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Smooth ways to get a chick’s number on dating apps and in person
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If you’re vibing with a girl and your conversation is wrapping up, you might want to ask for her number. Being direct and asking for it is a solid approach, but it’s not very witty or creative. Instead, try a funny line to get her number and stand out from the crowd. In this article, we're providing 50+ funny and unique ways to ask a girl for her number. We also spoke with dating coach Imad Jbara for tips on how to get a girl's number in a natural way and keep her interested over text.

How to Get a Chick’s Number

Introduce yourself and ask her questions to start an engaging conversation. After you’ve been talking for a while, ask for her number directly. Dating coach Imad Jbara says you should always “give a reason” to get a girl’s number. For example, you could say you want to continue the conversation or arrange a date.

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“I lost my number. Can I have yours?”

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  1. Have your cell with a new contact option opened so it only takes a second to type in. You can use this line on a complete stranger or someone you’ve known for a little while! [1]
    • “I lost my phone number, but I bet yours is a perfect replacement.”
    • “I swear my number was here just a second ago... but now it's gone. How about I get yours?”
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“Something’s wrong with my phone! Your number isn’t in it.”

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  1. When she asks what’s wrong with it, tell her that the only way to fix it is to add her number. This line is even funnier if your phone is actually cracked or broken in some way! [2]
    • “I think my phone is broken… it won’t let me text anything other than your number. Want to fix that?”
    • “My phone seems to be glitching...it’s only showing the number of incredibly cute people. So, could you help me out with yours?”
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“Could you hold my phone? Oh, and add your number, too!”

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  1. This line works best if you use it on a girl you’ve talked to a few times before. Have the “add contact” screen up and ready before you hand your phone over so it’s ready to go. She’ll probably chuckle as she adds her name and number into your phone. [3]
    • “Would you hold my phone while I use the bathroom? And put your number in it while you’re at it.”
    • “Hey, would you mind holding my phone for a second? It’s feeling a little heavy without your number in it!”
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4

“How will I propose to you if I don’t have your number?”

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  1. Some girls might think this is a little cheesy, but others will appreciate the fact that you’re thinking of them as a long-term partner. She might blush a little as she puts your number in her phone. [4]
    • “I promise I won’t call every day…unless you want me to.”
    • “I’m not clingy, but my phone might get sad if I don’t get your number.”
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“I added your name to my contacts. Just missing the number.”

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  1. Use this line after you’ve both introduced yourself . If you don’t know her that well, you can just put her first name into a new contacts option. Then, hand her your phone so she can input the rest of her info. [5]
    • “I think I accidentally deleted your contact. Could you give me your number again?”
    • “I was trying to text you, but I think your contact slipped away from me. Can you send it again?”
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“Could you send me a text to see if my phone’s working?”

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  1. Tell her your number and then ask her to send you a quick text. When she does, you can tell her that your phone is working and thank her for giving her your number. Try something like, “Yup, it’s working. And now I have your number so we can chat later! Thanks.” [6]
    • “My ringtone is hilarious. Call me so you can hear it.”
    • “What emoji should I put next to your name in my phone? Actually, why don’t you start by giving me your number?”
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“I’d give you my number first, but I have trust issues.”

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  1. Deliver this line with a little wink and a smile. You can tease her into giving you her number first so you don’t even have to ask. Try this line after you two have been flirting and chatting for a bit. [7] If you’re using this line over text, add a smiley face at the end so she knows you’re kidding around.
    • “I’m not great at trusting people… but I’m willing to make an exception for your number.”
    • “I’ve got trust issues, but I’m starting to think your number is worth breaking the rules for.”
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“We might be able to get along after all. What’s your number?”

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  1. If you two have shared a bit of back-and-forth banter already, take it to the next level when you ask for her number. That way, she’ll know you’re a goofy and fun-loving guy. [8] Remember, your tone can really make or break this line. Be sure to smile and chuckle a little as you say it so she doesn’t think you’re serious.
    • “I think we get along pretty well, and I have a feeling we’ll get along even better if I get your number.”
    • “It’s obvious we vibe with each other, so I think it’s only right I have your number to keep the good times rolling!”
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“You were about to ask for my number, weren't you?”

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  1. Tease her in a fun and flirty way . If your conversation is wrapping up, pretend like she was going to ask you for your number. Then, you can either ask for hers or put yours into her phone. [9]
    • “If you give me a kiss, I’ll give you my phone number.”
    • “I’ll save you the trouble and just give you my number now.”
    • “Are you going to ask me for my digits or should I take the lead?”
    • “If you think I’m good at flirting now, wait until you flirt with me over the phone.”
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“Can you fill out this form for me?”

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  1. When she asks what the spaces are for, tell her to write her number down for you. If she likes your gimmick, she’ll give you her number so you two can chat later. [10] If you don’t have paper with you, just hand over your phone open to a new contacts option instead.
    • “I’ve got a form here that requires me to get your number for future fun. Do you think you can help me out?”
    • “I’m doing a quick survey, and it turns out the last question is ‘What’s your number?’ Could you help me out?”
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“I bet I can remember your number without writing it down…try me!”

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  1. Trying to capture her attention in a casual way? This line is engaging, unique, and does all the work for you. Just be sure to deliver your line with confidence and go for it!
    • “I have a talent for memorizing phone numbers. Want to test me with yours?”
    • “Want to see a magic trick? Give me your phone and I’ll make my number appear.”
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“Want to play pool? Winner gets the loser’s number.”

