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Everything you need to know to make watching scary movies fun
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While horror movies can be scary to watch, the adrenaline rush can be fun and even exciting. Getting into the right mindset and preparing your environment beforehand can help you enjoy the movie more. And, if you're feeling scared, you can always take steps to calm down and enjoy yourself as needed. By taking steps to feel mentally and emotionally comfortable, you can make watching a horror movie an exhilarating and fun experience.
Things You Should Know
- When you’re planning on watching a scary movie, read the synopsis beforehand or check parental guidance sections on movie websites to help you mentally prepare.
- To help you cope with scary scenes, try watching the movie during the daytime, having snacks on hand to distract you, and inviting friends to watch with you.
- Remember, if you’re feeling too scared or overwhelmed, there’s nothing wrong with stepping out to take a break, or even turning the movie off altogether.
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Read the movie synopsis beforehand if you're nervous. Knowing the major plot points ahead of time can make the movie less scary and prepare you for the intense parts. Find the synopsis online and read it thoroughly, checking for any frightening moments. [1] X Research source
- You can also check the rating or parental guidance section on most film websites to prepare you for particularly scary scenes.
- If you enjoy the thrill of not knowing what comes next, avoid reading the full synopsis beforehand. Instead, check the rating or parental guides to decide whether you can handle the scary moments.
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Remember that, no matter what, the movie is fictional. When preparing to watch a scary movie, separating reality from fiction can help you feel less nervous. Remember that scary stories are just that—stories—and that, no matter what, you'll be safe. [2] X Research source
- If this method helps you cope best, avoid movies that claim they are "based on a true story."
- Try reading movie reviews or watching a "Behind the Scenes" video of the movie to remind yourself that it's fictional.
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Avoid movies with overly triggering material. If you're sensitive to certain themes or scenes in horror movies, you may want to choose a movie that avoids these topics. After checking the parental guides, choose a horror movie that doesn't contain any themes you find too disturbing. [3] X Research source
- Most horror movies contain frightening scenes, but avoid movies that you think could negatively affect you for more than a few hours.
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Talk about your concerns with your friends. If you've been preparing for the movie and are still a little nervous, voicing your concerns can help you feel less anxious. Your friends may be able to validate your emotions or suggest things that can help you cope when you're worried. [4] X Trustworthy Source National Health Service (UK) Public healthcare system of the UK Go to source
- Try to talk to a friend who is comfortable with, or even enjoys, horror movies. Expressing your fears to someone who also is afraid of scary movies might worsen your concerns.
- Talking with a friend who loves horror movies can also help you see what makes watching scary movies enjoyable.
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Watch the movie at home, not in a theater. Although the theater atmosphere can be fun, you'll have more control over the movie at home. Pick a movie that's already available to buy, rent, or stream, so that you can pause, fast forward, and skip scenes as needed. [5] X Research source
- If you have to watch the movie in a theater, choose a seat near the exit, so you can sneak out if you feel overwhelmed.
- Watching the movie in a theater, however, can definitely be fun if you want to immerse yourself in the horror movie experience.
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Watch the movie during the day, if possible. Horror movies are scariest at night, when any shadow or unexplained noise might make you jump. If you can, watch the movie while the sun's still out, so that afterward you can distract your mind with other things before nighttime. [6] X Research source
- If you're watching a horror movie at night, turn on a few lights in a nearby room to make the atmosphere feel less scary.
- Avoid watching scary movies right before you go to bed, as you may be more likely to have nightmares or struggle with insomnia. [7] X Research source
- Watching a horror movie at night, however, can be fun if you enjoy feeling frightened and want to really play up the spooky atmosphere. [8] X Research source
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Keep a few pillows or squeezable objects on hand. During scary scenes, having something soft to hold can help calm you down. Set a few pillows, stuffed animals, therapy balls, or other soft objects near you, just in case you're feeling nervous. [9] X Research source
- If you're watching the movie with a friend, ask beforehand if you can hold their hand during the scary parts as reassurance.
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Invite some friends over to watch the movie. Watching a horror movie alone can make everything seem more scary, but friends can make the experience more lighthearted and fun.You can even invite several people over and host a scary movie party! [10] X Research source
- If you have to watch the movie by yourself, try to watch it when others will be home. Having other people nearby can help you feel less afraid.
- Invite friends who enjoy scary movies to create a light, fun atmosphere and help you feel more excited to watch it.
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Get some snacks to eat during the movie. Sweet or salty snacks can help distract your mind and remind you that you're watching a movie. Before you watch the movie, pop some popcorn or buy some candy to have on hand.
- Crunchy foods, like veggies, chips, or cookies are especially useful for calming your nerves because they can prevent you from being too mentally absorbed in the movie.
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Make fun of the movie if you feel scared. Humor can help put the movie into perspective and remind you that you're not in danger. Think about an aspect of the film that scares you, and try to reimagine it in a hilarious light. [11] X Research source
- If the movie has an evil clown, for example, try to picture the clown slipping on a banana peel.
