I need advice about a crush dillema! Help!
I'm crushing on my friend's crush, and it's complicated. Two of my friends like him, and it's hard to interact with him without hurting them. But, I also think he's crushing back.
One time at a youth group, everyone randomly started clapping about something, and I saw my crush peering past his friend, smiling while looking at me. And also he had been glancing at me earlier.
And a week before he talked to me, about something my other friend (not crushing) said to him. For some reason, my friend told him I wanted his number and I freaked out because I didn't tell her that.
And yeah I think he does like me because he knew I liked him when he brought up the number thing, and if he didn't like me he probably just wouldnt say anything to me or say he didn't like me.
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One time at a youth group, everyone randomly started clapping about something, and I saw my crush peering past his friend, smiling while looking at me. And also he had been glancing at me earlier.
And a week before he talked to me, about something my other friend (not crushing) said to him. For some reason, my friend told him I wanted his number and I freaked out because I didn't tell her that.
And yeah I think he does like me because he knew I liked him when he brought up the number thing, and if he didn't like me he probably just wouldnt say anything to me or say he didn't like me.
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It can put you in a tricky situation when you and your friend like the same guy
, especially if you think he likes you back. Even though it might be a little awkward, it's best to just be open and honest about your feelings with your friends. Let them know that you're starting to have a crush on this guy and recognize that your friends feel the same attraction to him too. Explain that you don't want to make it a competition, but don't feel like you have to ask for their permission to go out with your crush.
It also helps to remember that your crush will decide who they want to go out with, and ultimately, it's their decision to make. If your friends are really hurt that you're crushing on the same guy, it might be a good time to figure out what's worth more to you in the long run. If you want to keep your friendship without a lot of drama, it might be better to leave your crush alone and look for someone else.
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It also helps to remember that your crush will decide who they want to go out with, and ultimately, it's their decision to make. If your friends are really hurt that you're crushing on the same guy, it might be a good time to figure out what's worth more to you in the long run. If you want to keep your friendship without a lot of drama, it might be better to leave your crush alone and look for someone else.
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