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If you're unfamiliar with internet slang and someone sends an "HMU" text or social media message, you might be wondering what it means. You'll find everything you need right here! In this article, we'll give you every definition of "HMU" and explain how you can use it in your own messages. We've also got plenty of examples to get you started, so read on to learn more.

Section 3 of 5:

How to Use “HMU”

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  1. HMU is another way of saying, "please get in touch with me," and you can follow up by specifying what method of communication you'd like to use. It's best when used informally to chat with friends and family. [2]
    • "Let's catch up! HMU when you've got a minute. 😊"
    • "I have GOT to tell you something huge! HMU!"
  2. Whether you're offering more information or offering to meet up face-to-face, you can invite people to message you with a simple HMU. Once you send the message, your recipient can react to the invitation accordingly. [3] For example:
    • "I'm selling a couple of my old books. HMU if interested!"
    • "Hey, I heard you'll be in town this week! HMU if you wanna hang out."
    • "You interested in a night out with some friends? HMU! 😄"
  3. HMU can also be a flirty phrase that encourages your crush to message or go on a date with you. Pair it with a flirty emoji such as 😉 (wink) or 😘 (blowing kiss) to emphasize your meaning. You can even use HMU for an online dating profile! For example:
    • You : "We should go see that movie together! HMU if you're interested. 😉"
    • Them : "Absolutely! What day works for you?"
    • On a Tinder profile, you could write, "HMU if you also love Marvel movies!"
  4. "TBH" stands for "to be honest," so adding a TBH to your HMU is basically asking someone for their honest opinion. Alternatively, you can offer to give your honest opinion about something.
    • You : "Hey, have you met our new coworker? HMU for a TBH!"
    • Them : "I'm intrigued! I'll call in a minute."
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How to Respond to “HMU”

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  1. When someone sends an HMU, your first reaction will most likely be sending a message or calling them up. Say something like:
    • "Hey, I got your Snap! What's up?"
    • "Got your text! I can call you in a little while if that's okay? 😊"
  2. You're not obligated to answer any message that you don't want to. So if you get an HMU from someone you're trying to avoid, there's no need to send a reply. Alternatively, you can make an excuse or ask them to stop.
    • Them : "Hey, HMU sometime today!"
    • You : "Hey, sorry, today's a little busy for me! Maybe some other time."
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Other Forms of “HMU”

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  1. Generally, when someone messages "hook me up," they're asking you to introduce them to someone or something. For example:
    • "You know how to get a table at that super-exclusive restaurant? HMU!"
    • "If you hear about any cool events in the area, HMU, please!"
  2. In 2010, after "hit me up" became a common term, an Urban Dictionary user jokingly suggested that HMU stood for "hold my unicorn" instead. It quickly became an online sensation, with memes and social media pages dedicated to it. [4]
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