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Having to change in a school locker room can be stressful, but there are definitely things you can do to make it easier. Mastering the quick change can reduce the amount of time you might feel embarrassed. Find ways to maintain your privacy, like by changing in a bathroom stall or behind a curtain. After you've gotten used to changing in your locker room, you might start to feel more confident changing in front of others.
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Wear clothes that are easy to take off and put on. On the days that you have gym class, make sure you wear stuff that’s easy to get in and out of. Stick to shoes that are easy to lace or slip on, and pants and a top that are easy to take off on gym days. You'll be able to get out of these clothes – and into your gym clothes – quickly. [1] X Trustworthy Source American Psychological Association Leading scientific and professional organization of licensed psychologists Go to source
- For example, skirts with elastic bands, comfortable jeans, pullover shirts, and slip-on flats are great options for gym days.
- Try to stay away from button-down shirts, multi-layer tops, and tight jeans on gym days.
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Make sure everything is easily accessible. To get changed into your gym clothes as quickly as possible, you should make sure everything you need is within easy reach. Lay out your gym clothes in your locker in the order you’ll put them on as you take your street clothes off. [2] X Research source
- For example, lay your gym socks, then your pants, then your shirt down, so your shirt is on top. Take your regular shirt off and put the gym one on. Then take off your regular pants and put on your gym ones.
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Keep track of your time. If you're changing at school, you probably don't have much time to get changed after gym. You can keep track of your time by using your cell phone or a wristwatch to set a timer.
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Stick to a minimalist shower. Keep the water temperature a little lower than you usually use at home. Then only wash your body with soap and water, and skip washing your hair. You should also skip shaving, exfoliating, and similar stuff until you get home. [3] X Research source
- If your hair really feels gross after gym, or if you've been in the pool, try spraying your hair with dry shampoo. It should soak up extra moisture in your hair. You can also dry it with a quick-dry towel.
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Use wet wipes instead of taking a shower. Taking a shower after gym class can take up a bunch of time. If you're short on time, skip the shower! Instead, bring wet wipes with you and wipe yourself down after class. Focus on areas that might get a little stinky when you sweat, like your armpits. This way you get clean, but you save yourself some time and embarrassment. [4] X Trustworthy Source American Academy of Dermatology Professional organization made of over 20,000 certified dermatologists Go to source
- You can use regular wet wipes for this option.
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Save conversations for after you're done changing. If you're in class with a bunch of your friends, you might be tempted to hang out and chat instead of getting changed. You can still chat a bit while you change, but your focus should be on getting out of your gym clothes and into your regular clothes. [5] X Research source
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Keep to yourself if you feel shy. Some people in your locker room might not mind talking to each other while they change. If that makes you uncomfortable, it’s okay to keep to yourself while you change. You don’t need to chat with anyone else, and you don’t need to pause while you’re changing to answer anyone’s questions. It saves you time and some privacy. [6] X Research source
- If someone starts talking to you while you're changing, you can politely say something like "Hey! Let me get changed really quick and then we can talk."
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Look for a private area to change. Some locker rooms have bathroom stalls that you can access while you’re in the locker room. If you’re really uncomfortable changing in front of others, you can slip into a bathroom stall and change your clothes quickly. [7] X Trustworthy Source American Psychological Association Leading scientific and professional organization of licensed psychologists Go to source
- Locker rooms that are attached to pools usually have more showers than regular locker rooms, so you might be able to change there.
- Keep in mind that sometimes the bathroom stalls might be full of people already. You might not have the time to wait for a stall. If that’s the case, find a quiet corner in the locker room to change.
- If you're changing at school, ask if students are allowed to change in the restrooms. Some teachers have rules that everyone must change at their locker.
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Wear your gym clothes under your regular clothes. If there aren’t many options for privacy in your locker room, try wearing your gym clothes under your street clothes. That way, you only have to take off your top layer of clothes before class, and then put them back on when it’s over. [8] X Research source
- If you're wearing your gym clothes under your regular clothes, make sure you wash them regularly – at least once or twice a week.
- This might get a little warm during the warmer months, so be prepared for that.
- If you’re wearing your gym clothes under your regular clothes, bring extra deodorant or body spray. That way you won’t bring the smell of gym class with you into other classes.
EXPERT TIPPhysical Education TeacherPaige Bowen is a Physical Education Teacher at Oconee County Primary School in Watkinsville, Georgia. Paige has over 20 years of physical education teaching experience. She was awarded the Oconee County Primary School Teacher of the Year for 2002-2003. She received a B.S.Ed. in Health and Physical Education from the University of Georgia in 1996 and an M.Ed. in Early Childhood Education in 2003 from the same institution.Expert Trick: If you don't want to have to change at all or wear extra layers, you can just wear gym clothes to school on the days you have P.E. class.
