How do you start conversations on dating apps?
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To open a conversation with someone you've matched with on a dating app, mention something they've said in their profile to show you've read it and are interested in learning more about them as a person. For instance, if they mention they love reading, you could say, "What book have you been loving lately?" People love to talk about themselves, so this could be a good way to get a conversation rolling!
It's OK to politely compliment a photo they've posted (e.g. "Your hair is gorgeous!" or "I love your smile!"), but avoid making sexual or raunchy comments when you first start talking to a potential match. Keep things friendly and casual, but personal.
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It's OK to politely compliment a photo they've posted (e.g. "Your hair is gorgeous!" or "I love your smile!"), but avoid making sexual or raunchy comments when you first start talking to a potential match. Keep things friendly and casual, but personal.
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Starting a conversation on a dating app can be easier if you avoid generic greetings like “Hi” or “How are you?”. The best approach is to personalize your message based on something from their profile, like their interests or photos.
For example, if they mention they love movies, you could ask: "If you could only watch one movie for the rest of your life, which one would it be?" Or if they enjoy traveling, "What’s the most amazing place you’ve ever visited?" These kinds of questions help start a natural conversation and show genuine interest.
Another great trick is using humor or something creative. A fun comment about something in their profile can break the ice and make the conversation flow more easily.
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For example, if they mention they love movies, you could ask: "If you could only watch one movie for the rest of your life, which one would it be?" Or if they enjoy traveling, "What’s the most amazing place you’ve ever visited?" These kinds of questions help start a natural conversation and show genuine interest.
Another great trick is using humor or something creative. A fun comment about something in their profile can break the ice and make the conversation flow more easily.
Keep it fun and personal! Ask about something in their profile, use a playful question, or drop a lighthearted joke to break the ice.
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