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Are They Thinking of You Sexually? 20 Spiritual Signs

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Psychic signs someone is thinking of you sexually

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If you’re attracted to someone, odds are you want to know if they’re attracted to you, too. While there are several physical signs someone’s into you, you may also experience spiritual signs that suggest someone is thinking about you sexually, like tingling or intense mood swings. In this article, we’ll explain 20 common signs someone is thinking about you sexually, with advice from psychics Jennifer McVey and Mari Cartagenova.

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You think about them constantly.

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Your mind frequently wanders toward that person. If someone is thinking of you sexually, you may find yourself thinking of them , too, either consciously or subconsciously. When someone thinks about you, they send out energy, and if you’re receptive to that energy, you’ll likely start thinking about them, too. You may have sexual fantasies about them or they may just frequently be on your mind. ^{[1]
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You feel giddy for no reason.

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Your sudden happiness or excitement is unexplainable. You may be going about your day as usual when you suddenly feel the urge to smile or laugh. Even if you aren’t thinking of your person at the time, you could be picking up on how you make them feel. ^{[2]
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You have the urge to contact them at odd hours.

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You have a sudden, intense need to reach out to them. When someone is thinking of you sexually, you’ll feel drawn to them and crave their attention. You may wake up in the middle of the night and want to talk to them, even if this isn’t your normal behavior. This is likely because they’re already thinking about you, and if it’s late at night, their thoughts might not be that innocent.

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You feel like someone is watching you.

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If you feel like they’re watching you, you may be picking up on their energy. Don’t worry—this isn’t as creepy as it sounds! If you feel like your person is watching you and you know they aren’t nearby, you’re likely picking up on the fact that they’re thinking of you. If there’s a strong connection between the two of you, you may feel their presence and their positive energy.

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There’s an intense energy between you.

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Your energy is heightened when you’re with them. Even if you don’t know this person well, you experience intense, unexplainable feelings when you’re with them. You may literally feel their energy around you, and your own energy will be very high when you’re in their presence. When they leave, your energy level will plummet and you’ll miss them almost immediately. Your energy level may also coincide with theirs, so you may feel low or high energy depending on how your person is feeling at that moment. ^{[3]
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You have a warm feeling in your chest.

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You experience positive physical sensations throughout the day. When someone has sexual or romantic feelings for you, they open up a part of themselves to you and send positive energy toward you, intentionally or not. If you feel a warm, pleasant sensation in your chest, this likely means your heart is accepting those feelings. This sensation may come and go throughout the day, whether you’re thinking of that person or not.

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You have undeniable chemistry with them.

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You can’t ignore the sexual tension between you two. When you have chemistry with someone, you feel it in your whole body. You don’t choose to be attracted to them; you’re just naturally drawn to them. When this happens, you’re likely picking up on the energy they’re sending out. You won’t be able to ignore the sexual tension between you. ^{[4]
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- Don’t be afraid to act on your feelings! If you notice the chemistry, they probably do, too. Feel free to flirt or take the next step and ask them on a date.

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You start feeling shy or nervous for no reason.

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You may feel overwhelmed when you pick up on their thoughts. When your subconscious picks up on your person’s sexual thoughts, you may start feeling nervous or shy, even if you don’t consciously know why. If you aren’t normally shy around people, this could be a sign that they’re thinking of you, and your body is reacting. This nervous feeling may be accompanied by a burning sensation in your ears, which some people believe indicates someone has a crush on you . ^{[5]
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You hear their voice when they aren’t there.

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It’s like they’re talking to you in your mind. Just like you may feel them watching you, you can also sometimes hear your person’s voice when they’re thinking of you sexually. Depending on the situation, you might hear them say something specific, or you may just hear a faint echo of their voice. Listen to what they have to say, as this may help you figure out what they think of you. ^{[6]
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You randomly feel aroused throughout the day.

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You may feel turned on when they’re thinking of you. If you find yourself feeling aroused when nothing sexual is going on, your person may be fantasizing about you at that very moment. If you’re attracted to them, too, you may be picking up on their sexual energy even if you aren’t together. ^{[7]
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You feel their touch when they aren’t there.

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Feeling their touch often means you’re connected to their energy. In addition to hearing their voice or feeling them watching you, you may also feel physical sensations on your body as if they’re touching you. You may feel their hand on your face or your back, or things may be a bit more sexual. This likely means they’re thinking of touching you at that moment. ^{[8]
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You have erotic dreams about them.