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Ask your school for privacy curtains. A lot of people are uncomfortable changing in front of others, and if you can get a few people to ask with you, it might convince the administration. Ask your principal if it’s possible to get privacy curtains put up in your locker room. If the principal can’t make that decision, you might have to speak to the school board. Write down the reasons you’d prefer that type of privacy and present your case clearly and calmly. [9] X Research source
- If you're a trans student and need privacy, you should let your school board know.
- If you have religious reasons for needing privacy, you should bring those up as well.
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Remind yourself that everyone’s bodies look different. It’s easy to feel uncomfortable in the locker room because you’re comparing your body to everyone else’s. But everyone’s body looks different and almost no one can live up to the ideals you see on TV. Your body is your body, and it’s fine no matter how it looks! [10] X Research source
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Remember that your body is just one among others. You’re not the only one changing in the locker room, although it’s easy to feel that way. But everyone else around you is changing, and they’re probably nervous, too. Just remember that everyone is probably so worried about their own bodies, they’re not paying any attention to yours! [11] X Research source
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Ignore people who tease you. If you get teased in the locker room, the best thing you can do is ignore the bully. Most bullies love the reaction they get from people they bully. If you don't react, they might lose interest. [12] X Research source
- If the teasing continues, go to a teacher or coach you trust. They can help you deal with the teasing.
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Improve your body image . One way to be more confident in the locker room is to improve your body image. Think about the amazing things your body can do – maybe you're really strong, or maybe you can run fast. Also keep in mind that some things about your body you just can't change. If there are things you can change, set yourself some goals for improving them.
- For example, you can't change how your knees look, or how wide your hips are.
- You can change how muscular your legs are or how flat your stomach is. Make goals for yourself related to the things you can change.
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Push yourself to feel more comfortable by slowing down your pace. It’s okay if you don’t feel comfortable in the locker room right away. But try to slow down your changing pace each week. As you feel more comfortable, say hi to people as you change. It might feel uncomfortable at first, but you’ll get used to it eventually. [13] X Research source
- If you do slow down, make sure you're still keeping track of the time you have to change.
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QuestionAre teachers allowed in the locker room when you're changing?Community AnswerSome schools have policies that require gym teachers to be in the locker rooms while students are changing. If that makes you uncomfortable, talk to your principal about it and find out why they're there.
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QuestionWhat if I'm on my period and I'm changing? How do I hide my pad from people?Community AnswerYou can change in a bathroom stall if you're on your period and nervous about people seeing your pad. If you can get to the locker room a little quicker than other people - go right there during break instead of waiting for your friends - you should be able to get a stall.
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- Ask some friends to hold a towel up for you to act as a screen.Thanks
- In most schools, dressing in proper gym clothing is part of your gym grade.Thanks
- Remember to take your PE clothes home regularly so you can wash them ; they'll really start to stink up after a while.Thanks
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- Wear easy, quick-change clothes on gym days — things like pullover tops, skirts with elastic bands, and slip-on shoes. This makes changing faster.
- Work on building up to feeling more comfortable over time. As you get used to changing near others, try chatting a bit. Always go at your own pace.
- Pack wet wipes or body spray to quickly freshen up after class instead of showering. Focus on sweaty areas like your armpits.
- If you get teased, tell a teacher. They can help deal with bullies. Don't react to the bully — that's what they want.
- Change behind the privacy curtain if your school has one installed. If not, ask them to consider adding curtains.
- Remind yourself everyone is focused on their own changing. No one is staring at you.
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Warnings
- Don't leave your locker unlocked; someone may steal your clothes, which means you'll have nothing to change back into.Thanks
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References
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/news/podcasts/speaking-of-psychology/fashion
- ↑ https://iris.peabody.vanderbilt.edu/module/env/cresource/q1/p02/
- ↑ https://www.uclahealth.org/news/article/6-cold-shower-benefits-consider
- ↑ https://www.aad.org/public/diseases/acne/DIY/back-acne
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/happiness-and-the-pursuit-leadership/201610/whats-wrong-locker-room-talk
- ↑ https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/shyness.html
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/news/podcasts/speaking-of-psychology/fashion
- ↑ https://www.unr.edu/nevada-today/news/2013/school-uniform-study
- ↑ https://www.aps.edu/facilities-design-and-construction/documents/design-standards-and-guidelines/HS_Standards.pdf
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To change in a school locker room, look for a shower or bathroom stall to change in if you're not comfortable changing in front of other people. If you can't find somewhere private to change, see if you can find a quiet corner where you can get changed really quickly without being bothered. Or, try wearing your gym clothes underneath your regular school clothes so you don't have to take them off. Just make sure you put on deodorant or body spray so you don't smell bad. To learn how to get dressed quickly in a locker room, read on!
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