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When you're talking with a girl you've just met or don't know very well, you may wonder where to begin. You want to spark a conversation or at least keep it going ! Fortunately, with a bunch of interesting topics, you'll always feel confident with your conversation skills. Check out the list below to get started.

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Favorite things and pet peeves

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  1. It's a classic way to get to someone better so you can see if you two click. You might even have a list of things or experiences that you ask her about. Here are a few fun ways to get her to share her opinion: [8]
    • "What's your type of party?"
    • "What's a popular trend that you can't stand?"
    • "What do you look forward to most in the summer?"
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    Interesting questions like these make for great conversation starters. They help show a genuine interest, and encourage an easy interaction.



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Childhood

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  1. This is a great way for her to decide where the conversation goes—she could share a funny anecdote, reveal an important memory, or tell you about a sad event that shaped her life. Get her talking by asking a question like: [12]
    • "Do you think your childhood was happier than most people's?"
    • "What did you want to be when you were 5 years old?"
    • "What was the most embarrassing thing that happened to you when you were a kid?"

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