976-v4-728px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-5.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":306,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":485,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    For instance, say "Mr.", for a married or unmarried man, or "Mrs." for a married woman. "Ms." works for both married or unmarried women. [5]
  6. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/3\/35\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-6.jpg\/v4-460px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-6.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/3\/35\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-6.jpg\/aid1536976-v4-728px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-6.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Check over a post before you post it to make sure there are no spelling errors.
  7. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/5\/57\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-7.jpg\/v4-460px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-7.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/5\/57\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-7.jpg\/aid1536976-v4-728px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-7.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":306,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":485,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Don't fake your manner of speech to impress others.
  8. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/3\/3c\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-8.jpg\/v4-460px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-8.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/3\/3c\/Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-8.jpg\/aid1536976-v4-728px-Talk-in-a-Mature-Manner-Step-8.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":306,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":485,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    If someone is trying to be serious with you, and you try to be humorous, you will not be considered mature.
    9. Advertisement

The Takeaway: Talking Maturely

Speak in a medium-loud voice so others can hear you well. Be respectful by not interrupting others and using a title like Mr. or Mrs. when addressing someone. Then, look up synonyms for common words to make your vocabulary more engaging.

Community Q&A

Search
Add New Question
  • Question
    How do I talk when there's awkward silences?
    Community Answer
    Start with the basics like, "how are you/ how's your day?" Awkwardness starts with you so be energetic and fun so the fun flow won't stop. Just be yourself.
    Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
    Thank you for your feedback.
    If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
    Yes No
    Not Helpful 10 Helpful 46
  • Question
    How do I use the correct title when addressing someone?
    Community Answer
    Say "Mr." for a married or unmarried man, or "Mrs." for a married woman. "Ms." works for both married or unmarried women.
    Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
    Thank you for your feedback.
    If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
    Yes No
    Not Helpful 10 Helpful 35
  • Question
    How can I improve my vocabulary?
    Community Answer
    Read more books and look up words you encounter that you don't already know. Write them down so you won't forget them. Play word games like Scrabble. You could also get one of those "Word of the Day" calendars.
    Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
    Thank you for your feedback.
    If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
    Yes No
    Not Helpful 7 Helpful 36
See more answers
Ask a Question
200 characters left
Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered.
Submit
      Advertisement

      Tips

      Submit a Tip
      All tip submissions are carefully reviewed before being published
      Submit
      Thanks for submitting a tip for review!

      You Might Also Like

      How to
      Avoid Using the Passive Voice
      How to
      Develop a Friendly Tone of Voice
      How to
      Develop a Perfect Speaking Voice
      How to
      Change Your Voice
      How to Sound like a Girl: Tips, Exercises & Voice-Changing Apps
      How to
      Have a Nice Voice
      How to
      Train Your Voice
      How to
      Develop a Manly Voice
      How to
      Exercise Your Voice
      How to
      Throw Your Voice
      How to
      Improve Your Speaking Voice
      How to
      Speak the RP English Accent
      How to
      Improve Your Voice
      How to
      Disguise Your Voice
      Advertisement

      Expert Interview

      Thanks for reading our article! If you’d like to learn more about public speaking, check out our in-depth interview with Christophe Fox .

      References

      1. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201401/how-improve-the-sound-your-voice
      2. ↑ https://www.inc.com/fia-fasbinder/key-to-confident-communication-is-something-that-most-speakers-never-do.html
      3. ↑ https://tricycle.org/magazine/mindful-communication-practice/
      4. ↑ https://blog.online-spellcheck.com/english/important-expand-vocabulary/
      5. ↑ https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/grammar/british-grammar/people-and-places/names-and-titles-addressing-people

      About This Article

      Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 135,297 times.

      Did this article help you?

      Advertisement