I have been dating a Thai lady and we have been getting serious. We have known each other because of Latin america singles club. She even introduced me to her parents already, so I thought we’re bringing it to the next level. However, just last week when we were partying at a club, there was this one guy who approached and greeted my girlfriend. I didn’t mind at first because I myself too have girl friends who often talk to me inside the clubs. Not until they both become intimate. I mean, they were holding their hands already. The man even kissed my girlfriend’s left cheek when he left. I wonder what really they were. On our way home, I noticed my girlfriend texting with whoever it was and she seemed serious about what she was doing. I asked who she was texting with but she got mad of me and I didn’t know why. Her actions lately have been so suspicious. Is she doing something behind my back? Am I being cheated on or am I just paranoid? Help!
Try asking her about it. Try to make her open up. Be kind and act gentle, then she’s more likely to tell the truth.
You might want to ditch her. If she’s not willing to tell the truth in the first place and got mad at you for asking about it, you might not want to go any further.
Caeiia
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My input is that to not generalize about Thai ladies. I am sure it’s not like all of them or none of them are faithful
Just ask her about it but try not to accuse or raise tensions initially.
Try to keep it about your own thoughts and feelings and be matter-of-fact. Above all, remain non-accusatory.
As @Caeiia
mentioned, when you try to throw a bunch of people into a box, very few of them actually fit in the box.
I’m glad it helped! Good luck!
Anna
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This thread was started by a malicious sockpuppet. I’m closing it to avoid confusion or wasted time by good-faith forum participants.
