Josh Spurlock, MA, LPC, CST
Licensed Professional Counselor
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Co-authored Articles (12)
How to
Love Your Wife According to the Bible
A healthy marriage is a beautiful relationship, but it can be a lot of hard work. Luckily, if you’re a Christian, you have the benefit of God’s word to help guide your marriage. The Bible is full of poignant passages...
How to
Respond when Someone Asks for Prayers
When a friend asks for prayers, they’re probably going through a tough time. Whether you personally believe in prayer or not, we’re here to show you how you can best be there for someone when they make this request. ...
How to
Initiate Physical Contact with a Girl
If you like a girl or want to start a relationship with her, touching her in a light and friendly manner can let her know that you are interested. Perhaps you like a close friend, or are nervous to start talking to someo...
How to
Fix a Broken Marriage God's Way
As a Christian dealing with a broken marriage, it's natural to turn to God for healing and hope. Believe it or not, most marriages go through difficult periods just like the one you're dealing with now—even the godlies...
How to
Have a God Centered Dating Relationship
center If you’re trying to live your life in a way that honors God, it’s only natural that you’d want a dating relationship that honors Him as well. To ensure God is an important part of your relationship with your...
How to
Meet Christian Girls
The Bible says that love is patient (1 Corinthians 13:4a)—but it’s hard to feel that way when you’re constantly waiting for that special someone to enter your life. Still, with all of the dating resources out there...
Is Cheating a Sin? The Problem with Infidelity (Even if You Aren't Married)
Does cheating break God's rules or does it depend on the situation? Cheating is generally regarded as a sin by every faith system throughout the world. The question is mainly how serious it is and whether it matters if y...
How to
Deal With Being Pressured to Have Sex
Sex should be a pleasurable experience between consenting people and you should never have sex when you don’t want to. Unfortunately, sometimes you may feel pressured to have sex by your spouse, your partner, or even y...
How to Talk to Your Wife About a Lack of Intimacy
Experiencing a lack of intimacy is hard, but figuring out how to bring it up can be even harder. If you and your wife are going through a period of little to no sex, just know that you aren’t alone. Tons of married cou...
How to
Cope With Being a Virgin when Your Friends Aren't
Sometimes it's hard to relate to friends when they have had sex and you haven't. They may talk about what they've done and you feel left out or maybe they're pushing you to have sex. They might even be making fun of you ...
The Best Bible Verses to Help You Process a Breakup
Move on from your relationship with these heartfelt words from ChristHeartbreak isn’t easy, and moving on can be one of the most difficult journeys. Whether you’re going through a breakup with a partner, family membe...
How to
Identify Difference Between True Lover and Fake Lover
A true lover is one who loves you unconditionally, cares about you, helps you through thick and thin, treats you as their family, and no matter what happens to your looks, financial status and life, they will always be b...