How to Attract a Libra Man Sexually

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Libra guys are super intelligent and fun to be around, but what do they like in the bedroom? Don't worry—we've researched Libra personality traits and preferences for you and we're ready to tell all. Keep reading for a comprehensive guide to what Libra guys find attractive and what they like in bed.

Attracting a Libra Man Sexually

Libras love beauty, pleasure, and romance. Appeal to a Libra man’s sexual desires by showering him with affection. Don’t hold back from public displays of affection like touches, caresses, and whispering sweet nothings in his ear.

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Dress to impress.

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    Libras are ruled by Venus, the planet that governs beauty and attractiveness, so appearance is important to this sign. [1] Your guy is likely a sharp dresser and he wants someone on his arm who’s just as stylish (if not more so). You don’t have to buy expensive designer pieces to impress him, though. Focus on fashionable outfits that fit you well. [2]
    • Libras adore statement accessories, so spruce up your outfit with something eye-catching like a colorful purse or bold piece of jewelry.
    • If it’s in your budget, treat yourself to a mani pedi or a gorgeous perfume. Libras notice all the little details.
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Be friendly and positive.

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    This sign is easy to please, so don’t force yourself to be saccharine. Just flash him a genuine smile, laugh at his jokes, and project an upbeat attitude. He’ll appreciate your sunny vibe and be drawn into your orbit in no time. [3]
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Give him plenty of compliments.

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    Despite their impeccable style and laid back attitudes, men born under this sign often feel insecure. Libra is represented by double sided scales, which is why your guy has a dual nature—confident on the outside, anxious on the inside. Compliments are a great way to boost his confidence.
    • Compliments about his looks are fine, but deep down he wants to hear positive words about his skills and talents.
    • You might say something like, "I am so impressed with your guitar playing skills. You have a real gift."
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Hit the town with him and his friends.

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    Air signs are extremely social and their circle of friends is important to them. Your guy probably spends a lot of time with his friend group, so be open to meeting them and do your best to mesh with their energy.
    • Luckily, since Libras are obsessed with art and culture, he won’t be doing keg stands with his bros on the weekends. They’re more likely to be out enjoying live music, checking out art exhibits, and watching foreign films.
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Bring up intellectual topics.

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    [4] If you want to get this guy into your bedroom, you’ll first have to wow him with your intelligence and quick wit. Be able to hold your own on a variety of topics and he’ll be very impressed. He prefers intellectual discussions and loves to hear people speak about their interests and passions.
    • You might ask him, "So what are your thoughts on space exploration? When do you think humans will finally make it to Mars?"
    • Libras are very turned off by gossip, so avoid this at all costs. [5]
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Invite him to a museum or concert.

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    [6] Aesthetics are everything to Libras and they spend a lot of time indulging this side of their personality. Your guy will find it very attractive if you’re into the arts, too. [7] You might invite him to do something like:
    • Check out a new art gallery with you.
    • Attend a foreign film festival.
    • Drop in at the local jazz club.
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Shower him with affection.

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    Since Libras are very image-oriented folks, they want the world to see them being worshiped by their partner. Your guy also simply appreciates the good vibes created by touches and caresses. Heavy petting, hugging, hand-holding, and smooches are all fair game. [8]
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Set the mood with candles and music.

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    Atmosphere is very important when you’re trying to romance a Libra! Light some scented candles, put a bottle of champagne on ice, and turn the lights down low to set the stage.
    • Libras love little details like these that create the perfect ambiance. Since Venus is their ruling planet, Libras want to be surrounded by beauty.
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Murmur sweet nothings into his ear.

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    Like all air signs, communication is a big deal to Libras. They’re also hopeless romantics, so saying passionate things to him is a great way to crank up the sexual tension and get things moving toward the bedroom. You might say:
    • "Are you ready to leave this party? I can’t take my eyes off you and I think we need some privacy."
    • "You look so handsome tonight. I feel so lucky."
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Be open about your likes and dislikes.

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    Again, air signs are all about communication, so your Libra will love it if you ask him exactly what he likes (and doesn’t like) in bed. He'll appreciate it if you open up about your preferences, as well. You might say:
    • "So, do you prefer slow caresses or do you like things to heat up more quickly?"
    • "Giving me a massage will definitely get me in the mood..."
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Be adventurous in the bedroom.

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    Routine is important to Libras outside the bedroom, but behind closed doors, that’s the last thing they want. Your man loves surprises and trying new things, so try to let loose and go with flow around this guy. You might say:
    • "Do you have any fantasies you want to share with me? I'm open to trying new things."
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    You definitely don't want to be rude or gross around a Libra man! They get turned off by somebody who is rude and they want women who are refined and intellectual.
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      2. ↑ https://www.zodiacguides.com/how-to-seduce-a-libra-man/
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