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Erotic dreams are a strong indication of sexual attraction. Many believe that energy can be exchanged and balanced while dreaming. If you have an erotic dream about your person, they may also be thinking or dreaming of you sexually. This may be their way of communicating their feelings on a spiritual level. ^{[9]
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- Even if your dreams about them aren’t erotic, Cartagenova explains that it’s a way of energetically connecting with your person: “In a subconscious manner, you’re putting it out there to try to connect with the other person so that they might start thinking of you and becoming interested in you.”

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You feel their bodily sensations.

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Your body may react the way theirs does. When someone is thinking of you sexually, you may feel what their body is feeling at that moment. If you suddenly feel sensations like a racing heartbeat, body temperature fluctuations, or even nausea, you may be energetically connected to your person. ^{[10]
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You have a gut feeling they’re thinking of you.

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Listen to your intuition about them. If you have a strong, unexplainable feeling that your person is thinking of you sexually, it’s probably true. Your inner wisdom is likely picking up on their feelings. This is especially true if you pick up on the feeling while doing something spiritual, like meditating . ^{[11]
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- Trusting your intuition can also help you figure out if you have a soul tie with someone. Psychic and spiritual director Jennifer McVey says, “If you have that connection, you’d know exactly where they are and what they’re doing. It wouldn’t be a question. It would be a thought… You would just absolutely know.”

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You get goosebumps or tingles.

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Goosebumps often indicate an influx of energy. When someone constantly thinks about you (sexually or otherwise), their energy may start to merge with yours. When this happens, you may experience goosebumps or tingling out of nowhere. This may feel unpleasant or overwhelming at first because you aren’t used to feeling so much energy at once. ^{[12]
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You keep drawing sexual tarot cards.

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Get a tarot reading to determine what they think of you. If you believe in divination, tarot cards can be a great way to figure out your current situation, like what someone thinks of you. Some cards, in particular, are often used to convey sexual content, like the Ace of Wands, Knight of Wands, the Star, Temperance, and the Four of Swords. If you keep drawing these cards, especially when asking about this person, it could mean they’re thinking of you sexually. ^{[13]
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- If you suspect someone is thinking about you sexually, you can also try asking the tarot cards what their intentions are, like if they want a relationship or just a hookup. This can help you decide if pursuing the person is worth your time.

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You engage in telepathic sex.

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You and your person may have sex in the astral plane. When you’re deeply connected with someone, it’s possible to experience telepathic arousal. If you believe in the astral plane, you and your person may astral project and have sex through telepathic touch. When this happens, you may also feel the sensations in your physical body. ^{[14]
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- If you want to telepathically communicate with someone, McVey generally recommends visualizing them “unless you’re not a visual person and it frustrates you and it feels like you can’t do it.” In that case, she says to connect with them in any way you can.

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You experience sudden or intense mood swings.

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Your mood may reflect your person’s mood. When someone constantly thinks of you, their thoughts may enter your energy field and impact the way you deal with your emotions. You may find yourself suddenly angry when you were just happy or vice versa. It’s possible you’re picking up on how your person is feeling at that moment. ^{[15]
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They reach out when you think of them.

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You seem to know when they’re going to contact you. When someone thinks of you sexually, they may suddenly have the urge to call or text you. This feeling often coincides with you thinking of them. This is a sign of the deep connection between the two of you. ^{[16]
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A psychic confirms their feelings.

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Ask a psychic whether or not the person is thinking of you. If you want spiritual confirmation that someone is thinking about you sexually, consider visiting a psychic. A psychic can use various means of divination and spiritual intuition to help you determine what that person thinks of you. If the psychic confirms their feelings, it’s a good sign they’re thinking of you sexually. ^{[17]
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Raven Minyard, BA

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This article was co-authored by wikiHow staff writer, Raven Minyard, BA . Raven Minyard received her BA in English and Creative Writing from Sweet Briar College in 2020. While in college, she served as the Coeditor-in-Chief of Sweet Briar's literary magazine Red Clay and has since gone on to write for publications such as The Zillennial Zine and Halloween Every Night. Raven recalls reading articles from wikiHow's early days during her childhood and is thrilled to now write for their content team. She enjoys learning about new interests and topics with each article she writes and hopes to help audiences of all backgrounds continue to learn new and exciting things.

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