Christina Jay, NLP
Matchmaker & Certified Life Coach
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Co-authored Articles (70)
Meaningful and Funny Questions to Get to Know Your Dating App Match Better
Ask your match these questions to start an engaging conversation and see if your chemistry is off the charts Your phone pings with a notification that you have a new match on Hinge. Based on their profile, it looks like ...
How to Text a Girl You Don't Know (Without Feeling Awkward!)
Texting a girl you haven't talked to before is enough to make anyone a little nervous. Whether you got her number from a friend or a dating site, you want to put your best foot forward so she's comfortable and curious ab...
How to
Meet New People
Ways to connect with others on a deeper level than casual small talk Maybe you're looking to expand your social circle, or you've recently started going to a new school and you don’t know anybody yet. Regardless of the...
How to
Know if You Are in the Friend Zone
Ah, the Friend Zone. The place where you think you might be when your crush starts talking about how hot the guy in her math class is. The place where that guy you're crushing on puts you when he starts belching loudly a...
12 Great Ways to Meet Someone to Date in Real Life
Find your special someone by trying hobbies, taking classes, & moreSo you're ready to meet that special someone, but you're tired of the constant swiping of dating apps. Or maybe you can't stand another date with someone...
How to Pamper a Woman: 14 Special Ways to Make Her Feel Loved
Pampering the woman you love is a great way to help her feel special and cared for. If you’re not sure how to start, don’t worry—pampering someone doesn’t have to mean fancy candlelit dinners and expensive gifts!...
How Long Should You Wait to Reply to a Text? Texting Etiquette for Crushes and More
It's always exciting when a new text pops up on your phone. While you might not have a reply prepared right away, the person’s probably waiting for you to respond. Everyone has slightly different texting habits, but yo...
How to
Make Someone Fall in Love with You
Sometimes we meet someone and we just know: it's love. However, it isn't always easy to see the wonderful qualities of the people right there in front of us. Therefore, it is good to know about some of the strategies tha...
How to Stop Staring at a Woman’s Breasts: Expert Advice
Your guide to directing your gaze elsewhere while chatting with girlsDo you struggle to keep your eyes off of a girl’s chest when you’re talking to her? Or, maybe every time a woman catches your eye, you automaticall...
How to
Make a Girl Happy
Let’s get this out of the way first: you can’t ''make'' a girl be happy, but you can make it ''easier'' for her to be happy. This article lists many ways to help the girl of your dreams be happy and stay happy. Read ...
How to
Talk to a Girl That You Haven't Spoken to in a While
Sometimes you remember awesome people you used to know or hangout with, and want to get back in contact with them. However, getting back into contact with someone after not speaking for a while can be tricky and even awk...
What to Do If You Run Into Your Ex
The survivor’s guide on getting through an awkward run-in with an exWhether your ex just showed up at the party you’re at or you got on the bus only to see your ex sitting in the front row, unexpected run-ins can be ...
How to
Double Text Without Looking Desperate
No one likes to be left on read, but we've all been there. You may be wondering if your text went through (it most likely did) or what you could've possibly done wrong (probably nothing). Mostly, you might be wondering i...
How to
Chat with a Girl on Facebook
Tips to impress a girl on FacebookChatting with a girl you like is always difficult, but it can be even more intimidating on Facebook. Thankfully, Facebook is a very versatile platform that allows you to share photos, di...
How to
Meet Other Lesbians
A community at your back is one of the best ways to support yourself in any area of life. Whether you've only come out to yourself or you're living openly as a lesbian, you'll benefit from people with similar experiences...
11+ Effective Ways to Get Someone to Stop Texting You (Without Being Rude)
Your phone’s blowing up, and your heart sinks when you see who’s texting you. Whether it’s a friend, family member, admirer, or ex, their constant texting has gotten out-of-hand. You don’t want to be rude—you j...
How to Search Facebook by Location: Finding Friends by City
Find out how to show Facebook friends who live in the same city as youFacebook makes it easy to connect with people from all over the world. This wikiHow guide will teach you how to search for friends and new connections...
How to
Escape the Friend Zone
It's a pretty common story—you find yourself developing feelings for a friend, but you’re not sure how to proceed. Worst of all, your crush has no idea you feel that way, or they’re content to continue thinking of ...
How Soon Is Too Soon to Move In Together?
You already spend a ton of time with your partner, so the next logical step is to find a place together. But what if you two only started dating a little while ago? While there’s no specific timeline or any hard and fa...
How to
Tell if It's Real Love or Just Sex
Both love and sexual attraction can cause strong reactions, but it’s sometimes difficult to tell which one it is. Sometimes, one person feels love, while the other is simply around because of lust. Understanding the di...