- Share your humorous thoughts with your friends to keep the atmosphere light and comfortable.
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Remind yourself that nothing you're seeing is real. If you feel overwhelmed by the movie, reassure yourself that you're watching actors, and that the movie is fiction. Being scared is okay, but remember that watching the movie does not make it real. [12] X Research source
- Try looking for small details that show you the movie is fake, like a supposedly "dead" body breathing, or the shadow of a microphone.
- Let your friends know if you're scared, so they can give you reassurance or remind you that it's fake. [13] X Trustworthy Source National Health Service (UK) Public healthcare system of the UK Go to source
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Mute the movie during especially scary scenes. Part of what makes horror movies so frightening is the loud sound effects and unsettling music. Muting the movie should put the film into perspective and make it significantly less frightening. [14] X Research source
- If you still want to know what's going on, try lowering the volume instead of muting it, or turn on the subtitles.
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Distract your mind with something else, if nothing seems to help. If you feel overwhelmed by the horror movie, try taking your focus off of the movie itself and distracting yourself with snacks or a calming activity. Something that distracts your mind and your body, like knitting, doing a puzzle, or sketching can be especially effective for calming you down. [15] X Research source
- You could also leave the room for a few minutes to take a breather, then come back when you're ready to start watching again.
- If you don't want to watch the movie anymore, there's no shame in turning it off or leaving the room until it's over. [16] X Research source
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QuestionI am very afraid of a lot of scary films, so how do I know which one is scary and which one is not scary?Mallory MyersCommunity AnswerMost movies in the horror genre are really scary, and that is what they are made to be. The filmmakers are experienced in knowing what to do in order to make the human brain terrified, so never underestimate a horror movie's scariness potential. If scary movies make you really uncomfortable, do NOT watch them.
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QuestionHow do I pick the right horror movie to watch?Ramsey ChitalimaCommunity AnswerSearch movie rating websites such as IMBD or Meta Critic for their top horror movies. Or get recommendations from friends and family members.
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QuestionWhich horror movies are not very scary? My friends call me a loser because I can't watch any horror movies alone. I even got scared a little bit at Scary Movie and that's embarrassing.Community AnswerYou can watch the Evil Dead series. They are generally not considered scary. You can also watch short horror films to build up the courage to watch something like Conjuring. A lot of people get scared during scary movies and there is nothing wrong with that. You are not a loser.
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Tips
- If you feel like resting and exercising at the same time, then watch a horror movie. Did you know that when you get scared during a horror movie, you're also burning calories! [17] X Research sourceThanks
- After the horror movie's over, take time to relax and distract yourself with something peaceful. Meditation, calming music, and journaling are all great ways to wind down and deal with any remaining worries you have. [18] X Research sourceThanks
- Don't worry if watching a horror movie is frightening at first. Once you've found ways to cope with your fear, the adrenaline rush can be fun and exciting!Thanks
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- Pause during intense scenes to break the tension. Discuss events with friends, like analyzing the villain or comparing to other films. This adds a layer of mystery and intrigue.
- Remember it's fiction. The filming process reveals the movie magic, like actors pretending to be dead or visible equipment. Bloopers also show the human side of horror.
- Watch light horror movies first, with just some blood, to get your feet wet. Scary images provoke more fear than jump scares or tense music. Ease into the genre.
- If still too intense, cover your eyes and ears, leave the room temporarily, or turn it off. Protecting your senses gives you control over what you experience.
- Keep snacks on hand to bite into during scary moments. The tactile distraction relieves fear by grounding you in the real, safe world.
- Mute frightening music and sound effects. These cinematic tricks build suspense so blocking them out can lessen the scare factor.
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Warnings
- Watching a horror movie should always be your choice, and they aren't everyone's favorite genre. If you don't want to watch it anymore, don't feel ashamed to turn the movie off or leave the film showing. [19] X Research sourceThanks
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References
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- ↑ https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/overcoming-fears/
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- ↑ https://www.takingcharge.csh.umn.edu/enhance-your-wellbeing/security/facing-fear/how-deal-chronic-fear-and-anxiety
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-excess/201510/why-do-we-watching-scary-films
- ↑ https://www.theodysseyonline.com/consequences-watching-scary-movie
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If you’re not the biggest fan of horror movies, there are a few tricks to help you keep your cool and even enjoy the flick. Consider reading the movie synopsis before you watch it so you’ll know what to expect and relieve some of the suspense. Just don’t tell your friends if you’re watching the movie with them! If you can, watch the movie during the day or with the lights on so you won’t be so immersed in the action. While you’re watching the movie, remind yourself that it’s not real and just out of shot, there are microphones, cameramen, and set pieces that you can’t see. You can also imagine funny things happening to the characters to relieve some of the tension. For example, if someone’s walking down into a creepy basement, imagine them tripping and rolling down the steps. For more tips, including how to watch a horror movie in the theatres, read on!
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