Aries men (March 21 - April 19) love bold, sophisticated, and savvy women. It's no wonder you've fallen for this guy—he's confident, charming, and sexy as hell. Catching his eye is all about working with what you’ve got and having the confidence to reel him in. If you want to get an Aries man, it’s important to work your magic from that first glance to forming a lasting relationship! Plus, we spoke with astrologers Stina Garbis and Kyle Thompson to get their best advice for attracting and having a relationship with an Aries man.
This article is partially based on an interview with our psychic astrologer, Stina Garbis, owner of Psychic Stina. Check out the full interview here.
How to Attract an Aries Man
You have to be bold if you want to catch the eye of an Aries man. Make your interest clear with strong eye contact, compliments, and a flirty touch, but don’t come on too strong. Aries likes to feel needed and act as your protector, but he also likes someone who can engage him in intellectual debate.
Steps
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Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow do you keep an Aries man interested?Jessica Lanyadoo is a Humanistic Astrologer, psychic medium, and animal communicator with over 30 years of professional experience. Known for her grounded and accessible approach, she helps individuals cultivate emotional intelligence and navigate life with clarity. She is the author of Meditations for Your Sign (2025) and Astrology for Real Relationships (2020) and hosts the acclaimed podcast Ghost of a Podcast. Her work has been featured in CNN, The Today Show, Rolling Stone, Vogue Italia, Time Magazine, Oprah Magazine, and more.When you're dating an Aries, first of all, it's really important that your Aries crush feels so important to you. If Aries gets an idea that they are not important to you, they will be offended. What you want to do is follow their lead while always stepping towards them.
Tips
- Many Aries men love exercise. If that’s your guy, join him at the gym. If you’re not into the gym scene, comment on his muscles or mention how strong he is.Thanks
- Aries tends to be competitive, so he may enjoy playing sports or going to sports events. Some prefer other types of games and contests, but they’re usually gunning for first place.Thanks
Tips from our Readers
- Aries guys respect daring decisions. If you have even a little bit of a feeling like he likes you back, don't hesitate to just go for it and ask him out. He'll appreciate the audacity of the move, and even if he says no, he'll respect the attempt and it shouldn't impact your friendship.
- Aries men tend to be a little impulsive and spontaneous. Lean into that by surprising him with a unique activity that can turn into a "date" organically. Go-kart racing, mini-golf, paintball, and escape rooms are all great options.
Warnings
- Aries men tend to be extremely independent with fiery temperaments. This can sometimes make your guy a bit impatient, which may cause problems in a relationship.Thanks
- You may have to set some clear boundaries with your Aries man. Just be direct and specific, and a smitten ram will respect your wishes happily.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.nylon.com/articles/guide-to-aries
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- ↑ Stina Garbis. Psychic Astrologer. Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/cutting-edge-leadership/202204/how-men-and-women-flirt-body-language
- ↑ Stina Garbis. Psychic Astrologer. Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.
- ↑ Stina Garbis. Psychic Astrologer. Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.
- ↑ Stina Garbis. Psychic Astrologer. Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.
- ↑ Kyle Thomas. Astrologer. Expert Interview. 14 March 2025.
- ↑ Stina Garbis. Psychic Astrologer. Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.
- ↑ Stina Garbis. Psychic Astrologer. Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.
- ↑ Stina Garbis. Psychic Astrologer. Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.
- ↑ Stina Garbis. Psychic Astrologer. Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.
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- ↑ Kyle Thomas. Astrologer. Expert Interview. 14 March 2025.
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