The Best Flirtatious Texts that’ll Keep You on His Mind

Cute and flirty messages that’ll have him wanting and missing you

Co-authored by Imad Jbara and Aly Rusciano

Last Updated: January 7, 2024 Fact Checked

So, you’re trying to impress the guy you like. Maybe you’re already dating or hoping he becomes your boyfriend soon. Either way, you need him to think about you, especially since you’re thinking about him 24/7. Thankfully, a quick, flirtatious text can make him miss and want you all at the same time (not to mention have him daydreaming about you). We’ve put together the cutest messages to send through Messenger, Tinder, Instagram, or any other social platform that’ll have him swooning, so read on!

Things You Should Know

Allude to a later surprise or date when texting him to keep him guessing about what’s to come.
Compliment and flatter him to let him know you like every part of him inside and out.
Hint at common interests, shared memories, or favorite things, so he knows you pay attention.

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Texts to Make Him Think About You

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I have a surprise for you later 😏
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I can’t stop thinking about this guy. Maybe you know him…

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Have any plans later? I’d love to Netflix and chill!
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I can’t get you off my mind.
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I miss you so much! Let’s see each other soon!
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I dreamed about you last night.
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How are you smart, strong, and sexy?
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I can’t stop smiling. Guess someone makes me really happy 🥰
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I can’t wait for tonight!
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Want to play hooky tomorrow? I’m lovesick for you.
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Just the thought of you gives me butterflies.
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What I wouldn’t give to be in your arms.
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Good morning, handsome ❤️
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How about we play truth or dare?
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They say I’m crazy, but I’m only crazy about you 🤪
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Your favorite song just came on. I miss you.
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What do you think we’d be doing right now if we were together?
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I think it’s time for our lips to schedule an in-person meeting.
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You truly get me.
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I feel the best when I’m with you.
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Do you remember when we took this photo?
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No one makes me laugh the way you do.
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Do you make everyone melt with that smile of yours?
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I’m already blushing, and the date hasn’t even started yet!
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You can make any day better.
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This painting reminds me of you.
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I’m just lying in bed, and I can’t stop thinking about you.
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How’s your day going?
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I’m counting down the days until I see you again.
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You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me.
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Can you stop by later? I need some help with something.
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Who would’ve thought I would fall in love with my best friend?
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You’re truly incredible. You know that?
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Counting down the seconds until I can be with you.
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I made your favorite meal—guess what’s for dessert 😉
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I know I can always count on you.
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I can’t fall asleep. I can’t stop thinking about this awesome guy.
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Ordered your favorite meal, and I have to say, I’m not disappointed.
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How has it been 3 years since we first met?
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Just don’t work too hard—you’ll need some energy for later 😏🔥
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See you in my dreams!

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