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  1. This is the perfect line to ease any pressure and make the moment feel more natural. Keeping things chill when asking for a girl’s phone number shows confidence and respect, which makes her more likely to say yes!
    • “If I can make you laugh in the next 10 seconds, you give me your number. Deal?”
    • “I bet you can’t guess my favorite band. If you get it right, I’ll give you my number. If you get it wrong, you have to give me yours!”
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“Do you believe in fate? Because I think we’re meant to swap numbers.”

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  1. If you’re looking for a line that stands out from the crowd, this one's for you! Framing your line around fate is super charming and romantic, and it’s not as common as a cold ask or giving her a compliment. It'll probably be a refreshing break from other lines she’s heard before, making her intrigued enough to give you her number.
    • “This feels like fate, so let’s make it official: your number in my phone?”
    • “I know this sounds crazy, but ’ve always believed in destiny and it just told me to ask for your number.”
    • “If fate is real, then I think this is the moment we’re supposed to exchange numbers. What do you think?”
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“Are you an angel? Because I’ve been texting heaven asking for your number.”

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  1. When all else fails, using a pick-up line is a solid choice. Keep in mind that your confidence and delivery are key, and don’t overthink it. If she seems super outgoing, feel free to drop a bold or borderline cheesy line. If she’s more reserved, stick to something subtle and sweet. [11]
    • “Are we at the airport? Because my heart is taking off. Can I get your number to keep the flight going?”
    • “Is your name Google? Because you’ve got everything I’ve been searching for. Mind sharing your number?”
    • “Is your name Wi-Fi? Because I’m feeling a connection. How about we exchange numbers and see if it gets stronger?”
    • “Do you have a map? Because I keep getting lost in your eyes. Want to give me your number and make it easier for me to find you again?”
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“If you gave me your number, I’d give you something even better.”

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  1. This line is risky, so save it until you’ve been flirting for a while. Since it implies you want her to send you a dirty text , you’ll definitely want to make sure that she’s interested in you. Some signs include: prolonged eye contact, mirroring your body language, touching you, and playfully teasing you. [12]
    • “I’ve never sexted before. Maybe you can teach me?”
    • “I want to tell you something, but it’s too inappropriate to say out loud. I’ll have to text it to you instead.”
    • “I’d love to keep this conversation going, but I think we need a little more privacy. What’s your number?”
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Examples to Ask a Girl for Her Phone Number

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WikiCheetahTamer353
There's a girl I run into a lot on campus. I don't know her, but we smile at each other and I think I'd like to ask for her number, but I don't know how to do this without seeming...Idk, like a creep? Or desperate? Is it weird to just........ask a stranger for her number? If not, how do you do it (with at least a little rizz)? What do you even say??
Connell Barrett
Dating Coach
The best way to ask for a girl's number is to not ask so much as lead. Strike up a conversation the next time you see her. While you're talking, give her a compliment, like, "Hey, I enjoy talking to you, you're really funny, you're really witty, I've enjoyed this. Let's trade numbers," then take out your phone and assume that she feels the same way. Feel confident about it. Don't say, "Hey, can I please maybe get your number?" Instead, be confident and approach it with an attitude of, "Hey, of course we're going to trade numbers, we clearly like each other."

Remember that the phone number should be exchanged as a byproduct of a nice flirtatious connected conversation. It's not a trophy. It's not the reason for the conversation. It's simply a byproduct of two people connecting and getting closer, who want to see each other again.
Anonymous WikiMist
Anonymous WikiMist
That's all great advice. I'd also add that in order to not come off creepy (which is something I worry about sometimes myself), it helps to have an actual conversation with her before asking for her number. So if you only like this girl because she's cute and smiles at you, maybe your next step should be chatting with her for a few minutes and then ask for her number if you feel like you're vibing.

You're at school, ask her what classes she's taking. If you're at a cafe, ask her if she's tried the new crazy beverage. Simple conversation starters that can get the ball rolling. Like the commenter above said the phone number is a byproduct of connecting and a sign you both want to get closer and see where that connection can go.

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    Is it weird to ask for someone's number?
    Imad Jbara
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    Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.
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    Not necessarily! Try to have a specific reason in mind when you ask—if you were both talking about your favorite TV shows, you might say "Could I have your number? I'd love to text you once the new season premieres next week."
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      • Jbara says you should always “give a reason” to get a girl’s phone number. If you talked to her about your favorite show, for example, you could say something like “give me your number so I can text you when season two comes out.” Providing a specific reason will “make her more enticed.” [13]
      • Imad also recommends “using your environment to help you.” If you’re at a library or bookstore, for example, you could approach a girl for book recommendations to “build conversation and take it to the next level.” That way, “she’ll feel more comfortable” and it won’t seem like you’re just trying to get her number. [14]
      • To keep a girl interested over text, Imad says to “be illogical and fun.” It’s easy for things to “get misconstrued over text,” especially if you don’t understand the other person’s tone or sense of humor. If she asks “how are you,” you could respond playfully by saying “the usual, just saving the group of kids from a burning bush and helping the old lady across the street.” [15]
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      2. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201410/the-science-of-pick-up-lines
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      4. Imad Jbara. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 22 September 2021.
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