如何与异地恋的男友维系感情

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共同创作者是 Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC

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爱情需要经营，这对于相隔两地的恋人来说并不容易。别担心，只要发挥少许创造力，同时与恋人保持频繁的交流，你们的爱情就会朝着正常的轨道发展，绽放出持续的火花。如何与恋人每天保持联系呢？下面的文章介绍了一些有趣的方法。

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策划线上约会

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    把你们的电脑或手机架在桌上，两个人穿上最漂亮，最帅气的衣服，“面对面”享用美食。建议你们点几根蜡烛来营造浪漫的氛围，最后别忘了给自己倒杯红酒。 [1]
    • 如果你的厨艺欠佳，也可以点外卖。
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给他寄一份礼物

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    你可以在盒子里放上糖果、桌游、爱的便条，以及任何能让他想起你的物品。不要告诉他你寄了礼物，当快递员打电话通知他的时候，才能给他带去一个大大的惊喜。 [2]
    • 如果你觉得邮寄礼物太麻烦，就寄信吧。后者花费更少，用语言也能传达爱意。
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下载情侣App

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    恋爱ing和微爱等App专为情侣设计，你们可以在线参加有趣的活动，分享甜言蜜语。恋人们可以通过每天登陆，完成任务的方式保持互动。 [3]
    • 类似的App还有“恋人清单”、“爱情银行”、“想你”等等。
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开启读书俱乐部

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    当你们打电话或视频聊天时可以讨论读书心得。这种方式能够加强恋人间的纽带，让你们在虚拟约会之夜多了一个有趣的话题。 [4]
    • 轮流选择要读的书，这样你们俩才更有参与感。
    • 如果你不想去书店买新书，就去本地的图书馆借阅。
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和恋人一起玩游戏

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    如果你们玩的是线上游戏 ，就组队并肩作战。打开聊天功能，俩人一边聊天，一边杀敌挣点数。 [5]
    • 如果你对玩游戏不感兴趣，也可以尝试线上桌游或者棋牌游戏。
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和他一起仰望星空

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    当仰望同一片天空时，虽然天各一方，你们依然能感到彼此的心紧紧相连。如果你和他完全处在不同的时区，一个人可以描绘星空，而另一个则可以赞叹蓝天白云或者明媚的阳光。 [6]
    • 仔细观察，说不定会看到星座哦！
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给恋人发短信

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    如果你从来没试过，不妨在男友空闲且独处的时候给他发送一条性感的短信。你们俩可以互相发送打情骂俏的图片，甚至以视频聊天的方式继续交流。 [7]
    • 如果发短信或者视频聊天不够过瘾，试试电话性爱吧。不用看到彼此，你只要假设男友和你共处一室，在电话里描述激情互动的情节即可。
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策划一次令人惊喜的见面

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    这样做是为了方便他向公司或学校请假。接着你要做的就是买车票，打包行李，然后出发！恋人见面的频率越多，感情就越坚固。 [8]
    • 如果他打算来见你，你可以给他买票，给他个惊喜。

小提示

  • 当两个人朝着最终的目标努力时，异地恋才会开花结果。未来的计划以及何时能够住得近一些都是你们必须讨论的话题。 [9]
  • 当你和男友通话或视频聊天时，试着询问一些日常生活中的细节，比如问他中午吃了什么，最近在听什么播客。这样做能让你和男友的关系更加紧密。
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参考

  1. ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32173236/long-distance-date-ideas/
  2. ↑ https://hellogiggles.com/love-sex/long-distance-relationship-fun/
  3. ↑ https://hellogiggles.com/love-sex/long-distance-relationship-fun/
  4. ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32173236/long-distance-date-ideas/
  5. ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/g3177/long-distance-relationship/?slide=11
  6. ↑ https://behrend.psu.edu/student-life/student-services/personal-counseling/student-resources/long-distance-relationships
  7. ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a35890/ways-to-be-a-great-long-distance-girlfriend/
  8. ↑ https://behrend.psu.edu/student-life/student-services/personal-counseling/student-resources/long-distance-relationships
  9. ↑ https://www.relate.org.uk/relationship-help/help-relationships/making-your-relationship-stronger/how-make-long-distance-relationship-work

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