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    Does my appearance affect someone's first impression of me?
    Maria Avgitidis
    Matchmaker & Dating Expert
    Maria Avgitidis is the CEO & Matchmaker of Agape Match, a matchmaking service based out of New York City. For over a decade, she has successfully combined four generations of family matchmaking tradition with modern relationship psychology and search techniques to ensure her professional clientele are introduced to their ultimate match. Maria and Agape Match have been featured in The New York Times, The Financial Times, Fast Company, CNN, Esquire, Elle, Reuters, Vice, and Thrillist.
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    It can, so put effort into your outfit. Wear things that you feel comfortable and confident in.
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    I'm 14, what advice do you have to help me make friends at a party?
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    Just walk up to people introduce yourself and don't sit in a corner. Talk about things you have in common, don't try to be too witty or the life of the party unless that comes naturally to you. It helps to have a friend you know, to break the ice, but it's not essential. The sooner you learn to talk to new people in party situations, the easier it will be for you in the future.
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    How can I fit in and not be too popular in a big new school?
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    Find a small group of people with whom you get along well and share common interests with and stick with them. You should also try to interact with others in the school, but establishing a solid group of friends quickly is important.
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    How can I make a good impression when meeting someone who is moody?
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    If the person is moody, there's a chance that they don't feel like talking to anyone. If you must spend a lot of time with this person, avoid talking too much and don't ask them too many questions. If you are only meeting the person briefly, but still want to get to know them better, consider giving them your number, and leaving it at that. This will give the other person freedom and a friend if he/she needs one.
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    How can I not be so intimidating?
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    Breathe deeply and stay calm (remembering to keep breathing evenly and not hold your breath out of anxiety). Often, a person who seems intimidating is actually anxious and comes off the wrong way. Remember that in the long run everyone screws up a first impression at one point, and not to shame yourself if you do.
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    I'm 13 and I have school coming up, how do I make a good first impression on the first day?
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    Be clean and wear a nice outfit. Be approachable and smile so people will think you are friendly and make sure to be yourself.
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    How do I make a first impression while I feel tense or insecure?
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    Take a deep breath, relax and be yourself. As long as you are interesting, kind, and genuine you should get along with other people very well. If they dislike you for an unknown reason, consider asking them if you had done something to wrong or offend them. Otherwise, minimize time spent with that person, and avoid small talk with them.
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    How do I prepare for an interview with a company?
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    Just stay calm and maintain eye contact. You should also dress nicely and have a firm handshake. Make sure you have good posture and show interest in getting the job.
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    What are some things to ask them to keep the conversation going?
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    Depending on the situation, it may be appropriate to converse about the event. For example, if you're meeting peers in a theater class, ask them why they like theater, how long they've been doing it, etc. Ask them socially acceptable questions about themselves. Build on what you already know about them and ask further questions based on what they've given you. The key is just to be natural.
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    I am 18 years old. How do I make any person comfortable with me? People that meet me always say I have attitude. How do I reduce that attitude?
    Arianna Lan-San
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    Try to think why you act that way, if you find an answer try to change it. Or maybe be really aware of what you say or do. Be friendly and polite, and don't use sarcasm.
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    I'm supposed to put together a performance on this topic. What should I do?
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    You could put together a play or series of skits showing how to make a good first impression. Perhaps you could have your actors show what not to do first, and then follow this up with what should be done to make a good impression in the next scene.
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    As a preteen, how can I make a good first impression on my crush?
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    Smile and make sure you look your best, and talk with him in a way to make him want to know more about you.
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    How do I seem approachable when communicating through writing? Most people say I seem too boring, or melodramatic.
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    Try to write naturally, the way you talk. Imagine actually saying something to the person and write it that way. In an informal context, you can add things like exclamation points or emojis where it makes sense. Try not to ramble too much, and try to keep paragraphs relatively short, as it can feel more boring to read a big wall of text.
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    I'm 15 and meeting my boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I give a smart impression of myself?
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    Be yourself, dress nicely, and ask your boyfriend a little about his parents so you can talk to them about things that interest them. People like people who are interested in them.
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    How do I make a good first impression on teachers on the first day of school?
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    Practice good manners, dress in an appropriate and neat fashion, engage in class, and smile!
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